Ubusiso ngokwawo sele luyinto ekhuselekileyo kunye nenomdla. Kodwa asiyi kuba yinyani ngokupheleleyo ukuba asizange sicacise ukuba akusiyo yonke into yokumangalisa inokumnceda umntu wakho. Kule meko, kuxhomekeka kakhulu kulwalamano olubini, ukususela emthandweni nokuthembela, kubunyanisekileyo kunye namaqabane akhululekile. Kodwa nakubani na, akukho nto ingabikho bulumko obungenakukwazi ukuyenza. Ukuba unemibuzo malunga nesi sihloko, siya kukuxelela indlela yokuzonwabisa nomfana kunye nokumanga.
Luhlobo luni lokubanga luvuyisa amadoda kunye namadoda?
Iimpendulo zalo mbuzo zibaninzi njengabameli bezesondo eziqinileyo ngokwabo. Kodwa zama ukufumana iingcebiso zendalo yonke.
Akuyena wonke umntu owaziyo ukuba umlomo ungomnye wemimandla enobungqina bomntu. Kwaye akukho nto emangalisa ngayo ukuba indlela evelele kakhulu indlela yokonwaba umfana ngokumanga nje ukumanga emlonyeni. Oku kumangalisa kunemizekelo emininzi, abanye bacinga ukuba u-kiss owonwabileyo waseFransi, ngoxa abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, baneliswe ngumgca wokukhanya omlomo. Kwaye kuya kukukholisa wena kunye neqabane lakho, sinethemba lokuba unokwenza isigqibo.
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Kufuneka kuthathelwe ukuba ubuchule bokubanga ukuvuyisa akubalulekanga kakhulu, kwaye kunqunywe ngokubaluleka kwakho. Kodwa kukho iimfihlelo ezincinci kunye neengcingo zabasetyhini, njengokubamba ukuvusa indoda.
- Nquma ukuba ngubani oza kuba "ukhokelo". Ukuba ufunda malunga nendlela yokuzonwabisa nomfana kunye nokumanga, ngokuqinisekileyo namhlanje uyazibona kule nxaxheba. Ngoko ke, landela le nxaxheba ekupheleni, kwaye ungadlulisi amandla akho kumntu ngokukhawuleza xa ephendula ukumanga kwakho. Maxa wambi umntu wakho makahlale enendima ye "wingman".
- Musa ukuzithemba. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngexesha lokubanga uzama ukuhlanganisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo, unokuqala ngokuchukumisa ukukhanya (kungekhona emlonyeni, uyayivume, uthi, ngasemva kweso). Emva koko uye kwelinye indawo ekhethileyo yokukhetha kwakho. Kodwa nangona ulungele ukumanga umlomo wakho, ngoko kufuneka ukwazi ukuhluka. Hlanganisa ukunyuka kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo ngolwimi lwakho, emilonyeni, utshintshe isigqi kunye nobudlova.
- Zihlaziye. Ungamanga ngothando umntu, umxelele ukuba awuyi kucinga ukuqhubeka, uze wenze sengathi unomsebenzi ophuthumayo, umzekelo, ekhitshini. Amadoda athande ukunqoba, oku kwaziwa kuwo wonke umntu. Kwakhona kubonakala ngathi amadoda akathandi ukuthandwa. Kodwa konke kuxhomekeke kumakhono akho okwenzayo kunye nomoya ofanayo womntu. Ungesabi ukudlala nayo, kodwa khumbula ukuba ekupheleni komdlalo usadinga ukuzinikela.
- Ukukhohlisa. Ndiyavuma, umphumo wokubamba kwentombazana enye kodwa kwimifanekiso eyahlukeneyo iya kuhluka. Yinto enye ukuba ugqoke ijee ezenziweyo kunye ne-T-shirts, kwaye iyanuka, kodwa i-borscht, kwaye yinto enye, ukuba unayo i-corset encinci kunye ne-sexy, kodwa i-smells of spirits.
Indlela yokuvuyisa indoda ngokumanga, okanye kwimimandla ephosakeleyo emzimbeni womntu
- ukuba ummandla ogqithisayo ngumlomo nolwimi, sele sithe. Amanye amadoda ayaqaphela ukuba bayamangalisa ngokubamba okukhanyayo obumboze ubuso bawo bonke: zombini umlomo, amehlo kunye nebunzi;
- Ngaphandle kwalokhu, amadoda afana nokubanga emva kwendlebe, ukubetha lula okanye ukunyuka indlebe.
- ukubanga entanyeni, ngokukodwa ukususela emva, ukunika amadoda into enokuzonwabisa kunabesifazane. Musa ukulibala ngale ndlela yokuvuselela. Kodwa apha kukho umncinci omncinci, isikhumba emqaleni kwentamo sibuhlungu kakhulu, kwaye kufuneka ukhethe uhlangothi olufanelekileyo phakathi kokubanga okukrakra kunye nokukhawuleza;
- ukuba iimeko zivumelekile, kwaye uwedwa kunye nomntu, unokwazi ukuhla ngokukhawuleza kunye nokumanga okuphantsi nangaphantsi.