Mhlawumbi, akuyiyo imfihlo kunoma ubani ukuba kuzo zonke izilwanyana, kuyisibhobho sabantu esizalwe singaphendulwanga kwilizwe langaphandle kwaye lifuna ukunakekelwa ngononophelo kunye nokunakekelwa kwengqalelo kwinxalenye yomama.
Kodwa ke, kukho i-arsenal ebaluleke kakhulu "izakhono" apho umntwana azalwa khona, kwaye umnika ithuba lokuhlalisana aze afunde konke okuya kumvumela ukuba azimelele. Mhlawumbi isakhono esibaluleke kakhulu esisisigxina sisifo esilisayo. Nguye ovumela umntwana ukuba athuthuke ngokuvisisanayo, ukufumana kunye nobisi lonina konke okubaluleke kakhulu ukwenzela ukuba sikhule enkulu kunye nempilo. I-reflex esondayo iyalala kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwe-3.
Kodwa kukho iimeko apho i-reflex yokuthambisa ephazamisayo ikhusela umntwana ukuba angadli ngokuqhelekileyo. Makhe siqwalasele ukuba yintoni i-reflex esondayo xa iqala ukwenza, kwaye yintoni isizathu sokuphulwa kwayo.
Yintoni i-reflex yokutsala?
Xa ufaka umunwe emlonyeni womntwana, umntwana "uyayibamba" ngoncedo lwelwimi kunye nesantya kwaye uqala ukunyakaza kwesiganeko - esi siyi-reflex sucking. Iqala ukuphuhlisa ngeveki ye-32 ye-intrauterine yophuhliso, kwaye ekugqibeleni iqulunqwe ngeveki yama-36.
Ngenxa yoko, i-reflex yokusondeza kwiintsana zangaphambi komntwana ayiyi kuba khona, iyancipha okanye ayihambelananga nenkqubo yokuphefumula (kuxhomekeke kwithuba lomntwana). Ngako oko, isondlo seintsana ezingaphambi kwentsana yenziwe nge-tube, de kube umntwana "ekulungele" ukuncelisa.
Ukusilela ukutsala i-reflex
Iimbangela ze-reflex ebuthathakayo inokutshatyalaliswa.
1. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana uphapheme, akayi kulala kwaye ufuna ukutya. Ukwenza oku, slayida umnwe kufuphi nekona lomlomo. Ukuba umntwana ulambile, uya kuzama "ukuthatha" umnwe wakho, ukuwuthabathelela ingono.
2. Khangela ukuba sele uqhotyoshelise amabele amabele:
- isangqa somntwana sicinezelwe kwisifuba;
- Umlomo uvulekile;
- Umlomo ophantsi uphakanyiswa ngasemva;
- Umgama phakathi komlomo ophezulu womntwana kunye nengono mkhulu kunezantsi.
3. Ukuba umntwana unenkinga yokuphefumula (kunye nokuxinwa kwamanzi, ukubanda), oku kunokuba ngumqobo kumondlo, ngoko umntwana uya kuncipha ngephala, ngokuphazamiseka.
4. Kwakhona, imbangela ye-reflex ebuthathaka yokunyusa ingaba yinto engafanelekanga yeengono.
5. Ukuba awukwazi ukusombulula le ngxaki ngokwakho, qhagamshelana nogqirha, ekubeni ukunyanzelwa komntwana osondayo, kwaye ngokukodwa ukungabikho kwengcamango esondayo kungumqondiso wezifo ezinzulu zesistim se-nervous system.