Ukuqwalasela into yokuba amadoda ayakuthanda amehlo, abafazi banamhlanje bathatha le ngxube ekusebenzeni baza baqalisa ukuzisa umzimba wabo ngokusondeleyo, ukufaka i-silicone kwisifuba, ukususa iimbambo, ukunyuka kweenwele kunye ne-eyelashes, njl njl. Nangona kunjalo, amadoda awanalo abafestile kwaye, ngaphezu kwendlela ebonakala ngayo, thobela ingqalelo kwilizwe langaphakathi labasetyhini.
Ziziphi iimantombazana ezifana namadoda ngokubonakala?
Ukugcinwa kakuhle . Ewe, akukho mntu uthi ukubonakala akubalulekanga, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba akunjani na lona wesifazane, kodwa ukuba uzinikela njani. Unokuphikisana okuninzi malunga neeparitha zesifuba, isinquno kunye neziqhenqo, kodwa ukuba bonke bebonke babonakala ngokulinganayo, ngoko ke kummeli onobulungisa, loo mntu uya kuhlala ehlawula ingqalelo. Ngoko ke, abo banomdla kuzo, njengamadoda akhule ngokugcwele njengamadoda, kuyafaneleka ukuba siqaphele ukuba le ngxaki yenkcazelo, kodwa ukuba imele ibe yinto efanelekileyo yokulungiswa.
Preppy . Into ebonakala ngayo ibhinqa kwaye into egqoke nayo ibaluleke kakhulu. Izambatho zifanele zibe zicocekile kwaye zicoceke, kwaye makungabikho nto ebiza kakhulu, kodwa ehlezi kakuhle kwaye engekho inhlamba. Kuyafana nokwenza iimpepha . Bambalwa abantu abanokuthanda umbala ogqithisileyo okanye ongenayo "ukulwa". Amadoda athanda kakhulu ngokugqithiseleyo ukugcizelela ubuchule kunokuba utshintsho olupheleleyo ekubonakalweni ngoncedo lwezonyiso.
Yintoni efuneka ukuba ibhinqa ithande amadoda?
Ukungabikho nokhuselo kunye nesetyhini . Njengoko uyazi, bonke abantu bangabakhokeli bezilwanyana, abanqobi nabazingeli, ngoko ke banqwenela ukukhusela nokunyamekela ibhinqa elibuthathaka, elinobuthathaka, elilukhuni. Kule nto kubamabhinqa, kwaye bakulungele ukwakha ubudlelwane kuphela nalabo abangacingi ukuthobela ubunkokheli kwintsapho. Ukuba unomdla wokwenene kunye nokunyamekela kwiqabane lakhe, ukuqwalasela izinto ezithandwayo kunye nezenzo zakhe, uya kukulungele ukuthwala izandla zakhe, kwaye ukuba unako ukuxolela nokuhlala ethembekile kumntu wakhethiweyo, uya kuthandazela kuphela.
Ukuzithemba . Nangona kunjalo, isidalwa esinamandla esinqwenelekayo esingenalo uluvo, ummeli wesini esomeleleyo akayi kutsalela. Iqabane kufuneka libe "ngomyeni wayo", kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo lizithembele, lihloniphe kunye nabanye, liphuculwe ngokwengqondo. Kwiminyaka yobugcisa obutsha, xa yonke into ilinganiselwa ngemali, amadoda ayesaba kakhulu ukusebenzisa, ngoko afuna umfazi ongenakho ukuzimela, ongathandabuzekiyo. Oku kufuneka kukhunjulwe ngabo bafuna ukuhlala kakuhle ebomini kwixabiso lomlingane. Ngelo xesha, abo bafazi abangabalulekanga nantoni na bazimisele ukuzinikela kwaye banikeze ngokubanzi kunokwenzeka.
Emancipated . Ewe, umxheshana osondeleyo wombuzo ubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa apha kwakhona abafazi baya kude kakhulu. Bayiqwalasela kakhulu esi sihloko, bagxininise kwizinto abafazi abathanda ngayo amadoda ebhedini, bezama ukubonisa ngobusuku bokuqala konke abakwenzayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, indoda iya kuvuyiswa ngumlingani wesini, kodwa kuvela kule ngcamango ukuba uya kuqhubeka eyiqwalasela kwaye uya kuthi, kwaye ubuhlobo besikhathi eside bukhetha ngokungaxinzekanga kwaye luvulele yonke into emitsha, ilungele ukufumana uvuyo, kwaye lunike, kwaye Ukuba kukho iimvakalelo phakathi kwamaqabane kunye nokutsala.
Kule sihloko, ungathetha ixesha elide kwaye uninzi, uphikisana malunga nokuba ngaba amadoda amade afana nabafazi abancinci, kwaye abaqinisekanga ngokwabo - uhlobo lwabasetyhini bezoshishino, abakulungele ukugqiba yonke into kubo. Yonke into iyodwa, kodwa izazi zeengqondo azidinanga ukuphindaphinda ukuba ulwalamano oluhle kunye nomtshato omele ukwakhiwa kuphela kunye nomntu onomnqweno omkhulu wokumvuyisa. Akusiyo ukuba ukhangele inzuzo eninzi, kodwa zama ukungazikhohlisi.