Kwabonakala ngathi ngonaphakade. Kwakubonakala ngathi akukho namnye onokukuhlukanisa. Wayejikeleza malunga nomzi ophethe izandla, wayedlwengula kunye nolonwabo, kwaye abadlulayo-bamomothekayo, bakhangele kuwe kwindlela ... Kwaye sele iphelile. Awusayi kunye. Yaye nangona ukuhlukana kwinqanaba lakho, ukususa umthandayo kwimemori kunzima kakhulu. Ngelishwa, akukho mpiliso yothando, uthando, umkhwa. Akukho ugqirha kuwe kumbuzo othi: "Yintoni ongayenza ukulibala loo mntu?" Awuyi kuphendula kwaye amisele iyeza elinxilayo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza kwaba kuhle. Kusemakhanda akho, kwaye nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukulibala i-boyfriend yakho yangaphambili. Masizame ukufumana indlela kunye.
Okokuqala, xelela bonke abahlobo bakho kunye nabahlobo bakho bobudlelwane ukuba awusekho isibini, kwaye uzama ukufumana iindlela zokulibala lo mntu. Makumenye ukuba awusekho kunye. Awudingi ukuba bakhumbuze ngaye kwakhona.
Amanye amantombazana azama ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kwimeko ngokuphulaphula iingcebiso zeengqondo zengqondo. Kwaye bathetha ntoni? Ukususela kwiingcebiso ezininzi zengqondo malunga nendlela yokulibala umfana, ingqalelo yam inomtsalane yinto enye, eyona nto ibangel 'umdla, ngoluvo lwam, iingcebiso. Kufuneka ufike ngebhokisi lebinzana. Ewe, into efana ne "Well it ..." okanye, njengoScarlett yathi: "Andiyi kucinga ngako namhlanje, ndiya kucinga ngomso." Kwaye onke amaxesha akho iingcamango zibuyela kwixesha elidlulileyo, kufuneka uphinde ubhale eli binzana. Mhlawumbi, ngokokuqala ngqa uza kufuneka ukhethe oko, kodwa unokwenza ntoni? UMoscow akazange akhiwe ngokukhawuleza.
Hlala phantsi, thabatha icwecwe lephepha uze ubhale kuyo yonke impawu ezimbi ze-ex yakho. Ngaba ucinga ukuba akanalo? Wonke umntu unalo, asiboni nje xa basondele, xa bathandana. Uqala nje, uza kuzibona kamva.
Ukuthetha rhoqo kunye nabahlobo. Hamba nabo ekuhambeni kwiivenkile okanye uhlale e-cafe. Ba bhetele kunanoma ziphi iingcali zengqondo zinikeza icebo lokulibala umfana. Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba awuzuzi kakuhle kunye neziphumlisi zangaphambilini, ziya kufumana ezininzi iimpazamo kwiqabane lakho langaphambili, nokuba unomona wokufihla.
Tyelela ubuhle be salon. Gcwalisa iinqununu zeenwele okanye ukuguqula iinwele zakho ngekhadi, utshintshe umbala. Bathi iiphelo zeenwele ziya kuzo zonke iinkcukacha esizidingayo, kwaye emva koko, thina kunye nathi nje sifuna ukukulahla, kunjalo?
Yintoni enye engayenza ukuba ndiyilibale loo mntu? Yiba negalelo ekufundeni okanye kwimisebenzi. Kungenxa yokuba nguye osanda kumshiya. Kungenxa yamava omzimba kunye noluthando. Ngoku lixesha lokufumana. Khanyisa endaweni yayo kwaye ngokokuqala, ukuzithemba kwakho kuya kuvuka, kwaye okwesibini, uya kuba nexesha elincinane lokukhumbula umfana kwaye uhlupheke ngayo!
Zatei ukucoca indlu. Kubalulekile ukusula zonke izityuli zothuli, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho iimbuliso ezininzi ezizinikwe zona. Khetha ibhokisi eyahlukileyo, okanye ikhonkco elide kunazo zonke letafile, apho ungayiboni, kwaye ubeke yonke into emkhumbuzayo ngomntu owayengumntu. Zonke iifoto zakho ezidibeneyo, zonke izipho zakhe kunye neepastadi. Ngendlela, ngeli nqanaba, akuyi kuba kubi ukucima yonke i-sms kunye nee-mms kwifowuni.
Ngokubanzi, indlela engcono yokulibala omnye umntu ukufumana enye! Yiya kuma-discos uze uhambe kwiipaki, u tyelele iimyuziyam kunye nama-cinema, udibana nabafana kunye nomdlalo wothando. Ngoku akwenzeki kuphela ukuba wenze oku, okokuqala ngethuba lokugqibela kwexesha lesithoba, kodwa kuyafuneka kwakhona. Esitratweni sakho, kwindawo yakho, kwisixeko sakho, ukuba ngaba baninzi abantu abahle kakhulu, kunye nomnye wabo ngovuyo kuya kukunceda ukulibala loo mntu, nokuba yena ngokwakhe akayazi kakuhle!