Iintsiba ziyaziwa ngabantu kuluntu lwamaxesha amandulo kwaye zidibanisa iingcamango zokuzikhukhumeza inkolo, inkwenkwezi yeenkwenkwezi kwimibutho yezorhwebo, ukuzingca, ukuzingca ngobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantu. Yintoni engamampunge, indlela ekuchaphazela ngayo abanye nabanye - iingcali ezilungileyo zeemiphefumlo yabantu - izafilosofi, abafundisi, i-theosophists, izazi zeengqondo, zizama ukuqonda.
Kuthetha ukuthini ubumbulu?
Iintsipho zivela kumagama amabini athi "ukungabi namsebenzi" kunye "nozuko." V.I. UDal - umphandi omkhulu wesiRashiya kwisichazi-magama esicacisayo uchaza ukuba umntu ongenalutho unomnqweno woluntu oluthile lokuzukisa, udumo, uzuko lwehlabathi, ukuqaphela izici ezintle. Umnqweno wokuba yintetho yencoko kunye nokuhaha kuya kuqwalaselwa kubantu nakwihlabathi lanamhlanje.
Iintsikelelo ukusuka kwinqanaba leengqondo
Izizathu zokuzifihla zifihliwe ebuntwaneni. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ekubunzeni ukuzithemba, umbandela obalulekileyo ukwamkelwa komntwana ngabazali, njengoko bevavanya impumelelo ethile yomntwana. Ukugqithisa kwendumiso kukuphazamisa ukucinga ngokwakho njengomntu, ukuzithemba ngokuzenzekelayo kukukhokelela ekutheni. Ngaba umntu uyazibona "isifo se-stellar" ngokwakho? Kukho iimpawu ezingento
- nwabe kukuthoba;
- umnqweno wokuguqula iziganeko ezizungezile umntu;
- Impendulo enobugwenxa kunoma yikuphi ukugxekwa (okwakhiwayo, okungekho okwakhayo);
- ukuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuhlukana ngezenzo (ukungafani phakathi kokuthetha nokwenza);
- indlela yokuziphatha.
Kuthetha ntoni umntu ongenanto?
Ukuzijonga njengomntu yinkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi, enxulumene neemvakalelo ngokugqithiseleyo okanye ukungabikho kwimvelaphi yemfundo engafanelekanga xa kungekho miqathango kunye nokuthintela nokuvunywa. Umntu ongenamntu ngumntu oqaqambileyo ekuqaleni, ukhangela abantu. Umphefumlo wengqondo wase-Austrian A. Adler, uthetha ngomntu ongenalucalulo njengoko ezaliswe kwimeko yokuba akukho ndawo kwabanye. Ubuncwane bubonakalisa njani:
- Ukubonisa iimvakalelo, iingcamango - ulawulo lwangaphakathi lungahlukana nokubonakaliswa kwangaphandle (injongo kukubamba ngokubanzi ngangokunokwenzeka ukuphulaphula).
- Ukuthotywa komnye umntu ukuze uzive uphakamileyo (kuboniswe ngaphezu kwabasetyhini).
- Umnqweno wokwenza imisebenzi emihle kwaye uxelele abanye ukuba "ndilungile".
- Isidingo esibalulekileyo "seenkwenkwezi" -engakwazi ukuthetha intsingiselo yomsebenzi, umsebenzi apho impumelelo ibalulekile kumntu (impumelelo kwimpumelelo).
- Umona ngokumalunga nalabo baye bafezekisa into ebomini.
Ubuncwane buhle okanye bubi?
Naliphi na into enemiba emihle neyiyo. Yintoni engamampunge wobuntu kwaye zikho ixesha elifanelekileyo kuyo - ngokubhekiselele kwintsebenzo? Kukho amaxesha amaninzi amaninzi, kodwa kukho iingcambu ezintle zokungafani:
- Unceda ukuphumelela nokuphumelela (ngokukodwa kwimiboniso yezoshishino);
- yindlela yokuqala yoluphi na umzamo womntu: ukufundisisa kwiziko eliziwayo, ukukhuthazwa kwimiba.
Yintoni engentoyiyo kwicala elibi:
- Ingxaki ebaluleke kakhulu yezinto ezingento yanamhlanje kukuba umntu akancedi uluntu kwaye ulungele yena ngokwakhe.
- Abantu abathintekayo, kunzima ukuba nobudlelwane obupheleleyo kunye nabathandekayo babo: ukukhukhuma kwabo, ukuzikhukhumeza nokuzikhukhumeza, bahlaziya abantu.
- Ukuphuhliswa kokomoya kungabikho, kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo umntu angena kwi-megalomania (psychopathology yobuntu) xa ecinga ukuba unamandla onke.
Ubuthixo kunye nokuzingca - yintoni umehluko?
Ukuzikhukhumeza nokuzimelela yintsimi ekuzikhukhuleni nangento engenamphunga "." Ukuqhelaniswa ngokugcwele komntu kuye, iimpumelelo zakhe. Iintsilelo zibhekwa njengento engabonakaliyo yabantu kunokuzingca. Ngento engenamsebenzi, umntu unokukwazi ukubona ububi bakhe "ukubeka indawo", ngokuziqhenya kukho ukungahoyikanga ngokuthe ngqo kwabanye malunga nomxholo wokuzizukisa. Kuzo zonke iinkonzo zehlabathi, ukuqhosha yisono esikhulu.
Ukuzikhethela kunye nokungafani nakubonakala
Umnqweno womntu ukuba ube ngowona ndawo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zentlalo uhlonishwa. Ukuze ube ngugqirha obalaseleyo, utitshala, ukuthatha uxanduva loxanduva lwakho kunye noxanduva lonke kwaye ube ngumzekelo kwabanye kubonisa ukuba unqwenela ukuthanda isantya, apho ingqalelo "engenanto" ithandwa ngumntu. Ukuzikhethela kunye nokungafani - kukho umgca ococekileyo phakathi kwabo xa umgangatho omnye ungaya kwelinye: ngoko umntu uqala ukuziqhayisa ngezinto ezidlulileyo kunye nokuba luncedo kangakanani kwimbono yakhe eyenziwe kuluntu.
Ungayichitha njani into engeyiyo?
Ngokukhawuleza xa umntu eqonda ukuba uyabanjwa ngokubaluleka kwakhe kunye nokuxhomekeka kwintlonelo, ukuqwalaselwa ngabanye, ulwela ukunyamekela kweqela - kunomsebenzi omkhulu wengqondo kunye wengqondo ukuzinqoba. Indlela yokujongana nabangenanto-iingcebiso ezimbalwa ezivela kwiingqondo zengqondo:
- I-Pragmatism yimiqobo ephakamileyo, inokumnceda ukuphelisa ubundlobongela kwaye ungaphumuli kwiimfuno eziye zaphumelela.
- Thelekisa impumelelo yakho kunye nempumelelo yabanye abantu - khumbula ukuba kukho umntu onokuqhayisa, obalaseleyo, ophumelele.
- Thatha umzekelo wabantu abadumileyo, abaphumelele ekuphumeleleni kwabo: uMama Teresa, uMahammad Ali, uKeanu Reeves - ubuntu obuqilileyo behlabathi
- Ukwabelana ngokuphumelela nokuphumelela kukuba impumelelo ngenxa yokuthatha inxaxheba kwabanye abantu ebomini bomntu. Ukwamukelwa kweli qiniso kunye nokubulela kubazali, ootitshala abadibana nomendo wobomi-banceda baphume kwiimeko ezingento.
- G.D. URoberts ngumlobi wase-Australia owaziyo, ukuba kwinto enokuba luncedo kangakanani ukufumana, ngezinye izikhathi ukuguqa intloko kunye nokuguqa kungumsebenzi omhle onxamnye nokungafani.
Yintoni engentoyiyo kwiOrdodoxy?
Kutheni ukungabi nantoni isono kwisithethe seOthodox? Kwi-movie eyaziwayo "uMmeli kaMtyholi", iqhawe lika-Al Pacino lithetha amazwi apho avuma ukuba into engeyiyo yezono abathandayo, uMtyholi. Umphefumlo wendoda enobuqhayisa ayikhuseli ngokuchasene nezilingo zamandla omnyama. Obawo oyingcwele ngeentsilelo:
- Iingcamango ezivela kuMtyholi, kodwa ayikaze zivela kuThixo.
- Iintsipho zibonakaliswa ngentukuthelo ekufutshane, ukuba baphila ubomi obungalunganga, endaweni yokuba babe ne mfesane baze bacele uThixo ukuba aqondise umntu wasemzini kwindlela elungileyo.
- Ngubani othethi kwaye uthethe into ngenxa yenkazimulo yehlabathi kuphela ayikho (Saint Basil Omkhulu).
- Umphefumlo wongenanto ngumgodi ngaphandle kwamanzi (uSt. Evagrius).
- Iintsipho ezinjengomoya ovuthayo-ukugubungela bonke ubuncwane bobuhle (iSt. John Chrysostom).
Indlela yokutshatyalalisa izinto ezingento-i-Orthodoxy
Ubuthixo buyisono esidla imisebenzi yomphefumlo womntu . Abafundisi bamaOthodoki banakekele ingqalelo kwiingcinga kunye nemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla - lo ngumzamo omkhulu endleleni eya kuThixo. Umzabalazo ongenamampunge kunye nokuzingca kubandakanya:
- thobeka;
- thozama;
- imisebenzi kunye nothando kunye nenhlonipho yonke into;
- isenzo sezenzo ezilungileyo, ukuze kungabikho namnye wabantu ababemjikelezile;
- imithandazo yokunceda ekupheliseni izilingo;
- ukuvuma phambi kobingeleli.