Kungekudala, abantwana baninzi bafumanisa ukuba banesifo esibi. Umzali ngamnye wesibini uyazi malunga neli gama, kwaye ngamnye umzali wesithathu ngokwakhe ubiza umnxeba wakhe. Kodwa ngaba kunjalo ngokwenene? Okanye thina bazali, kunye "noogqirha-abahlaseli", siphula ubuntu bomntwana.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuxilonga ngokuchanekileyo esi sifo, kuba imbono yeempawu zayo iphosakeleyo. Ngaba bonke ogqirha baya kuba nako ukuchonga ngokuchanekileyo umsebenzi othile we-system ye-nervous ehambelana nesi sifo?
Iimpawu zokungabi nangoxinzelelo zibhekwa njengezinto ezilandelayo zokuziphatha komntwana:
- ukuphazamiseka kwengqalelo;
- ukungakwazi ukugxila kwisifundo esinye imizuzu engaphezu kwemihlanu;
- ukuhamba ngokugqithiseleyo, kuquka ukuhamba kwesandla kunye nesimo sombuso;
- ukulahla ekukhulululeni intetho okanye ngokuphambene nento - ukuthetha;
- ukungabonakali kwamagunya kumntu omdala;
- ubuhlungu, ukuziphatha kakubi kuontanga okanye ngokuphambene nokuzimela;
- ekhanda rhoqo;
- ukuxuma;
- i-tic nerves.
Yintoni eyona nto inomdla - iimpawu zokugqibela ezintathu zisoloko ziyimpembelelo embi kwonyango lokunyanzeliswa kwabantwana. Emva koko, kubandakanya ukusetyenziswa kwengqondo ezinamandla, enye yazo ikulungele iqela le-amphitaminic. Ukunyanga kwengqondo yokunciphisa umntwana kunciphisa ukuba umntwana uyondliwa ngokukhuthaza okanye ukuguqula. Ewe, kulula ukufezekisa umphumo oyifunayo - umntwana uba ngumntu othobelayo, obuthathaka. Kodwa ngaba oku kuchanekileyo kuphuhliso olubanzi lwasemntwaneni kunye nokuqonda kwakhe, kwikamva, umsebenzi kunye nenjongo ebomini?
Unokumisela njani ukunyanzeliswa komntwana?
Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umntwana akakwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe nokuziphatha kwakhe. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuba uyayiqonda ukuba oku kuyimvimbela, kungekhona wena, oogqirha okanye ootitshala. Zama ukudibanisa neurologist kunye nengcali yeengqondo.
Ukuxilongwa, oogqirha kufuneka balandele amanqaku alandelayo:
- Ukuqhuba incoko nabazali nomntwana.
- Ukukhokela ekuqhubeni i-encephalogram yengqondo.
- Ukuphumeza ukuhlolwa kwengqondo.
Unokukrokrela ukunyaniseka komntwana ukuba:
- ngexesha lokukhulelwa umama otywala kakubi, ukutshaya, izidakamizwa;
- kwakukho inkqubo ekhuselekileyo yokukhulelwa, iingxaki zokungena kwe-oksijeni kwi-tube ye-neural ye-fetus;
- kukho indawo eyayiza kuzalwa;
- kwakukho ukubeletha kwexesha elide okanye ngokukhawuleza;
- kwakukho umjovo owenziwe ngamathumbu omzimba oshukumisayo kumama ngexesha lokubanjwa;
- kwakukho ukulimala kokuzalwa kwentloko kumntwana;
- kwakukho izifo, ezichaphazela ingqondo, eyafumaneka ngexesha lokubeletha.
Ukunyaniseka nokunyanzelisa unyango
Ukufunyaniswa kobugqwetha ngokusemthethweni kufakwe iindidi eziliqela:
- Ukungaziphathi kakuhle ngongoma.
- Ukunyaniseka ngaphandle kokunqongophala.
- Ingqalelo yokusilela ngaphandle kokungasebenzi.
Zonke iindidi zokungahambi kakuhle ziphathwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo, ngokwasemzimbeni, kunye nokuxilonga okuzodwa, kunye nokulungiswa kwengqondo.
Ukulungiswa koxinzelelo
Unyango lwonyango lokuxhatshazeka luyimfuneko kuphela kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu. Kodwa ayikwazi ukwenza okulungileyo, kodwa kunokunjalo, kungonakalisa umntwana. Ekubeni kunemiphumo emibi.
Kwakhona, ukuhlaziyeka nokuphucula ukunyanga kunye nokunyangwa kwonyango kusetyenziswa. Kodwa akunakwenzeka rhoqo ukunyanzelisa umntwana ukuba ahlaziye, kuba kukho abantwana abangenasiphelo.
Ukulungiswa kwengqondo kubandakanya umsebenzi wengcali yengqondo kunye nabazali bomntwana. Kufuneka ukuba ufunde ukuzithiba kungekhona kuphela kumntwana, kodwa ngokuzenzekelayo. Thetha naye rhoqo ngekholi ezolile. Zama ukunika imiyalelo emfutshane engenayo into eninzi ngexesha elinye. Umzekelo: "Qoqa iimathoyizi," esikhundleni sokuba "Hlanganisa iitoni uze udle isidlo sasemini." Emva koko intsana ayiyi kulahlekelwa kwaye idideke.
Musa ukunyanzelisa ukunyusa umthwalo, ingakumbi yengqondo. Khuthaza impumelelo yomntwana. Hlela imodi yosuku kwaye uhlale uyigcina.
Dlala kunye nomntwana kwimidlalo ethule: uqoke iipuzzle, abaklami, udwebe, njl. Kwaye ukukhutshwa kwamandla aqokelelweyo, kunika umntwana kwiqonga lemidlalo.
Ukunyamekela kakhulu ukulungiswa kwee-homeopathic. Abanalo mphumo onamandla kwimisebenzi yesimiso senzwa. Ezi ziyobisi zifuna umonde, kuba ziya kuqala ukusebenza ngaphandle kweenyanga ezintathu. Fumana ugqirha ofanelekileyo we-homeopathic kwaye ubonisane naye malunga nokunyangwa kwengqondo.
Ingxaki yokuxhatshazwa komzimba iyagxininisa kwaye inemeko. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba umntu ngamnye uhlukile. Mhlawumbi abanye abantwana bakuthola kunzima ukufumana indlela kunabanye. Kodwa abantu abaphulaphuleyo nabanothando bayakufumana.