Abasetyhini abaninzi baphupha ukuthandwa. Bathanda ukuba nobuhle be-chic, ekuvukeni kwabo bonke abantu abajikelezayo. Qinisekisa ukuba ukuba uyayenza injongo yakho, ngoko uya kufeza ngokulula oko ufuna! Sinikeza iingcebiso ezibonakalayo ezilula malunga nendlela yokwenza umbane kumadoda.
Inyathelo lokuqala: Indlela yokuba umbane kumadoda?
Naluphi na idatha yakho yemvelo, ukuzinyamekela, ukwenza kakuhle, ukuguguleka , isitayela somzimba kunye nesitayela kunokukwenza ukuba ungenakunyaniseki! Okokuqala, kufuneka uqikelele. Yenza oku kungekhona kwimifanekiso yeeholide, kodwa kubomi bakho obuqhelekileyo. Zivavanye ngokwendlela elandelayo kwaye xa ufumana isiphako - faka injongo yokujamelana nayo:
- izinwele ezicocekileyo kunye nomzobo olungileyo;
- Isikhumba esicocekileyo, esilungele kakuhle, singenasiphako;
- ukulungiswa okukhanyayo okukwenza ukhange ngakumbi;
- Impahla egxininisa isidima kwaye ifihle imiphumo;
- Izixhobo ezikuvumela ukuba wenze imifanekiso enhle;
- izipikili ezicocekileyo nezifanelekileyo;
- iziqhumiso zeqhumiso;
- isikhwama esitokethi kunye nezicathulo;
- ehambelanayo, ehlakaniphile.
Ingxaki kuyo nayiphi na lezi ngongoma ingasombululwa ngoncedo lwenzululwazi okanye ngokuzimela - konke kuxhomekeke kwixesha lakho kunye neendlela zokulungele ukutyalo kulo. Emva kokuzisa yonke idatha yakho yemvelo kwizona zizwe zikhona, ukuzithemba kwakho kuya kwandisa nokutsala amadoda njengemagnethi kuya kuba lula.
Inyathelo lesibini: indlela yokudweba umntu ngamandla okucinga?
Ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna ukuqwalaselwa kungekuphela kwamadoda, kodwa ngodidi lwabo, oluya kuba ngahlobo oluhle lobomi. Ukuze ukwazi ukutsala umntu onjalo, kufuneka uqale ugqibe ukuba kufuneka njani.
Hlala phantsi uze ucingisise: ngubani na oya kuba ngumlingani ofanelekileyo? Iyini ubudala, umzimba, izinto ezithandwayo, umsebenzi ? Ukuba ugqiba oku, uza kuqala ukuchonga okukhoyo
Unokutsala njani indoda ethandekayo?
Ukuba ukhangelele umntu ofanelekileyo, unganqikazi ukuthetha naye-kodwa ube ngumhlobo kuphela. Fumana umdla oqhelekileyo, cela uncedo kwinto ethile okanye unike iingcebiso. Ngexa udibanisa, zama ukumazi kangcono, makhe akhulume ngeempumelelo zakhe namaphupha. Olu hlobo lokunxibelelana oluthembayo lunomtsalane kakhulu umntu, kwaye ukukwazi kwakhe ukuphulaphula kunye nomdla kumntu wakhe kuya kumkholisa ngokuqinisekileyo. Emva koko kukho enye kuphela into eseleyo - ukubonisa ukuba awunayo i-bastard, ukuba uneminqweno yakho, iinjongo, ukwazi ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Akumangalisi ukuba bathetha ukuba ubuhlobo obulungileyo buqala ngobuhlobo.