Ukutsala kumntu wesini esahlukileyo kubonakala ngathi ngokwemvelo ngokwayo. Ukulwa nemilingo kunye neminqweno yesimo sokwabelana ngesondo ayinakuthetha ngokupheleleyo, kwaye impilo ayinakunceda.
Kutheni kwenzeka oko kwenzekayo: sidibana nommeli olwahlukileyo, siyakubonga umlingiswa wakhe, izenzo, ukufumana umdla, kodwa emva kobudlelwane obusondeleyo nalo mntu, inzondelelo yethu kwindawo ekhohlakeleyo ngokukhohlisa. Yintoni enokuyenza, ngubani onokusola, kuba kwakungenasizathu esicacileyo sokwahlukana. Lapha emva kwayo yonke inhlanhla. Kuyavela, konke kuhambelana nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwabantu. Kule meko, ngokungahambelani ngokwesondo ...
Indoda nomfazi
Ukuhambelana ngokwesondo kwendoda kunye nomfazi kuxhomekeke ekubonakalweni kobomi obusondeleyo, kwiimeko zesondo zoqabane. Ubungqingili bezesondo, ngokuqinisekileyo, zonke iintlobo ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa inkalo ebalulekileyo yokuhambelana ngokwesondo kukuba ukuziphatha ngokwesini kwabesilisa nabasetyhini kubonakala ngezindlela ezahlukeneyo.
Yiyiphi isini? Ubundlobongela, okokuqala, luphawu lomgangatho wokuziphatha, ubukho obangela umntu ukuba anqabise, abele iingcamango zesondo (kunye naye okanye ngokubanzi). Ubuntu besini ngezindlela ezininzi kuxhomekeke kwiingcamango zethu nezengqondo.
Ukufana kunye nokwahlukana kobulili besilisa nabesifazana ngenye yezinto ezinzima kakhulu kwi-sexology. Ukuba ibhinqa ithi amadoda akhe ayinomdla, akukho mntu uya kumgweba ngenxa yale nto. Nangona umntu evuma ukungabikho kwintlobano yesini kunye nesini esahlukileyo, ngokukhawuleza sikhankanya ukuba asinamandla okanye, ngokugqithiseleyo, isini esingqingili. Kwenzekile ukuba "indoda yangempela", ngokwemvakalelo yethu yesiqhelo, kukuthi, ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, ilungileyo. Ubundlobongela bakhe bungahluleki kwizesini zakhe. Amandla omntu, ngaphezu kwawo onke, amandla akhe angamadoda.
Ngokwezengqondo zengqondo ezichazela imfihlelo yecala lesini kunye namadoda ngokwesini, kumadoda, isondo ayikho into enjengeyona msebenzi efuna ukuba igcwaliswe, ijoliswe ekuphumeleleni nasekufezeni into ethile (umzekelo, i-orgasm). Ngokuqondene nabasetyhini, oku akunjalo kule ngxaki. Kwintombazana, isondo sinxulumene nokuzonwabisa. I-Orgasm yakhe ayiyona into eyenziwa ngumzimba, kodwa enye yengqondo. Ngoko ke, awukwazi ukuwugxila kuyo nayiphi na indawo ebonakalayo emzimbeni okanye kwiqela lezitho zangasese, njengoko libonakalisa kumadoda. Ibhinqa alilona umatshini, awukwazi "ukucofa iqhosha" kwaye ufumane ukuphendula ngesondo. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kumfazi akukona nje ukuziphatha okubi, kodwa uyisiyatha.
Ukuphendula ngokwesini ngesini kunye namandla abo amaninzi amaninzi angaphezu kwamadoda. Ezi mpendulo zixhomekeke kwiimeko zengqondo jikelele, kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke imvakalelo. Yintoni enokubambisa ubulili besini? Phakathi kwezizathu zenzululwazi ziquka ukuziphatha okubi ngokwesondo, imfundo yamaPuritan (imfundo emacinci yobungcwele), kwaye ngenxa yoko, ukungabi nako kwemfundo yesini ngexesha elifanelekileyo, kunye nezobucala zesini esingaqhathananga nento efanelekileyo.
Ubulili besilisa, ngokuqhelekileyo, bubukeka bunobundlobongela, bumnandi kwaye bukhuselekile kunabesifazane. Kwaye akukho nto ongayenza ngayo.
Uvavanyo lokuhambelana
Indlela yokuchonga ukuhambisana kwentsebenziswano yabalingani - ekujonganeni nale ngxaki, unokuhamba ngezindlela ezininzi:
- Imfihlo yegama. Okumangalisayo kukuba, kubantu abathile, ukuhambelana kwezocwangciso zamagama kubaluleke kakhulu. Indlela enjalo kukufunda imfihlelo yegama, ubunjani bomnini wayo, isimo sengqondo. Emva koko unokwenza izigqibo ngokuphathelele ukuhambelana ngesondo kunye namalingani. Kodwa masingakulibali ukuba bonke abantu bahlukile kwaye phantsi komgangatho omnye oqhelekileyo, akukho mntu uya kuqhutywa.
- Uhlobo lwegazi. Ukuhambelana ngokwesondo, ngokweJapan, kunqunywe liqela legazi. Ngoko, umzekelo, amaJapane akholelwa ukuba ukuba umntu ufuna umlingane othakazelisayo, kufuneka akhethe umfazi wakhe ngeqela lokuqala legazi. Kwixesha elizayo, ukuba umntu
utshata umfazi kunye neqela lokuqala legazi, akasoze avunyelwa ukunyanzelisa. Abafazi abanjalo baphoqa amadoda abo ukuya kusasa ekuseni. Ibhinqa eliphethe iqela legazi lokuqala liyamthanda, elisoloko lidibana nokulindela komlingane.
Ukuhambelana ngokwesondo kuxhomekeke kwi "inzondo yesondo" yabalingani, ngokwezinga lobunzima babo kunye nokwazisa ngesondo. Ngobudlelwane nomntu othandekayo, naluphi na ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo ezintle, ngoko umnqweno wokukholisana akufanele ube neentloni, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, kufuna ukukhululwa kunye nokuthembela.