Umbuzo wokuba ingaba isisu singenzeka emva kokuya kwesisitho kubafazi. Oogqirha kunye namazinyo ababelethayo, baqaphele ukuba abanye abancinci nabafundi abanamava bakholelwa ngokungafanelekileyo ukuba akunakwenzeka ukukhulelwa iintsuku ezimbini ngaphambi kweentsuku ezintathu emva kokuya esikhathini. Le ngqungquthela isalulakisa ubulili obuhle. Kwaye oku kuchazwa ngethuba lokuba ngexesha lamaSoviet "kwakungekho bulili kweli lizwe" kwaye imibuzo ehlobene nobomi obusondeleyo yayidlwengulwa. Abantwana belo xesha bafunyanwa kwiklabishi kwaye kungekhona wonke umntu owayefuna ukwazi ukuba abantwana abangafunekiyo bemimemoni basala ezindlwini zentsana. Kodwa ukuba aba bafazi bekwaziswa malunga nayo yonke imiba yobomi bezesondo, kubandakanya ukukhulelwa komzimba kunye neempawu zomzimba wesetyhini, abantwana abangafunekiyo baya kuba ngaphantsi, kunye neengcamango malunga nokuba emva kokukhawuleza kwenyanga, kwakungeke kube khona kumaxesha aseSoviet .
Kukho enye intsomi ekhuthaza iintloko zabasetyhini abaninzi abaphupha ngokubonakala komntwana wesini esithile. Kodwa uyayiphikisa inkolelo yokuqala, ebhekiselele ekungenakwenzeka kokukhulelwa kwangoko emva kokuya esikhathini. Abantu bathi xa ukhulelwa umntwana emva kwenyanga, kuqiniseke ukuba kuqinisekiswe ukuzalwa kwentombazana. Kule nkalo, oogqirha basabela ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuba le nto ingummiselo. Ukwabelana ngesondo lomntwana akucaci kwangaphambili. Kwintombazana ayidli, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zingaphi iintsuku zokuziyeka, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zithini iintsuku zokulala ngesondo, ngokufanayo isondo lomntwana aluxhomekeke kule miba. Ungatsho ngokuphepha ukuba imbopheleleko yokubanjwa kwentombazana emva kwenyanga yinto nje yamahemuhemu.
Ukufumaneka komntwana emva kokuya esikhathini
Ukuze uphendule umbuzo wokukhulelwa emva kokuya esikhathini, kuyadingeka ukhumbule iimpawu zomjikelezo wesini kubafazi. Ukukhulelwa akunakwenzeka ngexesha lokuya esikhathini ngenxa yokuphuma kwegazi. Kodwa abasetyhini bafanele bakhumbule ukuba ngeli thuba umzimba unobungozi kakhulu kwaye unobungozi kwiintsholongwane. Yingakho kukufanelekile ukugwema oonxibelelwano olungakhuselekanga.
Kwiintsuku zokugqibela, xa iimfihlo zingenayo ininzi kwaye zinomdla wokukhawuleza, amathuba okukhulelwa emva kokuya esikhathini. Oku kuyinyaniso ngokukodwa ukuba umjikelezo wesini ukuya kwabasetyhini, kwaye i-spermatozoa iyasebenza kakhulu.
Kakade ke, elowo mfazi unemzimba wakhe. Kodwa ukuba le ntombazana inomjikelezo oqhelekileyo kwaye ubude benyanga incinane, ngoko unokuzama ukuthatha ingozi. Nangona kunjalo, simele sikhumbule ukuba kukho ukuhlala kukho ukungaphumeleli kumjikelezo.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba indlela yekhalenda yokukhusela ayisoloko isebenza kakuhle. Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezingatshintsha umjikelezo. Phakathi kwabo, indlela yokuphila engasondelanga, ubomi bokulala ngokwesondo, ukungondleki, ukutshaya, ukusela utywala, ukuhamba, uxinzelelo okanye izifo zesini.
Ingagqitywa ukuba iintsuku zokuqala emva kokukhulelwa kwenyanga kunokwenzeka. Ugqirha uye wabonisa ukuba ulwazi malunga nokungakwazi ukukhulelwa ezinsukwini zokuqala emva kokuya esikhathini, oku kungenye enye inkolelo. Abaninzi abasetyhini abakholwa kuye, ngoku ngekhefu lokubeleka. Kakade, ithuba lokukhulelwa
Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba naphezu kwayo yonke into, ukukhulelwa nokuzalwa komntwana ngummangaliso. Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba umntwana unikwe isibini ngasinye esibhakabhakeni, ngoko ke singakwazi ukusitsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba esi sisipho sesigwebo. Ukuba awulungele ukuzalisa intsapho okanye ngesizathu esithile, wanquma ukuyeka ukuvela kwintsana - zikhusele, kwaye ungakholelwa kwiinkolelo!