Kunzima ukufumana intombazana engenakufuna ukudibana nomyeni wayo kunye nokutshata ngempumelelo. Ngelishwa, kodwa umntu unokuziqhayisa ngobomi bomntu siqu. Yingakho amantombazana efuna iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokutsala uthando . Abaninzi banomdla kwiyiphi impawu yokuthandaza umtshato kunye nokuhlangana nomntu ontle. Kukholelwa ukuba isibheno esiya ku-Amandla aphakamileyo anceda ukutshintsha imeko ukuba ibe ngcono.
Ngubani omele athandazele umtshato nobomi bomntu?
Ekubeni amaxesha amandulo abantu babefuna imithandazo kuThixo xa befuna umnikelo. Kukho neeholide ezininzi zeekolo ezidibeneyo nomtshato kunye nokudibanisa, umzekelo, umthi weKrisimesi, usuku lwe-Petrov, njl njl.
Ukuthetha ngumoya onjani ukuba athandazele umtshato, okokuqala kubalulekile ukukhankanya uMama kaThixo, kuba kuye kuye ukuba abesifazane abangaphezu kweminyaka elishumi bebejongene neengxaki zabo, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, bafumana uncedo. Indlela enamandla kunayo yonke, ukuncedisa ukufumana ulonwabo, ngu "Umbala ongapheliyo". Ngaphambi kwale icon, amantombazana ayacelwa ukuba abancede benze ukhetho olufanelekileyo ekufuneni kwabo isiqingatha sesibini. Amakholwa athi unguMama kaThixo onceda ekuxazululeni iingxaki zeentsapho ezinzulu.
Ukuba unomdla kwiyiphi enye icon onokuyithandazela umtshato, ngoko ufanele ubeke ingqalelo kumfanekiso we-Xenia wasePetersburg. Kukho iziqinisekiso ezininzi ezibonisa ukuba imithandazo phambi kwe-icon yolu ngcwele uncedo lokufumana uthando. UNicholas uMmangaliso, ova bonke abafuna uncedo, unokunceda ukulungiselela ubomi bomntu. Abathathi bentsapho yolonwabo nomtshato nguSt. Saintbrbr kunye noPetros, kuba ubudlelwane babo bubonwa njengomzekelo wothando nomonde. Amakholwa aseOthodoki abuyele kuwo
Ungathandaza njani umtshato ukuze uThixo ave?
Okokuqala, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye ecaweni uze uphendule kwiMandla aPhakamileyo ekuthandazeni ukuqinisa ukholo lwakho, cima iingcamango zakho uze ulahle izono zakho. Ukushiya, ukuba akukho icon yekhaya, yifumane kwisitolo secawa. Unokuyilungisa ingcwele ngamazwi akho, into eyona nto kukuba bafanele babe ngabanyanisekileyo baze bahambe entliziyweni. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukukholelwa ukuba oko kuyifunayo kuya kuba yinyani. Ungasebenzisa kwakhona imiyalezo ekhethekileyo yomthandazo. Kubalulekile ukucela uncedo, kodwa ungayifuni.