Kukho uhlobo lwabasetyhini, ekhangele kuyo, kubonakala ngathi banomdla. Ngako oko, amadoda amaninzi acinga ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba athathe ingozi kwaye akafisi ukujwayelana naloo nto. Emva koko, ekudibaneni nabantu abanjalo besini esahlukileyo, abayiboni nayiphi na ithemba elithuthuzelayo. Ewe, kwaye babecinga ubuntu, banjenge-stocking eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kungekhona njengento yobuntombi.
Masizame ukufumanisa ukuba ngabaphi abafazi ababizwa ngokuba yintetho ezinzile, yintoni imbali yemvelaphi yegama elithi "i-blue stocking" kwaye yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ukuba inganikezelwa ngesihloko esinjalo.
I-phraseology yiyo "i-blue stocking". Imbali yokuvela
Kukholelwa ukuba inkulumo ethi "i-blue stocking" yavela ngo-1760 e-UK kwi-salon yomlobi waseMontague. Enye ingcaciso ithi umntu osebenzayo kuluntu ngumguquleli oyedwa, isityalo senzululwazi, umbhali we-Stillingfleet. Esikhundleni samasitokisi amnyama ase-black, ukugqoka okwakuboniswa ngumqondiso, wayenxibe iisokisi ze-wool blue. Ukuba uthe waphoswa kwiseseshoni ye-salon, ibandla lathi alikwazi ukuqala ngaphandle kwe "bhokisi eluhlaza". Okokuthi, "indoda" yokuqala yanikezelwa ngesi sihloko. Kamva baqala ukubizwa ngokuba ngabameli bezesondo ezibuthathaka, ababenomdla kwenzululwazi kunye noncwadi, abangazange babone ukuba kuyimfuneko ukunyamekela okanye ukudala intsapho, njl njl. Ngokukhawuleza, uluntu lwaqala ngolu hlobo ngokuthi "iBlue Stocking Society".
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Ngoko, eParis, ngekhulu le-17 kwakukho i-salons, indima ephambili eyadlalwa ngabasetyhini. Bakha igama elithi "abafundi bafunde". U-Anna Moore, owayeseBrithani "iBlue Stockings Society" kwenye yeengoma zakhe ezingenangqondo, wathi igama lesiFrentshi lavela kwiinguqu ezingalunganga kunye nelizwi eliqhelekileyo elivela kwiiNgesi igama elithi "bluestocking".
Kwenye yemisebenzi kaChekhov umntu unokuhlangabezana nomntu onjalo obizwa ngokuba yi-"stocking blue": "
"Kukuhle kukuba ukubeka impahla eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka." I-Blue stocking ... Yeka! Ayikho ibhinqa kwaye ingenguye umntu, kwaye ngoko ke phakathi phakathi, akunjalo nakulo. "
Umfazi - "ugcini oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka"
Akuyi kuba yinto enqwenelekayo ukugqiba ukuba yeyiphi na ibhinqa abayibiza ngayo.
Ngoko, abantu abanjalo bangaphandle babonakalisa ngobunqamlezo kunye nokuthozama kweembonakalo: ukungabikho kwezinto zokugqoka, izimonyo, iinqweliso ezintle, isitayela seempahla zokugqoka, nto ayikho into engafanelekanga kumfanekiso wangaphandle. Ngokwemvelo yabo, abo basetyhini banqabileyo, banokuhlala bedibana nomsindo onobuhlungu, onobuhlungu, onomsindo. Ukuba "i-blue stocking" kwaye yakuva into ethile ngokudlala ngothando, iinqhinga zamabhinqa, i-coquetry, ngoko ebomini bam wenqaba ukuyisebenzisa ngenxa yezizathu.
Abafazi abanjalo bazimisele ukuzinikela zonke izinto abathandayo, sebenze kanzima, oko "ukugcinwa kwempahla eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka" kuthetha, unempawu ezintle ezinokubongwa.
Okumangalisa ngokwaneleyo, kodwa lona wesifazane ongavamile, oqhelekileyo uyakwazi ukumthanda umntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo "ukugcinwa kwesibhakabhaka" kukhangeleka ukuzola, ukuvuthwa, okwenziwe ngummeli wesigxina esisisiseko sabantu. Yena, okokuqala, uyayixabisa ubunzulu behlabathi elingaphakathi, ubuchule beengqondo zabasetyhini kwaye bafumana izihluthulelo entliziyweni yowesifazane onobuchule obunzima.
Abasetyhini - "i-blue stocking" bakhetha ukuchitha ubuninzi babo
Akunakuba njani ukubeka impahla eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka?
Ukuba uqonda ukuba unganamabhinqa, ukuzithemba, ngoko enye yeendlela ezingabi "yi-blue stocking" ukuphindaphinda, ukuqinisekiswa kokuzithemba. Okanye ufuna ukuphuhlisa izakhono zonxibelelwano kunye nolwahlukileyo, kunye nabantu ngokubanzi. Zama ukubheka ibhinqa, bukela impawu yakho, ukuziphatha, ukuziphatha.
Ngoko ke, elowo mfazi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unelungelo lokufunda ulwazi lwesayensi okanye ukhetha ukuchitha ixesha elikhululekile ukuzithengela iingubo, kufuneka aqonde ukuba kufuneka ahlale ehlakulela ubufazi. Emva koko, oku kusisiseko somntu nawuphi na umfazi.