Ngoko, bekuyiminyaka elishumi ukususela ngaloo mini evuyisayo kwaye ebalulekileyo, usuku lomtshato. Lo ngumhla wokuqala oqinileyo wabatshatileyo, ngoko ke, kuyafaneleka ukuphawula ngokufanelekileyo. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba awukwazi kakuhle esi sihloko kwaye awuzange uhlangabezane nokubhiyozela loo mihla ngaphambi? Ngoko uyigubha njani isiganeko somtshato weminyaka eyi-10? Makhe sibone!
Ukubhiyozela iminyaka eyi-10 yomtshato?
Funda amasiko! Kukho, umzekelo, isithethe sokugubha umtshato onjalo nabantu abafanayo abaye babhiyozela yokuqala. Okukuphela kwabantwana abakhe abonakalayo ngeli xesha.
Ngaphandle kwalokhu, eqinisweni, umtshato kufuneka uqhathanise negama, kwaye ekubeni umtshato ubomnyama, kufuneka uququze iholide kwiitoni ezimnyama. Ngoko, unokwenza i-sauce ebomvu, usebenze iwayini e-rose okanye ubenxibe ngemibala emnene, ngelixa ubeka umlinganiselo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuza kunye nento entsha ukumaketha iminyaka eyi-10, qhayisa! Ngoko uya kudala izithethe zakho, eziza kudluliselwa kwizizukulwana ezizayo. Okanye mhlawumbi ulungiselele iholide yokuqala, enokuyithanda.
Ulungiselela njani le holide? Ukutshintsha kwezinto ezininzi - ukusuka kwimibhiyozo enkulu, akukho ndlela iphantsi komtshato wokuqala, de kube yimini ebumnandi kunye. Kuye kuwe. Siqokelele ezinye zeendlela ezikhethileyo.
Kwaye okokuqala yinto yokutya yothando kwiindawo zokutyela ezilungileyo. Iholide leyo iya kubangela ulonwabo kubafazi abaninzi kwaye iya kunika ithuba lokungena ezintliziyweni zexesha elonwabileyo lobomi bakho.
Kodwa yintoni enye into esinokuyibhiyozela ngayo umnyaka weshumi lomtshato? Zihlele uhambo oluncinane okanye, ukuba iindlela zivumelekile, unako ukuya ngaphandle okanye uhambe apho ude ufune ukuya khona. Kule meko, awukwazi ukukhathalela ngesixhobo seeholide: kuya kuba luhambo ngokwalo. Kwaye asinakukwazi ukukhankanya uvuyo kunye nezinto ezintsha.
Enye into efanelekileyo kukumema abahlobo kunye nezihlobo, kodwa phawula ngokuthobeka, ekhaya. Isangqa sabantu siza kudala umoya ococekileyo wobuqu, kwaye kunye nocwangciso olufanelekileyo akukho mntu uyaxhalabisa kwaye nangona kunjalo - iholide iya kukhunjulwa ixesha elide kwaye iyakushiya into ekhangayo kakhulu.
Yintoni enokuyinikela ukukhumbula umtshato weminyaka eyi-10?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kuxhomekeke kwiminqweno kunye neminqweno yomntu ngokwakhe. Kodwa igama lomtshato lithetha ngokwalo: likhoyo kumfazi wakho i-roses ye-roses elishumi elinanye, ngaphezu koko, ngokwesiko, ezilishumi ezibomvu zibonakalisa uthando olushushu, kunye nomhlophe omnye uyisimboli sethemba lekamva eliqaqambileyo.
Musa ukulibala ngezinye izipho ezingahambelani ngqo nomtshato onjalo. Qaphela iphupha lomlingane, ukuba unako ukuyilungisa: uququze uhambo okanye, mhlawumbi, ufumane into awayeyilangazelela. Ukuthetha ngamadoda, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukukhethwa kwabameli banamhlanje besini esomeleleyo - ezi ziimodeli ezahlukeneyo zezixhobo, imodeli yeenqanawa okanye itanki. Ibhinqa linokuthi linikezelwe ngeempahla, mhlawumbi zize zenziwe ngokunyanisekileyo kwiitoni zepinki. Yenza ubuchule kwaye uqwalasele izinto ezikhethwa ngumlingane wakho.
Wonke umntu unemibono eyahlukileyo, indlela yokubhiyozela umkhosi womtshato iminyaka eyi-10, kodwa konke oku akubalulekanga xa kuthelekiswa neeholide ngokwayo. Umtshato wepinki ngumhla wokuqala wokuqala ebomini bomtshato, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukudibana naye ngokuchanekileyo nangokuzimisela ukuchitha iminyaka evuyayo.