Abantwana bonke bathatha umzekelo kubantu abadala. Uvame ukubona umfanekiso xa umntwana wakho ethatha into kwaye uthe wayethetha kwifowuni, kuba abantwana banamhlanje basusela kwiminyaka yobudala basebenzisa iziteshi zonxibelelwano ezisebuntwaneni bethu.
Bonke abazali banomnqweno wokuhlala bebanxibelelana nomntwana wabo. Kwaye oku kuyinto engokwemvelo, kuba sikhathazeke ngabantwana bethu. Kubantwana, ifowuni yanamhlanje iyimfuneko njengabantu abadala. Kule nkalo, yakha i-niche epheleleyo kwimarike yeefowuni. Kwaye ngoku unako ukuthabatha umnxeba umnxeba ngomntwana wakho.
Ifowuni yomntwana omncinane
Yintoni ekhethekileyo kunye nendlela ezahlukileyo zeefowuni zabantwana abaqhelekileyo, esizijwayele kuzo. Ifowuni yomntwana omncinci iyalungiselelwa ngokukhethekileyo kuye. Inciphisa inani lemisebenzi ekhoyo, kunye nezinye izinto ezongezelelweyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba akukho sikrini kule fowuni kwaye kukho iifowuni ezimbalwa kuphela, xa ucinezelwe, inombolo ekhankanywe ngaphambili ichazwa. Ngokomzekelo, ingaba ngamanani omzali, inombolo yefowuni okanye inombolo yefowuni yenkonzo yokuhlangula. Uninzi lweefowuni zizobhaliwe ngokukhethekileyo kubantwana kwaye zibukeka ngathi zidlala. Ngokomzekelo, ezinye iimodeli zenziwe ngolu hlobo lwenxenye yomakhi, ezinye zisesimo sebhere elincinci.
Umncinci omncinci kubazali abaxhalabele ngakumbi ngempilo yabantwana babo. Ingozi yeefowuni zefowuni zilawulwa yimimiselo yococeko, eyona nto ixininisa eRussia kunokuba i-US okanye iYurophu. Ngoko ke, sinokucebisa, ukuba ukhetha ifowuni kumntwana, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela kuphela iimveliso eziqinisekisiweyo, kuba loo fowuni yeselula yomntwana ayilimazi impilo yakhe.
Kukulungele ukuthenga iifowuni zeempawu ezidumileyo, kuba unokukwazi kwangaphambili ukuba le fowuni ayihlanganiswanga kwisitolo esingaphantsi komhlaba. Kule meko, nangona kuthengwa ifowuni kumenzi odumileyo, awuyi kumnika imali eninzi. Emva koko, yindlela yokwenza uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali xa umntwana elahlekelwa ifowuni.
Yiyiphi ifowuni yokukhetha umntwana?
Abantwana bayakhula, kwaye kunye nabo, kunye nezicelo zabo ziyaqhubeka, ngoko abafundi ba bambalwa kwezo fowuni ezilula ezichazwe ngasentla. Xa umntwana eya esikolweni, sibhekene nomnye umbuzo: yiyiphi ifowuni yokukhetha umntwana.
Sincoma ukusebenzisa inombolo yezinto ezifunekayo ukuba zibekho kwifowuni. Okokuqala, ukuchasana nokunyusa kunye nomonakalo owenziwe ngomatshini. Isibini sesibini esibalulekileyo yimali, xa umntwana eyebiwe kwifowuni, okanye ulahlekelwa yile nto. Ngoko ke, xa ukhetha ifowuni, kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela ixabiso layo. Umntwana onomnxeba wexabiso eliphezulu uyifumana i-crime real or just for a bully from school high. Umzekelo, kumgca wefowuni yakwaNokia, kukho imodeli epheleleyo kubantwana beminyaka yobudala besikolweni (umzekelo, 1200).
Kodwa ukuba unquma ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukhuseleka ukuba abe nefowuni ehloniphekileyo eyahlukileyo kwabanye, ngoko ifowuni yokuthintela ingaba yinto enhle kumntwana wakho. Le fowuni inomdla kakhulu kubantwana: ineemidlalo ezininzi kunye nezicelo ezingasetyenziselwa njengonwabisa,
Ngaphambi kokugqiba ukuba yiyiphi ifowuni yokuthenga umntwana, bekungekho buhlungu ukuthetha naye. Emva kwakho konke, ifowuni ocinga ukuba ilungile, ngombono wongomnini wexesha elizayo, ayikwazi ukumthobela. Imfono yomntwana ayikho indlela yokunxibelelana kuphela, yinto yomfanekiso, kunye nokuqinisekiswa kwayo phakathi koontanga.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukukhetha ifowuni kumntwana akuwona msebenzi olula njengoko kubonakala ngathi. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka kusombululwe, kuba kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kuyimfuneko.