Phakathi kwazo zonke izizwana zeplanethi yethu, enye yezona zinto ziphambili, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo isiganeko esibalulekileyo ebomini, ngumtshato . Nangona izithethe ezahlukileyo kunye nokwahlukana kweenkonzo zonqulo, rhoqo kwaye yonke indawo amaqhawe amakhulu kulo mbhiyozo kunye neholide ngumyeni nomyeni.
Yingakho, umbuzo wento umtshakazi aphuphayo ngayo unikwe ingqwalasela enkulu, ingakumbi abo baye bahlala bephupha ngomtshato. Emva koko, oku kuya kuthetha into ebaluleke kakhulu.
Kutheni ndiphupha ukubona umtshakazi?
Masizame ukufumanisa oko kulapha. Kubalulekile ukuthobela ingqalelo kwiplani yephupha kunye neenkcukacha ezingakhohlwayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho uluvo lokuba ukuphupha umtshakazi-ukuba uyityebi okanye uphumelele ebomini bakhe. Kodwa, akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, njengoko ilizwi lihamba, umtyholi - ukhona kwiinkcukacha.
Ngokomzekelo, indlela umakoti eyancwina ngayo. Ukuba unomdla kwaye unomdla - uthetha kwiintlanganiso ezilindelwe ixesha elide, ukuba intlungu iyadabukisayo, ngoko intlanganiso ayiyi kuba kungekudala, xa kuncumo olubi - soyike uhlobo oluthile lobuqhetseba.
Kubalulekile ukubeka ingqalelo kwinto yokugqoka yomfazi. Ukuba ephupheni umtshakazi uyavuyiswa ngengubo kwaye ubonisa ngokuzonwabisa - oku kukufumana ilifa elikhulu, kwaye ukuba akayi kulukhupha, kwaye uyafuna ukuwususa, uze ufike kwiindaba ezimbi kunye neengxaki, kodwa ukuba umtshakazi egqoke umgca omhlophe nesigqubuthelo ephuphayo, lo mtshakazi naye - oko ke, ke, esi sifo. Ewe, kwaye ngokubanzi, ukuzibona njengomtshakazi ephupheni akulungile. Ukuba ubona kwiphupha indlela umtshakazi akhetha ngayo iingubo zembala eyahlukileyo kwi-salon kwaye akakwazi ukwenza ukhetho lokugqibela - oku kukungabaza nokungaqiniseki ebomini bakhe.
Kutheni umtshakazi ephupha ukukhala?
Ukuba ufanele ucinge malunga noko umyeni okhalayo ephuphayo, oku kuwuphawu lokuba awunelisekanga ngezenzo zakho zabahlobo kunye nezihlobo zakho, kodwa ukuba umtshakazi uyakhala ngokuvuya, oko kukuthi, ngoxolo, kodwa iinyembezi zihamba-oku kukududuza nokufudumala kobudlelwane phakathi kwentsapho .
Kutheni uphupha umtya womtshakazi?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kwengubo yomtshakazi yindawo yakhe. Ukuba ephupheni ubona ngokucacileyo zonke iinkcukacha zezimbali kwaye kukhanya kakhulu - kwinto entsha ecacileyo, kwaye xa umtshakazi ekunika inkalo - ukukhohlisa ekulindeni. Ukuba ubambe isiqwenga esijikiweyo ngumtshakazi-into engavumelekanga yentlanka, kwaye xa ibanjwe, ize idibene, okanye ingazange ibe yintyatyambo, kodwa into engaphandle - iinyembezi nokudumala. Kwimeko apho umphunga uphupha umhlophe, kukukwahlukana, kwaye ukuba uhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kukuzaliseka ngokukhawuleza kweemfuno. I-bouquet eqaqambileyo-ukujonga okutsha kunye nohambo olumnandi. Ngokubanzi, xa iintyatyambo ziphupha - lihlala liyisithunywa somtshintsho.