Okumangalisa ngokwaneleyo, kodwa lo mbuzo awukuthandi nje kuphela abafazi bokuzalwa kuqala. Nangona ukukhulelwa kungowesibini okanye kwesahlulo sesithathu, ngokuqhelekileyo umfazi usenomdla. Kwaye kwakungekho yini isisu sayo esaphantsi kwexesha? Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukulinda ukuhanjiswa? Okanye kutheni isisu sehla, nangona lixesha lokuzala?
Kutheni isisu sifakwa kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo?
Masiqale iqela elikude. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba isibeleko ngexesha lokukhulelwa sinokutshintsha isikhundla sezitho kwisigxina sesisu somfazi. Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye, ke, akunakupheka. Kule meko, isisu sebhinqa sinokuba ngaphantsi kwezimbambo (ezikuthi, ngendlela, yimbangela yokuguquka, okudla ngokuhamba nabafazi abakhulelweyo). Ukongezelela, isisu esisilumkileyo sinokunyamezela kwimiphunga, eyanzima kakhulu ukuphefumula ekukhulelweni kwexesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, ukususela kwiiveki ezingama-33-34 zokukhulelwa, isisu sinokuhla. Oku kungenxa yokuba umntwana uhlala kwindawo ethile, ulungiselela ukuzala, okubizwa ngokuba yi-previa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukunikezelwa kwabantwana kuyintloko (kodwa abanye abafakiwe). Ngelo xesha, intloko yomntwana iwela kwintsimbi yomfazi. Kwaye ukuba ngaphambi kokuba kubekho ngqo kwisigxina sesisu, ngoko kwiiveki zokugqibela zokukhulelwa intloko idla rhoqo kwi-pelvis.
Emva kokuba isisu sisinciphise, umfazi okhulelweyo uyavalelwa kakhulu. Yenza kube lula ukuphefumula, akunakwenzeka ukuba ubuhlungu bubuhlungu. Emva koko, emva kokuba umntwana sele wehlise kwi-pelvis, umthwalo kwizitho zangaphakathi zowesifazane uya kuba ngaphantsi. Kwaye isisu, isibindi, isisu sithatha indawo ephumayo.
Ixesha lini isisu sisweleka kwiimfazana ezikhulelweyo?
Njengoko sele kukhankanywe, isisu singasuka phakathi kwekota yesithathu. Kodwa ekusebenzeni, kukho iindidi ezahlukeneyo. Kwenzeka ukuba isisu siphula kunye neveki ezingama-29, kwaye ngelo xesha kubakho abafazi abangazange balahlekelwe isisu zabo kwiiveki ezingama-39 zokukhulelwa. Ngaphezu koko, oogqirha ngamanye amaxesha baba ngamangqina eqinisweni ukuba kufikelele ekuzalweni kwaso isisu sisele kwindawo yaso.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ixesha apho isisu sithonywa kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo asisoloko sichaza indlela yokubeletha. Ngabesifazana abakhulu, isisu sisenokuhlahla kunye neveki ezine ngaphambi kokuzalwa, kunye neentsuku ezimbini. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba uthethe ixesha elingaphambili ngaphambi kokubonakala kweemvuthu ehlabathini, akukho mntu unako.
Nangona kunjalo, sinika ulwazi oluthile malunga nale nkqubo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, isisu siswele ezingamaviki ezingama-36 ezikhulelwe. Kodwa ukuba uneminyaka engama-35 (okanye sele usu-37) ngeveki yokukhulelwa kwaye isisu sehlile, awudingi ukusaba. Ngokukodwa ekubeni awukho nhlobo indlela yokuchaphazela le nkqubo.
Emva koko, makhe sikhulume ngexesha eliqhelekileyo eliye laphela ukusuka kwimeko apho isisu siphula ngexesha lokukhulelwa, de kube kuzalwa. Ixesha eliqhelekileyo liveki ezingama-2-3. Kodwa kwakhona, akukho mntu unokuqinisekisa ukuba isisu sakho sehla
Ixesha lini isisu esiswele ukukhulelwa komzimba kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo?
Kwakhona, sinika isalathisi sesalathisi. Abaninzi abasetyhini bathi ekukhulelweni kwabo okwesibini, isisu sabo sehlile kwiiveki ezingama-38. Kwakhona, ngokwemigaqo yedatha, kunye nesibini kunye nokubeletha, isisu siswele emva kweyokuqala, kwaye ukuba ukuhanjiswa kwenzeka ngaphambi kweveki ezingama-2-3 (ngokuqhelekileyo kungekho iintsuku ezi-7).
Uyazi njani ukuba isisu sakho sehla?
Kulula kakhulu. Ukuba isundu sakho sifakwa phakathi kwamabele akho nesisu, ke oku kuwuphawu olucacileyo lokuba isisu sakho sele sisezantsi. Kwakhona, musa ukulibala ukuba kuya kuba lula ukuphefumula, ukungabi ncitshulwa kwengqondo kuya kuvakalelwa, kodwa ngelo xesha kuya kubakho uxinzelelo olongezelelweyo kwi-vestium kunye nokuvakalelwa okungathandekiyo kwi-perineum.