Iingxoxo malunga nesihloko sokuba ngaba ungaphila ngaphandle kothando, luya kuhlala ixesha elide nje uluntu luhlala. Ewe, kutheni umntu ethanda, ukuba unengqondo, izandla, iinyawo kunye nazo zonke iintsikelelo zempucuko ezenziwe nguye? Kodwa ngaba kuya kukwazi ukuphuhlisa le nkqubela ngaphandle kwothando?
Kutheni umntu engakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kothando?
Ngenxa yokuba ngaphandle kwayo, wayengaze azalwe. Uthando luyisiseko sokwemvelo lokuvelisa, luyinto engatshintshiyo yeemvakalelo zomama kumntwana wakhe, okumenza amnyamekele aze amkhusele ekuhlaleni kwegazi lokugqibela. Uthando luyisiseko, isiseko sezinto zonke. Xa kunjalo, umntu ufuna ukuhlala, ukusebenza, ukuphefumla, kunye nokubaluleke kakhulu - ukunika. Ayikwazi ukuthanda ayikwazi ukunika nantoni na ngokubuyisela, abayi kuze babe ngabafazi abalungileyo, abazali, abantwana. Ukuqotshwa kwazo zonke ezinye ihlabathi zibuhlungu kwaye zihluphekile.
Ukuhlala emtshatweni ngaphandle kwothando, kodwa nokuba uya kuvuya - ngulo mbuzo. Abaninzi bakhetha izibini zabo ngesiseko seendlela zokumelana, ukuma kwintlalo, njl. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bajonge, ukudala ingcamango, kungekhona. Bakulungele ukuyeka ulonwabo ngenxa yokuphila kakuhle, kodwa emva kwexesha, abaninzi bayaqonda ukuba le yindlela engafanelekanga. Ukuzibuza, nokuba umntu unokuphila ngaphandle kothando, kufuneka ucinge ngentsingiselo yobomi bakhe. Ngaba ukho konke? Emva koko, ubukho bakhe buyimpikiswano engenanto engenangqiqo, umzamo ngokwakhe, kuba ilungu lommandla alincedi inkxaso. Umhlaba ungaphantsi, unesihlabathi, kodwa umphefumlo uwedwa, nje ngumoya entsimini. Ngisho noConfucius wathi uthando lwenza umntu abe ngumntu. Abo bangayazi le mvakalelo bayonakalisa iplanethi yethu, baqale iimfazwe kunye neentlekele, kunye nabo badala ukudala kwaye balungele ukuzidela ngenxa yothando lommelwane wabo.