Kubasetyhini ngexesha lokukhulelwa iinguqu ze-hormonal zitshintsha, kwaye kunye nalo okanye ukwanda kwe-libido kuxhunyiwe. Ininzi amadoda ayakhathazeka ngeengcamango zesondo nomfazi okhulelwe, njengoko besaba ukulimaza umntwana wabo ozayo. Kodwa ukukhulelwa akusiyo isifo kwaye ngeli xesha linomdla umfazi kufuneka aqhubeke ephila ubomi obupheleleyo. Ngoko, kwinqaku lethu, siza kuqwalasela ukuba ngaba ukukhenkcoza okukhulelweyo kungenziwa, nokuba ngaba kukho ukuchasana ngokukhwabanisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukugcoba ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
Ukugcoba, njengokufana nesondo ngokuqhelekileyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa, akuvumelekanga ukuba loo ntokazi ayinakuphikiswa. Ukukhulelwa nomyeni (indoda) ayisoloko ehambelanayo okanye kwenzeka ukuba akafuni nje, akakwazi okanye akwesaba ukwenza imisebenzi yokudibanisa, ngoko kufuneka azithokoze, athole ukukhutshwa. Ngethuba lokukhulelwa, unokwenza i-masturbate ukuba akukho sisongelo sokuphazanyiswa, intlungu yesisu kunye nokukhulelwa kwamanzi. Ukugcoba, njengokufana nesondo kunye nendoda, kuphucula imvakalelo, kuphucula imvelaphi engqondweni, kukhuthaza umveliso we-endorphins kwingqondo (inxalenye ye-endorphins ifunyenwe ngumntwana). Ibhinqa lingcono kunomntu owaziyo umzimba wakhe kunye nemimandla yokuba nobuzwe obukhulu, ngoko ke akanako ukuzibhokoxa ngaphezu kwakhe.
Ngethuba lokuhlaziya i-masturbation kunye ne-orgasm, ukujikeleza kwegazi kwimizimba ye-pelvic kuphucula, kwakhona ukuphuma kwegazi kuphuculwe, okunomphumela onenzuzo kumntwana (oksijini kunye nokunikezelwa kwezondlo kumntwana okhulayo).
Ukuyeka ukuziyeka ngokwesini kunokuthintela imvelaphi yemoya yomfazi, kuphazamisa ubuthongo kunye nokukhathazeka, okukhokelela ekuhlanganiseni amandla angagqithanga emzimbeni walo mfazi, kwaye kunokukhokelela ekunyuseni kwethambo lesisu (kukho ukutsala ubuhlungu kwisisu esisezantsi). Amandla adinga indlela yokuphuma, kwaye enye indlela yokuyichitha yinto yokukhwabanisa. Ungasebenzisa i-masturbation ngesimo semidlalo yothando (prelude) ngaphambi kokuthandana nomntu oyintanda, enokuyincinci kakhulu ubomi obusondeleyo.
Ngaba i-masturbation ichaphazela ukukhulelwa?
Kwaye ngoku siza kuqwalasela, nokuba i-masturbation in pregnancy inobungozi nokuba ngaba kukho ukuchasene? Ekukhulelweni kokuqala, umfazi unokukhathazeka ngesisu esiswini kunye nokuphawula, okungenzeka kube yimbozi yesongelo lokupheliswa kokukhulelwa. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukuhlaziya isisu, njengesiqhelo sesondo esivamile, kunokususa ukukhipha isisu.
Ukuhlaziya iindlululo kumaxesha kamva akuchaswanga kwikhosi evamile yokukhulelwa. Ukuba, emva kokukhwabanisa okanye ukulala, isibeleko siba ngamatye kwaye sibangela ukuba intlungu ibhinqa, ngoko kufuneka ibaleke. Ukuhlaziya iindlobongela kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo abanelizwi elikhudlwanayo lebeleko kungakhokelela ekuzalweni kwangaphambi kokuqala okanye ukukhutshwa kwangaphambili kwe-amniotic fluid. Inyaniso kukuba i-orgasm ye-clitoral yomelele kunokuba isisu, ngoko kunokubangela ukuchithwa okunamandla kwesisu.
Ngethuba le-masturbation, akukhuthazwa ukusebenzisa izinto zangaphandle ukuphepha ukulimala
Siye sabona ukuba ukukhwabanisa kwabafazi abasetyhini akuvumelekanga, ukuba akukho nto ingqinelaniyo kule nto. Nangona kunjalo, ungabandakanyeki kwi-masturbation kwaye ulala ngesondo kunye nomlingane wakho. Esikhundleni sokuzithokozisa, thetha nomntu wakho, mchazele ukuba akufanele ukwesaba ngesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Mhlawumbi, ukuba uchazela umyeni wakho ukuba uyonwabile, akusayi kuba nesidingo sokuhlambalaza ngexesha lokukhulelwa .