Ayikho intsapho efanelekileyo. Isibini ngasinye esitshatileyo kungekudala okanye kamva, kodwa singena kwixesha lokuxabana, ukungquzulana. Kakade, ukuxabana nabathandekayo kulula, kodwa ke kukho inkathazo. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kunokuba kubonakale kukuqala.
Ewe, makhe sizame ukuqonda kunye nawe indlela yokuxolelana nomyeni wakho, ukufumana iingongoma ezifunekayo zokudibanisa naye kunye nento okumele uyenze ukuze ungahambi kwisigqibo esifanayo kwikamva.
Indlela yokuxolelana ngayo nentanda yakho? Ukuqala kwesivumelwano
Ewe, indoda yakho ethandekayo, njengaye, ngokukhawuleza iya kuqala ukukhathazeka malunga nemibuzo malunga nendlela yokwenza nawe. Kodwa ingqondo yesintu ayikwazi ukutshintshwa, kwaye amadoda ambalwa ayaya kwi-truce kuqala. Emva koko, intloko yentsapho kwaye entloko yakhe ayifanele ukuvuma iimpazamo zakhe kumfazi wayo.
Kuyaziwa ukuba indoda iyintloko kwintsapho, kwaye umfazi intamo. Abasetyhini bahlala bengabonakali, kodwa balawula bonke ubomi kwintsapho.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ekuqaleni kwesiqalo kukuba kufuneka uyeke ukucinga ngendlela onokubonisa ngayo ukuba umyeni wakho ulungile. Oku kuyancipha nje imeko, xa uphinda uziphindiselele yonke imihla: "Ndifuna ukuzenza nomyeni wam. Andikwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwayo. " Umlingane akayi kukuxabisa ukunyaniseka kwakho ekuhlekeleni iimbono zakhe eziphosakeleyo.
Abafazi abahlakaniphile abafuni ukuphumelela ukunqoba amadoda abo. Emva koko, amadoda ayidalwa eliziqhenkceba kwaye ukunqoba okunjalo kungabetha ngokungafani. Kwaye, nangona ebona ukutshatyalaliswa kwayo, uya kukubamba eminzini yomphefumlo wakhe, onokuba yinto engathandekiyo echaphazela uluntu lwentsapho.
Enye yeendlela zokwenza uxolelane nomntu unokuba awuyi kubukela iimpendulo zombuzo obangela ingxabano. Ulibale ngexeshana, kwaye ungcono - naphakade.
Okukhethwa kukho ukuphela komlilo wokuphumelela
- Hlanganisa isidlo sothando. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi izitya zomntu ozithandayo. Akuyi kuba yinto enqabileyo xa ulungiselela intlanganiso ejikelezwe ngamakhandlela, ukuthatha ibhotile yewayini efanelekileyo.
- Phantse ama-80% amadoda, emva kwamagama akhethwe kakuhle kwidilesi yabo, libale malunga neephene ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye oku akuchaphazeli i-ego yabo yesintu. Ngokuchasene noko, banokuziva bengenangqondo yesazela ngokungathathi inyathelo lokuqala lokuxolelana.
- Kungaba ngamazwi anjalo. Ngokomzekelo, "Nguwe kuphela umntu ohlala evuselela ukuba ndiphile. Uhlala uyandiqonda. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha andiyikuboni ngenxa yokukhawuleza kwam. Ndi xolele. Makhe sikhohlwe malunga nale mpikiswano. "
- Wena, njengomnye umntu, uya kufumana i-epithets ezifanelekileyo ukuchaza umyeni wakho.
- Umzekelo, ukuba udidekile yinto ozoyibhalela umyeni wakho ukuba enze, sebenzisa le ndlela.
- Ngokuncediswa kwe-courier, unika ibhinqa incwadi, apho kukho amabinzana ambalwa kuphela, kodwa intsingiselo yakhe ilungele iwaka: "Yonke into kum. Ndiyakuthanda. "
- Zama kwakhona ukukholisa umthandwa wakho ngokwenza isipho esingalindelekanga. Ngokomzekelo, unikwe iplasela equkethe izinto azide ephuphayo. Ngexesha elifanayo, ungathumela i-SMS kumyeni wakho ukuba enze. Chaza kuyo oko intliziyo enothando inokuxelela yona. Qiniseka ukuba uya kuba nombulelo kuwe. Ukuba akayi kukhawulezi, uya kuhlawulwa okanye awanga.
- Enyanisweni, ukuba imbangela yokuxabana yayingumlutha wotywala, ngoko ayikufanelekanga ukuba "kubone". Oku kuya kwandisa imeko.
Thetha intliziyo yakhe entliziyweni. Fumana isizathu sokuba ubone indawo yezinto ezinxilisayo. Zama ukufumana isisombululo kunye. - Ukuba imbambano yenkxalabo yayikungcatsha, kufuneka uhlalutye imeko yakho kwaye uqonde ukuba uya kukwazi ukumxolela. Zama ukuqonda into engalunganga ngayo indoda. Umsebenzi wakho oyintloko kukuqonda ukuba yiziphi iimfuno zokutshintsha ukuze uvuse uvuko lwakho oludlulileyo.
Ukuba awuphikisana nemilingo, imithandazo, njl., Ke sizinikela icebo ukuze senze uxolo nomyeni wakhe. Kufuneka ifundwe xa ukuxabana kwintsapho kuqala:
"UMama kaThixo onamahlandla asixhenxe, umduduzi, umxhasi. Mbulala umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomntu), kodwa kum, Nkosi, mnike umonde, nomphefumlo wam, usindiso. E gameni likaBawo noNyana kunye noMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen ยป
I-quarrel ayiyi kuzisa uvuyo. Kwaye umnqweno wabo bobabini baxhomekeke ekubeni baya kukwazi ukufumana iindlela zokuxolelana.