Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubhaptize umntwana ngenyanga?
Iingxabano kunye nengxoxo malunga nale ngxaki akunakulinganiswa, kwaye nanamhlanje wonke umntu ukhululekile ukwenza oko akufunayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngandlela-thile ucwangcise ulwazi olufunyenwe kwimithombo eyahlukileyo, ngoko kukho iindlela ezininzi.
- Ngoko, ngokuqhelekileyo ngombuzo wokuba unokwenzeka, nokuba ungabhaptiza umntwana, ukuba umnqamlezo uqalile ngokukhawuleza ngenyanga, abazali bajika kubafundisi. Yintoni engayifumani ngaso sonke isikhathi impendulo engabonakaliyo. Abanye abafundisi banqanda abafazi ngokuya esikhathini ukuba bangene ecaweni, kwaye baninzi bathatha inxaxheba kwisigramente. Abanye bayiphatha ngokukhawuleza baze bathethe ukuba oothixo bavele bamise eceleni, ngelixa omnye umntu ethatha umntwana usefonti. Kukho iimpendulo ezingapheliyo kumbuzo ukuba kungenzeka ukuba ubhaptize umntwana ngexesha lokuya esikhathini. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, kuyimfuneko ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimbono yombingeleli malunga nalokhu.
- Ngokwahlukileyo, ndifuna ukumisa isizathu sokuba ungeke ubhaptize umntwana omncinci ngelixesha. Esi siko endala kakhulu. Ngaphambili kwakukholelwa ukuba ibhinqa elisenyangeni lisithi "lingcolile" kwaye akufanele lingene ethempelini likaThixo kwaye lithinte iitempile. Umbuzo ngokuqinisekileyo uphikisana, kwaye nanko umehluko phakathi kweengcamango ezinjengokuthi "ukholo" kunye "nenkolo" kucacile ngokucacileyo.
Kutheni kwimihla yokuhlanjululwa kwemvelo yowesifazane wesisu, ukutyelela icawa kuthathwa njengesono, kungekhona wonke umntu uyaqonda. Emva kwakho konke, ukuya esikhathini kunokuthathwa njengesigaba sokulungiselela ukuzala kunye nokuzalwa komntwana, kwaye akukho nto iphosakeleyo nesono kulo. Ukongeza, ukuba ibhinqa lijika kuThixo ngeengcamango ezicocekileyo.
Ngamafutshane, impendulo engafanelekanga kumbuzo wokuba ubhaptize umntwana ukususela ngowokuqala ukuya kutsho lokugqibela lwenyanga nganye namhlanje. Kodwa ukwenzela ukuba ungaphuli izithethe ezigxininiswe ngokuqinisekileyo, umhla wokubhaptizwa ulungelelaniswe kangangoko kunye noothixo ngaphambili. Kwaye ukuba ukuhamba kwexesha kuqaliswe ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukucela iingcebiso kumfundisi.