Abaninzi banenkxalabo malunga nombuzo wamadoda afana nomfazi. Iingcali zengqondo zithi, into yokuqala yinto umntu ebeka ingqalelo ngayo yakhe imbonakalo. Intombazana kufuneka ihlale ibeka iliso, inakekele ulusu lwakhe, iinwele zakhe. Imfashini kunye nesitayela yokugqoka. Iimvumba ezimnandi kuphela ezivela kuyo.
Ububele kunye nenkathalo kunye nenkxaso. Yiyiphi indoda engaphuphayo ngomfazi wayo ekudumiseni nasekuxhaseni kumaxesha anzima. Hayi, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuchasana kwenzeka - ukugxeka kunye nokuhlambalaza rhoqo.
Ukuzinikela. Wonke umntu ohlonipha yena ubuncinci akanakuze amxolele ukutshatyalaliswa kwakhe kwesiqingatha.
Uthando, ububele kunye nomsa. Nabani na umntu ulindela kumfazi wesisa kunye nomsa. Kwaye ekubeni loo ntokazi ibengumgcini wendlu, uzimisele nje ukugcina uxolo . Thanda amadoda, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo baya kukuthanda.
Yintoni abantu abafana nayo embhedeni nomfazi?
Amantombazana ebhedini njengento eninzi, kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu esiyibhalayo. Ngoko:
- Amadoda ahlambalaza ngamabhinqa abonisa isicwangciso sokulala;
- bathanda amantombazana alungele ukulinga, kunika umdla omtsha;
- Amadoda athembele ekudumiseni aze afune ukuva ukuba yiyona nto inesondo kwaye iyingqayizivele;
- Amadoda amaninzi afana nokulala ngesondo;
- Baqhwala ngeengubo zangaphansi zangaphantsi okanye izicathulo zendima;
- Ukumangaliswa kunye nokungazenzisi kwindoda yakho kuya kubangela ukuzonwabisa. Ukulala ngesondo ngokupheleleyo kwindawo engalindelekanga.
Kutheni amadoda afana nabasetyhini abadala?
Namhlanje oku akumangalisi kwaye kunemifanekiso elula. Intombazana encinci, ebhekene nobunzima kubundlelwane, ayiyazi indlela yokuziphatha kwaye ihlala iqalisa "ukuhlaziya." Nangona umfazi osekhulile, onolwazi namava, uzinikela ekukhanyeni okuhle. Uyakwazi ukunqanda ngokwaneleyo nayiphina iqela eliphikisanayo. Kukho ubuqili obuninzi ubudlelwane nomntu, okhe, ngelishwa, ngenxa yobutsha babo, amantombazana amancinci ayenawo.
Ngaba amadoda afana nabafazi abagciniweyo?
Kubafazi, umxholo wesisindo uhlala ufanelekileyo. Ngaphezu koko, abantu banoluvo lokuba bonke abantu abathandana nabo banqwenela. Kodwa siyazama ukuqinisekisa ukuba ngokwemiphumo yecandelo leentshukumo zakutshanje, ukuba amadoda amaninzi akhetha amantombazana angama-65 ukuya kuma-95 kg.
Ngexesha lophando, bafumanisa nabani abathanda abafazi abancinci. Kuyabonakala ukuba aba bantu bancinci abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-30. Kodwa amadoda aqolileyo ayebethanda ukuba amantombazana amancinci, aphelileyo, ahlambulukileyo.