Ubundlobongela kunye nokukhululwa - yiyiphi iingcamango zabo, bahluke njani, kwaye bakuphi ubudlelwane, kwaye ngaba kunjalo? Indlela abantu kunye nobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu abahlukeneyo ngokwesini abaye bavela namhlanje baye bajongwa yimbali yehlabathi lonke. Iingcamango, ezichazwe endala ukuba ukungalingani ngokwesini kubangelwa yimida yokunyanzeliswa kwabasetyhini kumadoda, uye wazala into efana nokukhululwa. Ngale nto ngokubanzi kwaye uthethe.
EFransi
Ukuvela kweentshukumo zabafazi ukukhululwa ekucinezelekeni, naluphi na ukuxhomekeka kunye nezithintelo ezivela kwiFransi ekude neyokufunayo. Ngomnyaka we-1830, ekuphakameni kwe-July Revolution, igama elithi "emmancipation de la femme" lavela. Ngethuba lokuphuhlulwa kwentlawulelo, iiklabhu ezizodwa zabesetyhini zadalwa, apho abathathi-nxaxheba benkqubela bawavikela amalungelo abo kwiimpawu ezizodwa eziprintiweyo. Iinqununu zentambo yabasetyhini zanikezela nabasetyhini babo ukuba bagqoke izicathulo zamadoda ukuze bahlukane nokungafani kwezesondo. Ngomqondiso ofanayo, abafazi kwiingqungquthela ekugqibeleni bazisa abo bantu ngokukrakra ngokupheleleyo, okwakuchukumisa ukwamkelwa kwesigqibo sokubamba abafazi abanelungelo lokuba neentlanganiso zabo. Kungekudala, kunye namaqela amabhinqa avaliwe. Kuya kubonakala, kwakudingekile ukuzincama, kodwa amaFrentshi agqibe ukuqhubeka nokulwa okungafaniyo.
Emva kokuba abafazi banikwe inkululeko kunye "nelungelo lokuvota" bafuna ukulingana ngokupheleleyo kwamalungelo. Kwixesha elizayo, kunokucingwa ukuba ukukhululwa kuzaliswa ngombono othi "ubufazi". Ukuba inkqubo yokukhululwa iquka ukukhululwa ekucinezelekeni nasekuxhomekeke kuyo, ngokokuba amabhinqa yintlangano yentlalontle kunye nezopolitiko enenjongo yokunika amalungelo asemadodeni apheleleyo. Eli li bali.
Russian Federation
Ngomso kamva, inzondelelo yenkululeko kunye namalungelo amabhinqa ihlonipha iRashiya kunye nobukho bayo. Inguqulelo ye-1917 yaba yinto enkulu kunazo zonke yokukhululwa kwabasetyhini baseRashiya. Amava omzabalazo weBolshevik ubonisa umzekelo ophumelelayo wokulwa noxinzelelo lwabameli beesondo "ezibuthathaka". Uphuhliso loshishino loluntu luye lwaguqula ngokubanzi imibono kwintsapho kunye nolwazi lwabasetyhini baseRussia.
Imodeli yohlobo lwezoqoqosho oludala lwasekelwe, okokuqala, ekuveliseni izibonelelo zokusetyenziswa kweentsapho. Ladies basebenzisa ubomi babo ngaphakathi kwindlu. Uluntu kuphela olufunekayo ukuthetha nabo lusapho. Nangona kunjalo, kwixesha elizayo, ishishini lomshishini libhubhisa ngokupheleleyo umveliso ngamnye wasekhaya, ngoko ke ukuphoqa abafazi ukuba bafune umsebenzi ngaphandle kwekhaya. Apha ke baqala ukuqonda nokuziva iqondo elipheleleyo loxinzelelo, olungazange lubonakale kwintsapho. Inyaniso ibonakaliswe ngobukho beliluhlu oluncinci lwamalungelo kunamadoda. Konke oku kwenza ukuba balwele ukukhusela iimfuno zabo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe, baphumelele.
Masibhale iziphumo
Iimiphumo zokukhululwa zizinto ezilungileyo kunye ezimbi. Makhe sibone ukuba ngaba "siwine" okanye "silahlekile" kule nqaku. Masiqale ngokulungileyo:
- le ntokazi yayeka ukuba "into", leyo indoda ingayilahla ngayo ingqiqo yayo;
- ngoku sinelungelo lokufumana imfundo ephakamileyo;
- sivunyelwe ukuba neembono zethu kunye nelungelo lokuvota;
- Isiqingatha esihle somntu sinelungelo lokufumana umsebenzi;
- kukho ithuba lokufikelela kwindawo ethile yentlalo.
Ngoku ngokubuhlungu:
- Amadoda afumana ukuba abafazi abaphumelelanga ilungelo labo kodwa umsebenzi wabo wokusebenza, ngoko ke banquma ukubuyela emithwalweni kunye neemfanelo zabo;
- Inkululeko ephumeleleyo kunye namandla abo babameli beesigqeba esihle sabantu babangela ubuthathaka besini esahlukileyo;
- ubunzima bobudlelwane obuphakathi kwendoda kunye nomfazi ngenxa yokuphula umthetho woqhelaniso;
- Umsebenzi onzima ukhuselekile ngokubhekisele kumahlombe "athathaka". Kwaye bathabatha iingodo, bathabathe abalala;
- abafazi baba ngamaxhoba obundlobongela, ukuxilonga iziyobisi, utywala, kunye nenani lokukhupha izisu.
Njengoko uyazi, yonke into ilungele ukumodareyitha. Eminye imele isele "yinto engafanelekanga". Kwaye kwenzeka kwimeko yokukhululwa, ukugqithiswa okufutshane.