Naluphi na uhlobo lwenkolo lujikelezwe ngobuninzi beentlanga. Akumangalisi ukuba umxholo wokuba umfazi okhulelweyo unokuya ecaweni, nokuba uyatshata umfazi okhulelwe, ubangela imibono eyahlukileyo. Ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda le ngxaki, kuyafaneleka ukuhlawula ingqalelo ngqo kwicawa yobuKristu ecinga ngale nto.
Ukhulelwe ecaweni
Iingcamango zokuba abafazi abakhulelweyo abakwazi ukuya ecaweni baphosakeleyo kwaye baxakile. Ngoko ke, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo kunye neentlupheko ezidlulileyo kuthi zivela kwisizukulwana esikhulileyo, ikakhulukazi kubakhulukazi bethu, zineengcambu ezicacileyo. Ngokomzekelo, kwakukholelwa ukuba abafazi abakhulelweyo ecaweni banokuba "jinx" kuphela, kuba ecaweni naseeholide kunabantu abaninzi.
Isizathu sesibini sasinakekelo lokuqala kwimpilo yowesifazane okhulelweyo, kuba ngexesha lokulindela umntwana umfazi uhlala ehlushwa i-toxicosis, kwaye isisu esikhulu sikhathazeka ngokuthe ngqo. Kwaye, umzekelo, ukucinga ukuba ngaba abafazi abakhulelweyo baya ecaweni, abaninzi banokufanisa neentsuku zokuya esikhathini, ngexesha lokutyelela icawa elithandayo.
Ukukhulelwa kunye neCawa
Umtshato uyisigramente, ebaluleke ngakumbi kuyo yonke ikholwa. Icawa ibhekisela emtshatweni njengesibusiso sikaThixo, esinikwe ekudalweni kwintsapho kunye nokuqhubeka kwentsapho. Enye into - umtshato wesifazane okhulelwe, kuba, kubonakala ngathi, umfazi, sele esesimweni ngaphandle kwemvume yeNkosi ngomtshato, sele esononi, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo le nyunyana kufuneka ibhekwe uhenyuzo. Enyanisweni, ngokweama-Orthodox amaKristu, wonke umntu unokuphendukela elukholweni kunoma yimuphi umzuzu. Ngako oko, akunakwenzeka kuphela ukutshata nomfazi okhulelweyo, kodwa kuyafuneka kwakhona, ukuba, ukuba umnqweno wokuya ecaweni awunakuguqulwa yimpembelelo, kodwa uvela entliziyweni.
Eyona nto ifanelekileyo ukuba abasandul 'ukutshata banokukhawuleza emva kokuba umthendeleko osemthethweni kwiarhente zobhaliso zikarhulumente uye ecaweni. Kodwa ukuba ngenxa yesizathu esithile umtshato kufuneka uhlehliswe, icawa ayithinteli inkqubo emva kwexesha. Ngaphambi komcimbi womtshato, isi sibini kufuneka sivume kwaye sithathe isidlo. Ngokutsho kwecawa, ukuba omnye wabasandul 'ukutshata akafuni ukutshata, umxinezele okanye ungammandla. Kule meko, ilungu elithembekileyo lentsapho elincinci liyakuthandazela isiqingatha sayo kwaye ilindele ukuba iqabane lifike kwisigqibo esibalulekileyo sisodwa.
Iziganeko zalo mbhiyozo
Umtshato kwicawa yowesifazane okhulelweyo uhamba kunye nemiba ethile enokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo ukuze kungabikho nto engayifaka umcimbi obalulekileyo kuwe. Inyani yinto yokuba inkqubo yomtshato ihlala malunga nemizuzu engama-40-60, ukuba uya kuvuma nzima kumfazi okhulelweyo emva komhla.
Umtshato ngexesha lokukhulelwa kufuneka ucingelwe ngokubhekiselele kwingcaciso encinci. Ngokomzekelo, kungcono ukukhetha ukhenketha iimpahla kunye nezihlangu ngaphandle kwesithende. Nceda uqaphele ukuba iimpahla akufanele zifake isisu nesifuba. Ngale ndlela uya kuziva ukhululekile kulo mbhiyozo.
Zonke iinkcukacha zomcimbi womtshato kufuneka zixoxwe ngumbingeleli kwangaphambili. Akukho mcimbi kufuneka umntu afihle isikhundla sakhe kuBawo oyingcwele. Khumbula ukuba ibandla lithatha ukukhulelwa njengobabalo lweNkosi.
Enyanisweni, ukucinga malunga nokuba ngaba ngabafazi abakhulelweyo bayaya ecaweni, okokuqala kufuneka niyazi ukuba ukukhulelwa kuyintsikelelo. Ngoko ke, abafazi abakhulelweyo ecaweni abakwazi ukuhamba kuphela, kodwa bafuna kwakhona. Kodwa emva kokubeletha kwiintsuku ezingama-40 zokutyelela icawa kungcono ukunqaba. Kulo xesha le ndawo iphela, kwaye umfazi uhamba ngexesha lokuvuselela.