Kutheni sisetyenziswe kwingcamango yokuba umntu ufumana i-orgasm rhoqo kwaye akapheli ngexesha lesondo nje akakwazi? Emva koko, oku kwenzekayo, kwaye njengokuba kukho ukubonisa, iingxaki ezinjalo aziqhelekanga. Ndixelele ukuba kutheni ingxaki - ukuba indoda ingagqiba isondo sayo ixesha elide, kufuneka ujabule, kodwa ungacingi ngento oyenzayo kunye nendlela yokulungisa le meko? Inyaniso yile ngxaki, abafazi bahlala bekhalaza ukuba amaqabane abo anelisekile ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa kwenzeka, ngelanga, nangona kunjalo. Ngoko makhe sibone ukuba kutheni le nto yenzekayo kwaye yintoni enokuyenza ukuba umntu akanako ukugqiba ixesha elide.
Kutheni umntu akakwazi ukuhlala ebudeni?
Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi, befumene ukuba umntu akanako ukugqiba, qalisa ukukhangela izizathu ngokwabo. Ewe, ekungabikho kwenjabulo, umfazi unokuba netyala, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kungekhona kumntu. Yaye ukuba uthe waxhalabatheka, uthetha nomlingane wakho, mhlawumbi kungumzimba womzimba wakhe. Emva koko, umlinganiselo kunye nobude bendoda yesondo umntu ayifunayo kuxhomekeke kumgaqo wakhe wesondo. Kodwa ukuba isenzo esingasemva kwesini somntu wakho asiyinto eqhelekileyo, ngoko ngenxa yezizathu zokungabikho kwe-orgasm ofuna ukucinga ngayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo zihlala zilandelayo.
- Ukusetyenziswa rhoqo kotywala kuyinto ebangela ukuba umntu angakwazi ukugqiba ixesha elide. Amadoda amaninzi acinga ukuba ukulala ngesondo ngokugqibeleleyo kufuneka uphuze encinane phambi kwawo, bathi, oku kuya kunceda ukukhulula nokuvumela ukuba imfesane ibonakale. Mhlawumbi kunjalo, bambalwa abakwazi ukusela kancinci, kwaye kunzima kunene umntu ongadluliyo ukugqiba, kuba ukuhanjiswa kweempembelelo ezivela kwingqondo kunye nomva kuya kuba buthathaka. Ukuba ibali elifanayo lenzeke kumlingane wakho, ngoko akufanele ukwesaba, uyasichazela kwaye uya kufumana intloko. Zama nje ukukhipha kwiimeko zakhe zokuzuza, khumbula nje ukuba ekuphishekeleni umlingane wakho we-orgasm kunokuba nzima ngaphezu kokuqhelekileyo, kodwa ngenxa yokungaqhelekanga kuwe, iintlobo zesini ziyavumelana nokulumkisa.
- Isizathu sesibini esithandekayo sokuba kutheni umntu abe yiphupha elingapheliyo ukukhathala, uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo kunye nonyango lwabo. I-anti-depressants isebenza kwinkqubo ye-nervous and in the work of sex. Ngoko ukuba iqabane lakho liyancipha, ungabi mfuneko kakhulu kuye. Ukuba akaphumelelanga embhedeni, kuya kuba "ukudubula kokulawula entloko." Ulinde ukulinda, kwaye indoda leyo, ukuxabisa unyameko kunye nomonde wakho, iya kuthatha inyathelo.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu akanako ukufumana i-orgasm ngenxa yokuba upheleleke, kufuneka abe kwindawo yonke nakuzo zonke izinto ezilungileyo. Kulele embhedeni, uzama ukugcina ibha ephezulu, ezama ukuyenza iqabane elifanelekileyo lezesondo. Kodwa le ngxaki - loo mntu unomlutha kakhulu kwimbono yokwanelisa umlingane, ngoko ke akanako ukufikelela kwi-orgasm ngokwakhe. Kulo mzekelo, umfazi kufuneka amncede, uthi yena uyona mhle kwaye ndixelele ukuba i-orgasm yakho inganikezelwa nje ngokuxhatshazwa okukhulu, umzekelo, i-caress ye-clitoris ayiyi kuhlangabezana nayo. Ukuba iqabane lingakwazi ukwenza oku, mnike umzekelo, indoda encinane
akakwazi ukulingwa nguhlobo lomfazi wokuhlambalaza. Ungambukeli nje ngegama, kodwa kunye nezenzo - uzalise umnqweno wesondo. - Yintoni enokuyenza xa umntu engagqiba ixesha elide, kodwa akafumani nokudakumba, utywala, okanye iimpawu zokuphelela, kwaye uqale ukujamelana nale ngxaki kaninzi? Apha awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kooncedo lweengcali, kuba izizathu zingabangela izifo zeenkqubo zesondo kunye ne-endocrine, i-oncology, i-malformations kunye ne-anomalies ekuphuhlisweni kwenkqubo ye-genitourinary. Musa ukuyeka ukutyelela ugqirha, kuba nguye kuphela onokuyiphendula umbuzo othi kutheni umntu engayitholi i-orgasm, kwaye unika unyango. Ngoko, ukuba ingxaki ikhona, chukumisa othandekayo ukutyelela ugqirha.