Ubudlelwane obubini buvela phakathi kwabantu, xa bebancedisana ngokulinganayo. Kwiintsapho ezinobundlobongela obunjalo, ngamnye umfazi uziva ekhululekile, kunokwenzeka ukuba indoda kunye nomfazi baqondana kunye nesigidi-magama, bahlale besazi ukuba yimiphi imizuzu yokuxhasa, ukuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ngubani, yimiphi imisebenzi echanekileyo, njl.
Ubudlelwane obubini buya kuvela kunoma yimuphi umntu ukuba ufumanisa isiqingatha esifanayo kwimbono yakhe, emoyeni, kwi-intelligence, njl. Akunabo "abalungileyo" abantu abahlala bevuya emtshatweni kwaye "badle", abakwaziyo ukuhlala ebomini bentsapho. Ngokulula wonke umntu ofumene "iphazili" yakhe uyakwazi ukwakha ubudlelwane obunokwenene.
Ngokwezentlalo, iimbini zombini zivela ngokukhawuleza. Abantu abakha ukuxhasana omnye komnye abazange bazibonele ngokukhawuleza ukuba banenhlanhla kangakanani. Ekuqaleni kolwalamano olunjalo, konke kwenzeka ngathi ukuba ngokwawo - ekuqaleni baqala ukuthetha, ngoko kwaba ngumkhuba wokuhamba kunye, njl njl. Iintlanganiso zamaqabane abambini azihambisani neqhwithi leemvakalelo , kwaye wonke umntu unesivakalelo soxolo nentuthuzelo. Kuphela xa kukwahlukana, intombazana kunye nomfana baqonda ukuba kunzima kangakanani ngaphandle komnye nomnye, ukuba bangayifumani indawo yabo kwaye bazive ukuba abo abazungezile abaziqondi.
Umtshato wesibini
Umtshato wesibini utshabalalise ulonwabo nokuhlala. Abantu abagqibeleleyo abaqondayo bayakwazi ukuxabana. Zonke iimeko ezibuhlungu kwintsapho enjalo zibuyiselwa ngokubonga ngokuxhasa, ukuvelana nemvakalelo efanayo, Ukuba umntu uyadabuka, kuba kukho iingxaki emsebenzini, omnye umlingane akayi kuthatha intloko yakhe.
Nangona kunjalo, akubona zonke iibini ezenza ubudlelwane be-dualistic benza imitshato ngokubhekiselele kwiinkalo zentlalo. Abantu abangenalo ulwalamano olunjalo ebuntwaneni banoyika ukongeza kwabo ngokwabo okanye bakholelwa ukuba isiqingatha sesibini sihle kakhulu kwaye abafanelanga. Okanye, ngokuchasene noko, xa edibene nomlingane ombini, kukho ukuvakalelwa kukuba lo mntu ulula, akanamdla kwaye akayithandi ixesha. Emva kokulahla ubudlelwane obudityanisiweyo, umntu unokufumana ubomi obungonwabanga.