Zama ukuziphoqa ekuseni ukuthululela amanzi abandayo. Ukuba umntu uthanda uvakalelo olumnandi lomzimba, ukuvuya, udrenaline, nokulala njengoko isandla siya kususa, mhlawumbi, kuya kuba ngumkhwa. Enye, ngenxa yokwesaba, ukwesaba kwaye, ngokusemthethweni, ayithandi imigaqo yamanzi ayinakuyenza.
Ngoko uthando alukwazi ukuba "ngumkhwa nje". Ukuba awukwazi ukuhlula nomntu, enethemba lokuba akukho thando, nguwe kuphela ophethwe ngumkhwa, ulahlekile kakhulu.
Indlela yokuqonda uthando ngumkhwa kunye nokuba ukuqulunqwa kombuzo kuchanekile ngokwalo-makhe sizame ukuyijonga.
Uthando kunye neCigarettes
Abantu abanokuxhomekeka kwe-nicotine, enyanisweni, baxhomekeke kwimithwalo yabo yokuzonwabisa. Ukuxhomekeka kwabo kubangelwa ukuthandana nokuzonwabisa, abakufumana kwi-cigarette etshaya. Umzuzu omnandi wokuvula ipakethi entsha, ukukhwela kwe-lighting, i-elegance, umsi womsi womlilo, incoko engathandekiyo kunye nomnye osebenza naye ... Ezo zihlandlo ziyamnandi kumntu, uthanda ukutshaya. Lo mzuzwana usengokwengqondo ngakumbi kunokwenyama. Umzimba ulula ukuhlala usenqatshelwe ukutshaya, kukuphilisa ngokugqibeleleyo, okungeke kuthiwa malunga ne-psyche.
Yintoni eyayihlukisayo uthando kumkhwa kunye nendlela yokwahlula ngayo umbuzo onomdla kuninzi. Uthando luhlala luthando. Akuyena umkhwa ngesizathu esisodwa esilula: akunakwenzeka ukutyekela ezintweni ezingenanto kunye nokunyanyekayo kuthi. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba uthando luye lwadlula, uthando luye lwaphela, iqabane laqala ukucaphukisa, ngenxa yoko ukungahambi kwayo kwabonakala - akukho mntu uya kukugcina. Uya kukhangela ulonwabo lwakho ngomnye umntu. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuhlala, kodwa kungekhona ngenxa yomkhwa. Unokuyeka ukukhulisa abantwana, ukwesaba ukungabonani nabani na ongcono kwaye uhlala wodwa, unokubamba iqela lezinto eziphathekayo, kodwa kungekhona umkhuba. Kwiimeko ezininzi, kuyisizathu.
Ekubeni umkhwa uba yinto esiyathanda ukuyenza, kuthetha ukuba kuya kuba nengqiqo ukuthetha ngomkhwa wothando. Uthando luya kuba ngumkhwa xa kuvela kuqala. Umkhwa wokunyamekela, ukuthatha inxaxheba ebomini womthandayo - ukuziphatha kwethu kuya kuba ngumkhuba osekelwe eluthandweni. Kukho umahluko omkhulu kulo. Kukho umkhuba ohlukeneyo nothando alukwazi.
Ngamanye amazwi, uthando luyimfuneko ebalulekileyo yokwenza umkhwa.