Kubonakala kuninzi ukuba umtshato uwukuphela kokubambisana phakathi kweentliziyo ezimbini zothando ngonaphakade, kuba zihlangene nguThixo. Kodwa ekusebenzeni, akusiyo yonke into enqabileyo kakhulu, isibini esitshatileyo esontweni siphula, kwaye ke umbuzo uvela malunga ne-debunking yomtshato wesonto, indlela yokudlula le nto?
Ukutshatyalaliswa komtshato webandla
Kunengqiqo ukucinga ukuba ukuba kukho umcimbi womtshato, ngoko umtshato wecawa, kwakhona, kufuneka ukuba ube njalo. Kodwa oku kungenxa yethu, abantwana abadumileyo benkulungwane ye-XXI, le ngcamango inengqiqo, kodwa kungekhona icawa-umcimbi we-debunking awukho. Inyaniso kukuba icawa ayimkeli umtshato nonke, kwaye ngoko akukho nto ikwazi ukuphula izibophelelo ezingcwele: intsapho ayiyiyinto yokudlala, inxanxathele, kwaye, njengokuba iyathukuthela, iyiphonsa. Kodwa iSonto Lama-Orthodox lisenza imiphefumlo enesono yabasontayo ngokuqonda kwaye ivumela umtshato kwakhona, nangona ingavumi ukuphonsa phakathi kwamadoda. Inye kuphela yecala lomtshato, elingaphantsi kwelo licawa, yimeko xa umntu owayekade efa naye efa. Kule meko, ukungena emtshatweni omtsha kuvunyelwe iikontoni zesonto.
Isibini esinqwenela ukutshata kwakhona, kuyimfuneko ukufakela isikhalazo sokuchithwa (kungekhona ukutshatyalaliswa) komtshato webandla. Esi sikhalazo sithunyelwa kwi-Diocesan Administration Administration, emva kokuba isatifikethi somtshato omtsha sisesandleni sakho. Uya kufuneka kwakhona ipasipoti kunye nesatifikethi sokupheliswa komtshato ongaphambili, ophethwe phantsi kwemithetho yelizwe. Omnye wabesilisa ababesakuba ngabayeni basenokufaka isicelo sokutshata kwakhona komtshato, ubukho bobabini abuyinyanzelo. Vumela umtshato kwakhona wombingeleli ecaweni awuvunyelwe. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ufumane imvume yokuvuselela umtshato, uya kufaka isicelo nakweyiphi na itempile yomtshato. Enyanisweni, inkqubo yokuvuselela umtshato iya kuba yinto eyahlukileyo. Ngoko, ukuba ngaba bobabini batshatile okwesibini, ngoko umtshato uqhutyelwa "kwinqanaba lesibini", oko kukuthi, izithsaba azinikezelwa, kodwa ukuba omnye wabasendlwini abaza kutshatanga, umcimbi uya kubanjelwa ngokupheleleyo.
Kodwa akwanele ukwazi ukuphelisa umtshato wecawa, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba oku akuyi kwenzeka nangayiphi na imeko. Umthetho weCawa unoluhlu lwezizathu zokutshatyalaliswa komtshato, kwaye njengoko uqonda iigrafu "azizange zihlangane nabalinganiswa" akukho. Ngoko yintoni isizathu sokutshatyalaliswa komtshato webandla?
Izizathu zokutshatyalaliswa komtshato webandla
Icawa ibona kunokwenzeka ukutshabalalisa umtshato ukuba kwenzeka ngenxa yezi zizathu zilandelayo:
- ukukrexeza: ukutshatyalaliswa okanye umtshato womnye wabatshatileyo;
- ukungakwazi ukukhulelwa umntwana;
- ukuwa ekholo loOthodoki: ukuxothwa kwi-Orthodoxy, ukwamukelwa kwenye inkolo;
- Ukungabikho ixesha elide ngaphandle kweendaba ezivela kumlingane olahlekileyo okanye ukulahlwa yinto enobungozi kweqabane lakhe;
- kugwetywa u kuhlwaywa;
- ukuthunyelwa kwesisu ngaphandle kwemvume yomyeni wakhe;
- Umtshato ongekho mthethweni: ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kokubika isigulo esibi okanye ingxaki yengqondo, ukuba izalamane okanye abancinci batshatile ukuba kukho umlingane osemthethweni;
- ukudibanisa ebomini okanye kwimpilo yabantwana okanye abafazi;
- wafaka ubungqina bokusela utywala okanye utywala;
- I-AIDS, iqhenqa, i-syphilis;
- wayebone ukugula kwengqondo;
- snohachy and pandering.
Imvume yokutshata kwakhona ifunyenwe ngumntu ongenetyala lokutshatyalaliswa kwentsapho. Kodwa lowo umphefumlo wakhe uxanduva lokuphula ulwalamano, uya kukwazi ukufumana imvume yokutshata kwakhona emva kokuguquka nokuphunyezwa kwepenteko. Isixa-3 sinokutshata, kwaye kwimeko yomtshato okwesithathu, isijeziso siya kukhangela.