Ukuze uxoxe "nabantu abangaqhelekanga", ababonakala bengabameli beesigqeba esisinyanisekileyo sabantu, babesazi ngakumbi, kuyafaneleka ukuba bafunde amava anentsingiselo ngabantu.
Inyaniso enomdla ngabantu
- Masiqale ngeqiniso lokuba amadoda ekucingeni kwabo ahluke ngokwenene kwabasetyhini: ukuziphatha kwabo kusekelwe ekubaleni nasekwenzeni ingqiqo, njengoko behlakulela kangcono ulawulo lwentsimbi yesinxele, ngokuchasene nabasetyhini abasemgangathweni, abakhokelwa yimvakalelo .
- Bathi kuloo ntlanganiso yokuqala, amadoda awazami ukuba "aguqule imiphefumlo yawo ngaphakathi," axelele abatsha, kodwa bakhetha ukuphulaphula. Ngoko ke, bafazi, ninalo ithuba lokufumana umhla wokuqala wokuphulaphula isiguli.
- Amaqiniso ngamadoda abonisa ukuba ayazi ukulala njengabasetyhini, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kungekhona - kukuxoka, ukuze ungakhubeki kwaye ungenzi buhlungu umlingane. Ngoko: uxokile, ngoko uyayithanda.
- Ukuba emva kokuqala kokuthandana nendoda engabizi ngaphakathi kweentsuku ezintathu, kuthetha ukuba akayikusetyelwa ukuqhubela ubudlelwane .
- Amadoda amanqabana aphikisanayo: afuna ukulawula ubudlelwane kunye nokuziva "eyona nto", kodwa kunye nabasetyhini abavumelana nabo kuyo yonke into, banesizathu esithile esithandekayo kwaye singathandeki.
- Amaqiniso ngamadoda ayayichasa isitatimende esithandwayo sokuba indlela eya entliziyweni yabo ihlala esiswini. Akunjalo kuphela. Ngaphezu kwe-45% babeya kukhetha ukudla isidlo kunye kunye nomfazi wakhe, owenza i-hairstyle entsha kwaye wathenga ingubo egqobileyo, kungekhona kunye nomfazi omhle wengubo yakhe yokugqoka kunye nezitya zokutya ezidliwayo.
- Abaninzi bacinga ukuba okuchaseneyo, nangona kunjalo, ngexesha lesini, amadoda axhalabele ukuba ngaba iqabane lifumene ulonwabo kulwalamano.
- Amadoda adinga abantwana abaninzi ngangokunokwenzeka ukunyamezela, kodwa abanye bawafuna ngokucacileyo, kwaye umntu uthe wabuhlungu ngaphandle kokunyamezela nokuthandana.
Konke oku kubonisa ukuba indoda emphefumlweni ihlala ingumntwana iminyaka emininzi, nangona kuboniswe ukuzimela nokuzimela. Ngoko baqonde!