Ngaba wakha wazama ukwenza ikhalenda yeKrisimesi? Hayi? Ngaba uye wakuva nantoni na ngoku ngokubanzi? Yintoni, encinci? Emva koko masiqonde, ngakumbi ekubeni ieholide zeKrisimesi sele sele zisempumleni.
Wavela phi?
Makhe ndiqale ngokuthetha amagama ambalwa kwimbali. Kwakukho ikhalenda yeKrisimesi ixesha elide. NgeMinyaka Ephakathi, phakathi kwezizwe zamazwe amaKatolika, kwakukho isithethe ukupenda izinduku ezingama-24 eludongeni, kwaye yonke imihla ukuhlamba enye. Intonga yokuqala yayinguDisemba 1, kwaye ngowokugqibela ngoDisemba 24. Ngoko abantu babona iintsuku ezilileyo ngaphambi kweKrisimesi. Kamva, ikhalenda yeKrisimesi yaphucululwa kwaye ngesandla esilula saseJalimane iGerhard saba yisipho esihle. Ngoku ke waqala ukufana nekhadi lekhadi elinamandla elineminyango engama-24, emva kwayo yayifihlwe imithandazo encinci. Kwaye ikhadi ngokwayo yayihlotshiswe ngeenjongo zeKrismesi.
Kodwa kunomdla ngakumbi ukwenza ikhalenda yeKrisimesi ngezandla zakho. Oku kuya kuba luncedo olukhulu kulindeleke kweeholide kwaye uya kufundisa abantwana bakho abangenakukwazi ukufumana into ethile. Ngoko, masiqale.
Uze ungakheli indlu?
Kukho inani elikhulu lokukhetha indlela yokwenza ikhalenda yeKrisimesi ngezandla zakho. Sincoma ukuba siqwalasele enye yazo.
Sonke sithenga abantwana bethu ngeebhokisi ezincinci. Ijusi inxile, ibhokisi inkunkuma, kodwa ize. Ukuba uqokelela iziqwenga ezi-15 ezinje izitya ezilula, unokwakha ikhalenda yakho yeKrisimesi "iNqabazana yeNqabazana". Ukwenza oku, ibhokisi ngalinye kufuneka lihlotswe, lifakwe ngephepha elinemibala kwaye lifake kwi-chocolates, i-decape tape kunye neembalo ezikhanyayo, iiflekhi zeqhwa ezikhethiweyo okanye i-lace. Ngokubanzi, yonke into oyifumana ekhaya. Ngodonga olulodwa, nqumla iwindi, kwaye ukusuka kwantlukwano-yenza umnyango. Hlaziya ifestile ngekhefu le-tulle okanye i-chintz evuyayo, kwaye ubeke umnyango ngesiphathi esivela kwiqhosha okanye ngentambo yentambo. Nantsi enye inxalenye yendlu yexesha elizayo kwaye ilungele.
Ngokufanayo, zihombise ezinye iindawo ezili-14 zekhalenda yethu yeKrismesi. Musa ukulibala malunga nefantasy. Makube nemibala emininzi, kwi "iibhloko" enye inqabileyo "igolide", kwabanye - "isilivere", kwimiba yesithathu kunye namaqhosha. Iinqwenga kwiifestile kunye neengqayi kwiingcango, nazo, zenza ezahlukeneyo, kuba umthetheli uyakuthanda i-luxury. Iinqununu ezigqityiweyo zeenombolo ukusuka ku-1 ukuya ku-15. Ngoku ke siqala inkcazelo yamagama.
Tshela umntwana wakho ukuba kukho inkosikazi ephila kwihlabathi, kwaye yonke into iya kuba yinto enhle, kodwa inkohlakalo engendawo yithatha inqaba. Ndimele ndimncede. Kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuba nexesha leKrismesi, kwaye emva koko i-castle iya kuhlala ihlala kuyo. Yonke imihla unokufumana igumbi elinye kuphela. Kwaye ukuba inxaxheba ibe yinto enomdla, cela umntwanomnye umsebenzi: funda isingeniso, uhlambulule amathoyizi, kukuncedise ekucoceni, uyihlobise umthi, udwebe isithombe seSanta Claus, ufike ngezipho zootatomkhulu wakho. Umsebenzi ngamnye unokufakwa kwiimvulophu enemibala kwaye uyifaka njengesigidimi esivela kwikomkhulukazi.
Umxholo wekamelo
Kodwa imisebenzi, iimvulophu kunye neebhokisi ziyingxenye yesondo. Ekubeni ikhalenda yeKrisimesi eyenziwa yedwa isipho sesipho sokuziphatha kakuhle kunye nemisebenzi yomntwana wakho, kufuneka inikwe imimangaliso. Kwaye ngokohlobo lwefestile, ibhotwe kufuneka ixhotywe. Yintoni ongayithatha ukuzalisa amagumbi okumkani? Kwiiseli zekhalenda yekhrisimesi yenkampani zibeka izinto ezincinci kunye neesekese, kutheni ungalandeli lo mzekelo.
Izinzuzo kunye neenzuzo
Kwaye, ngaphandle kovuyo, ikhalenda yeKrisimesi eyenziwa nguwe ngokwakho iya kukunceda. Okokuqala, uya kuqeqesha umntwana ekuqapheliseni imibala kunye nemigca, uza kufaka ingcamango yemihla kunye neentsuku zeveki. Okwesibini, uya kuba ngumncedisi ekufundeni amanani kunye neakhawunti. Ukufumana umphumo omhle wedijithi nganye, unokuthabatha isihloko sakho. Okwesithathu, umyili onjalo onokuvuya uhlakulela ngokucacileyo ukucinga. Emva koko, inqaba ingakhiwa rhoqo ngeendlela ezintsha. Okanye mhlawumbi ayikho inqabeni, kodwa inqaba okanye enye into. Kuhle, uh? Kwaye iya kuba yintoni ikhalenda yeKrismesi elandelayo, ixesha liya kuthi. Jabulela iKrismesi kuwe!