Njani ukuqonda uvelwano lomntu okhulileyo?

Akunabo bonke abantu abakhawuleza ukuvuma kwiimvakalelo zethenda abazivelayo kumfazi. Isizathu sale nto sinokuba neentloni okanye ukuzithemba. Kwaye abadala abameli bezesondo eziqinileyo ziba, ukuvinjelwa ngakumbi kubonakaliso lweemvakalelo zabo. Kodwa inenekazikazi kufuneka yayazi impendulo kumbuzo, indlela yokuyiqonda intlungu yomntu okhulileyo. Ukwenza oku akunzima kunzima, kufuneka umlinde ngokucophelela.

Kuyintoni uvelwano lomntu kumfazi?

Iimpawu zenceba kubantu abaneminyaka yobudala obuhle kakhulu kwiindawo ezininzi ezifana nendlela abameli abancinci besondo abanamandla abonisa ngayo isimo sabo. Kuphela apha kukho okukrakra kakhulu nokuphakanyiswa. Ukuzithemba ngakumbi, isidima kunye nemisitho emihle.

Iimpawu zentshukumo efihliweyo yowesifazane zilandelayo:

• Ukwahlula ngokucacileyo kwisihlwele, uhlaziywa xa uvela, uqala ukuthetha amahlaya, ukwedlula ukuthetha;
• ukudibana nawe, uqala ngokuzenzekelayo ulungelelanise iikhephe zehembe lakhe, ityayi, iinwele, udonsa iqhosha, umlindi, njl.;
• kwiintlanganiso nganye uya kujonga kuwe ukusuka entloko ukuya enyaweni, ukuba abafundi bayanda - uyakuthanda kakhulu;
• Uzama ukukuchaphazela, engazi yena ngokwakhe - ukumxhasa ngendonga, ukunika isandla ukunceda ukunyuka, njl.;
• kha wuleza ukuba unike ijacket yakho, ukuba uqaphela ukuba ubuncinci obushushu;
• xa uthetha nawe ngezwi lakhe slip amanqaku amnandi, kwaye uyaphendula ngokukhawuleza, ukuba ngeli thuba uphazamiseka ngumntu ongaphandle.

Uba njani uvelwano lomntu okhulileyo obonakalisiweyo?

Uvelwano lomntu okhulileyo lunokumiselwa ziimpawu ezingentla, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba kuya kufuneka ukhangele ngakumbi ngokuphathelele ubuhlobo bakho.

Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba umntu onjalo uvelwano, Ngoko kulungele ukuhlawula ingqalelo, okokuqala, ukuba ihamba njani. Umzekelo, ukuba wakubona ngephutha kwisitrato waza wangena kwinqanaba lakho, ngoko oku kungumqondiso obalulekileyo wobudlelwane bakhe obukhethekileyo.

Umntu okhulileyo unamava kwaye udla ngokudanisa kakhulu ubudlelwane. Ngenxa yoko ubanda bakhe kunye nokuzibamba. Ngoko ke, ukuba kukho iintlobo ezibonakalayo emehlweni akho xa ebonakala, kwaye ubuncinci bakhawuleza, oku kuwuphawu oluqinisekileyo lwakhe lovelwano. Isiphetho esifanayo sinokuyithatha xa eqhubeka ecima imizamo yokudlala ngothando namanye amadoda, engaqiniseki ukuba uya kukukhusela kwimibono yabo, uya kuzama ukuthatha ingqalelo.