Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, abazali ababancinci bacinga malunga necawa yomntwana wabo, kodwa ababaninzi bazi ixesha lokubhaptiza intsana, kwaye yimiphi imigaqo ebalulekileyo ekufuneka ibonwe. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba sikhumbule ukuba le ngcwele, kwaye ayihloseli kuphela ukukhusela umntwana, kodwa kunye nokubandakanya umntwana ebandleni, Orthodoxy. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuyithatha ngokungqongqo kwaye ulungiselele kwangaphambili isakramente.
Ukulungiselela
Emva kokuba ugqibe kwisetempile, xelela umfundisi wendawo kwangaphambili malunga neengongoma eziphambili zezenzo ezingcwele. Uya kukuxelela xa kubhetele ukubhaptiza umntwana osanda kuzalwa, okokugqoka kunye noko uza kuzisa naye, uya kukuxelela malunga nenkqubo ngokwalo kunye nemimiselo yayo. Njengomthetho, abefundisi bayacetyiswa ukuba benze intlanganiso ngomhla wama-40 emva kokuzalwa komntwana, kuba emva kolu xesha unina unako ukutyelela itempile: phambi kwakhe kubonwa "ngongcolileyo", kwaye akavunyelwe ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiinkonzo zikaThixo. Isakramente yobhaptizo sinokubanjwa kamva, kodwa kufanele sikhunjulwe ukuba umntwana omncinci, kulula ukuba kuhanjiswe umcimbi wecawa: okokuqala, kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba unqamle kwizandla ngenxa yesisindo esiphantsi, kwaye, okwesibini, iintsana, njengomthetho , ulale kakhulu kwaye uhambe ngokuzithandela kubantu "abangaqhelekanga" kwiingalo zabo. Abazali abaninzi bayazibuza: ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubhaptize umntwana ngoBhapathizo okanye iKrismesi? Ababingeleli abaqhelekileyo benza le ntlawulo ngeeholide, kodwa kufuneka kuphawulwe ngokukhawuleza ukuba kuya kubakho abantu abaninzi ethempelini ngalolu suku, ngoko qwalasela ngokucacileyo esi sigqibo. Yaye ukuba umntwana wakho uphelile kwaye ehlala ekhala, kungcono ukukhetha olunye usuku.
Amaphupha abalulekileyo
Ngomhla wobhaptizo ethempelini kufuneka uvele ngaphambi kokuba udlulise amaxwebhu omntwana, uhlawule kunye noobufundisi, kwaye uthenge amakhandlela. Abantwana mabafanele bagqoke iimpahla ezintsha ezintle, ukuba amantombazana angalibali ukuthabatha ingubo. Iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa zisoloko zigcinwe kwi-diaper efanayo, kodwa ukuba umntwana ubhaptizwa ebusika, unako ukumbamba umntwana kwi-diaper okanye ithawula. Nangona amakholwa okwenyaniso agcina ukuba ethempelini umntwana ukhuselwe kuzo zonke izinto ngamagunya aphezulu, kubandakanywa kubanda nakubanda. Abantu abadala kufuneka baphinde bagqoke ngokufanelekileyo: abafazi ngeempuphu kunye ne-shawls, kunye namadoda angenayo i-headdress.
Ngokubalulekileyo kufuneka ungathathi nje kuphela umhla wokhetho xa ufuna ukubhaptiza usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, kodwa kunye nokuqokwa koothixo abanomntwana. Aba bantu baya kuthwala uxanduva olukhulu lokukhuliswa ngokomoya komntwana. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba oothixo bafanele babe ngaphezu kweminyaka engama-12 ubudala, kwaye akukho mzekelo ukutshata. Aba bantu, abasondeleyo kwintsana, bathenge umnqamlezo kunye nekhati kuye, emva koko, emva komcimbi, kugcinwe ngokucophelela ekhaya kwaye, xa kwenzeka isifo seemvuthu, senziwa kuye, ukuze kunciphise intlungu.
Xa ubhaptiziwe, umntwana unikezwa igama loyingcwele, onosuku lwakhe lugujwa, kwaye uba ngumkhuseli wasezulwini wengane. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo umfundisi ukhetha enyangeni yenyanga inkumbulo yaloo ngcwele, lowo umntwana ephethe igama elifanayo elinikezwa ngabazali. Ukuba igama, elibizwa ngokuba ngumntwana, lingekho kwiingcwele, ngoko kubhaptizo umbingeleli ukhetha igama elisondele kwisandi. Ngoko ke, kuthathwa njengentsuku efanelekileyo yokubhaptizwa komntwana kunye neentsuku zelosi.
Amasiko kunye namasiko
Ukongezelela kwimithetho yecawa ye siseko, kukho izithethe ezixhaswe ngabantu iminyaka emininzi. Ngomhla wobhaptizo lomntwana, abazali bahlala becwangcisa isidlo sakusihlwa, apho kuphela abantu abasondeleyo. Enye yezinto ezilungileyo zoluntu kukuba umntwana uyakhala ngelixesha lokubhaptizwa, kwaye libi - xa litshiza. Kodwa ngokubanzi abefundisi abaxhasi i-aura yeenkolelo kunye nokwamkela, eyenziwe ngabantu abajikeleze le sakramente. Ngoko inkolelo yokuba akunakwenzeka ukubhaptiza umntwana kunyaka ogqithiseleyo uphumelele. Abantu baseOthodoki abakho iinkolelo.
Ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukukukhumbuza ukubaluleka kwesi siganeko ebomini babantwana kunye nabazali bakhe, ngoko kufuneka uthabathe ngokungathí sina kunye noxanduva.