Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, umbuzo wokuzihlaziya umququzeleli wonke umntu. I-swallow swallow and motivation kule nkqubo enzima kukuba, ngokunganeliseki, ukunganeliseki ngobomi bakho. Bambalwa abantu baneliseke ngokupheleleyo ngobomi babo kunye nendawo yabo kuluntu, kodwa ukuze batshintshe indawo yabo, isimo kunye nendlela yokuphila, kufuneka siqale ukutshintsha. Ukuphuhlisa ubuchule babo, wonke umntu unako ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi.
Iimvavanyo zanamhlanje, ngokomoya nangokwengqondo zinika ukhetho olubanzi ngakumbi lweendlela zokuzihlaziya kunye nokuzihlakulela, nangona kunjalo, umntu ngamnye umntu uyindlela, ukuhlukana kweendlela zokuzikhusela kunye nezigaba zokukhula komntu. Ukusebenza kwiimpazamo zabo nokulwa nobuthathaka obukhusela umntu ukuba ahlakulele kufuna umzamo omkhulu, isishukumiso esinzulu kunye nesenzo esiqhubekayo.
Omnye unokunika iziphakamiso eziqhelekileyo malunga nendlela yokuqalisa ukuzithuthukisa kunye nokuziphucula ngokwabo, unike imizekelo kwaye ubonise izikhombisi-ndlela, kodwa into ephambili kule nkqubo ngumnqweno wobuqu kunye nomsebenzi omkhulu womntu ngokwakhe. Isigaba sokuqala kule ndlela siyakhuthaza kunye nokujoliswa kwinjongo.
Iindlela zokuzihlakulela kunye nokuziphucula
Ukwazisa ngokwakho njengomntu, ukuhlaziywa kweempazamo zakhe, iimpumelelo, iimpawu ezilungileyo nezimbi zinika umntu ithuba lokuqonda ukuba kutheni engakwazi ukufezekisa iinjongo ezithile. Okokuqala kukho konke kufuneka ukhumbule iinguqu zokuguqula ubomi bakho kwaye wenze uluhlu:
- Izenzo ezenza ubrakra okanye ihlazo.
- Izibhengezo ezihlaselwa kuwe nawe.
- Uluhlu lweengxaki ezikhusela ukuhlala nokuphuhlisa.
- Iimpazamo zomntu ezithintela impumelelo.
Ukuzihlaziya nokuzihlakulela ubuntu akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kokuqaphela iimpazamo zabo, iimpazamo kunye netyala, kuba bahlala kubo bonke abantu. Musa ukukhangela abo banezono zabo zokungaphumeleli. Nangona ibali lobomi bakho liba yinto engafanelekanga kwaye ibuhlungu, kufuneka uyiphathe ngokucacileyo kwaye idibene, njengokuthi ufunda ngomntu ongaphandle. Xa uqaphela, loo mzuzu ebomini bakho, xa ungahambanga kunye nomendo wakho, wawa phantsi, uyaqonda, uyamkele kwaye uxolele wena nabanye. Ukususela kwangoku, ukuzithethelela, ukuzimela kunye nentukuthelo kuya kuba yisifundo kuwe kuphela.
Indlela yokuphucula ukuzimela kunye nokuzikhusela ngokwayo iqulethwe ngamanyathelo amanyathelo ayisiseko, ehlanganisa onke amanqanaba obomi:
- phuhliso lo komoya;
- isimo sengqondo;
- ingqiqo;
- impilo yomzimba;
- mpu melelo;
- isimo sezenhlalakahle.
Akunakwenzeka ukutshintsha kuphela kwicala elinye, kuba yonke into ebomntu idibanisene kwaye idala isakhiwo esinye somntu . Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukufezekiswa kwenjongo akuyona inkanuko yokukhawuleza, kodwa umsebenzi onzima wemihla ngemihla. Qala "idayari yakho yokuphumelela" kwaye ubhale phantsi imihla ngemihla kunye nempumelelo yakho encinane kunye nezicwangciso ngosuku olulandelayo.
Phakathi kweencwadi ezahlukeneyo ekuphuhliseni ubuntu kunye nobuchule, umntu unokufumana iincwadi ngokuzihlaziya ngokwakhe kwaye enze uluhlu lwababhali abalungileyo. Ngokweengxelo zabafundi kunye neengcebiso zeengqondo zeengqondo, unokuzisa kuphela inxalenye encinane yeencwadi ezifanelekileyo eziza kukunceda uziqonde kwaye ufumane indlela yakho:
- I-Peel Norman "Amandla Okucinga Okulungileyo".
- USteva Pavlina "Uphuhliso Lwabantu Bantu Abahlakaniphile".
- UJohn Kehoe "I-subconscious ingenza nantoni na."
- UDmitry Leushkin "I-Turbo-Ground Squirrel".
- Konstantin Sheremetyev "I-brain-drive-drive. Indlela yokulawula i-subconscious. "
- UAdam Jackson "Iimfihlelo ezili-10 zovuyo".
- UVictor Vasiliev "INcwadi eNgcacileyo".
- U-Eric Berne "Imidlalo edlalwa ngabantu."
- UDan Millman "Indlela Yombutho onoxolo".
- Eckhart Tolle "Amandla okwangoku ngoku."