Amantombazana amaninzi, ngokukodwa kwiminyaka yabo yobutsha, ekhangele ephupha labo amaphupha kwimpendulo yombuzo othi: "njani ukuba ube nobutyebi kunye nodumo?". Kuqondakala ubomi obuhle ndifuna kubo bonke. Ewe, masiqale sicinge ngendlela abantu abadumileyo ngayo, kwaye ngoko siza kujonga iindlela ezingabancedisa abo abaphuphayo abaphuphayo.
Sonke sasiva amabali amaninzi (ngenxa yemidiya yemibala yonke) malunga nendlela iinkwenkwezi zethu eziye zaziwa ngayo. Omnye wabakhipha imali kubazali (uxhasi), umntu uthande umvelisi (umlawuli, umhleli, njl.) Ukubonakala, kunye nomntu, unqongqoza iinyawo (ngamanye amaxesha ebunzini lakhe) egazini elibethelelwe kuzo zonke iingcango, ngokoqobo ndizenze indawo phantsi kwelanga. Abanye babe nethamsanqa ukuba babe kwindawo efanelekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo, kwaye banakho ukunqoba italente yabo ngumntu ofanelekileyo. Ngamnye unabali bakhe, unomdla kwaye ufundisa ngendlela yakhe, kwaye kwimbali nganye "ye-stellar" inokukwazi ukunyamezela into ethile.
Unokuba njani udumo?
Ngoko, indlela yokuba sisityebi kunye nodumo, yintoni okufuneka uyenze kule nto? Nasi uluhlu lwethu lweendlela. Akunqatshelwe ukuba uzame, ukuba kungekhona bonke, ngoko ke bambalwa abaqinisekileyo, kwelinye lamatyala banenhlanhla.
- Indlela ende kunazo zonke kunye nokubanqabileyo kunokuphuhliswa kwisikhokelo esikhethiweyo. Fumana imfundo ngokubhalisa kwiyunivesiti yaseMoscow ekhethekileyo. Ngethuba loqeqesho, yakha umfanekiso ocacileyo kwaye uyingqayizivele ukuba uhlawule. Kwaye emva kweminyaka yokusebenza kanzima kunye namanyathelo amancinci ekudumeni nasekuphumeleleni.
- Ngoku kutshanje, iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zibonisa ngokukhethwa kweetalente ezincinci ziye zithandwa kakhulu. Ewe, ungatsho ukuba iindawo zokubonga ziye zathengiswa ixesha elidlulileyo kwaye awunalo ithuba. Kwaye ungatsho kwaye ucinge ngendlela othanda ngayo, kodwa uhambe ukuphonsa ufanelekile, ubuncinane ngenxa yokwenza ulwazi olutsha phakathi koogqirha kunye noshicilelo. Kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuba nethamsanqa, kwaye italente yakho iya kuyanconywa yiyo nawuphi na umntu owamenywayo.
- Ukufumana umntu onomdla kwizakhono zakho, kufuneka ube nolwazi oluncedo. Xhuma abahlobo, abaqhelana nabo kunye nabantu abangaqhelekanga "ukwakha amabhuloho" kwindawo oyifunayo.
- Ngaba uyaqiniseka ngetalente yakho? Emva koko ungazizama ukuzithela ngokwakho, ukurekhoda iingoma zakho (ukwenza iphothifoliyo, njl.) Kwaye unqande amaziko okuvelisa (i-arhente yohlobo) kunye nabo. Ekugqibeleni, ufumana ithuba lokubonakalisa italente yakho kunye nokuphela.
- Siyaqiniseka ukuba nabani na onokuthi aphephe, ukuba kukho konke italente ye-crumb, into ephambili kukuba ukwazi ukuba njani? Ngoko ngubani na onqanda ukukwazi oku? Kufuneka nje ufunde ukuba ngumlimi, kwaye njengeprojekthi ye-diploma ukungaziboni ngokuzithandayo.
- Kuzo zonke iindawo zigqitywa ngemali, kwakunjalo, kwaye iya kuba njalo. Ukuba ucinga njalo, yindlela enye kuphela yokuphuma ukufumana umxhasi. Akukona ngomfanekiso wecala weentombazana eziyintsipho ekholelwa ukuba ubusuku obuthile obuchitha kunye naye, uya kwenziwa "inkwenkwezi." Oku akunjalo, kodwa kuthetha umxhasi oya kukholelwa ukuba iprojekthi yakho iya kuba yindleko, ukuba italente yakho iyinzala-mali inenzuzo kwaye inenzuzo. Kodwa apha kuyimfuneko ukupenda ngokufanelekileyo
Isicwangciso seshishini seprojekthi yakho ukwenzela ukuba umxhasi oza kufumanisa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukutshala imali yakho kuwe. - Jabulela amava eNtshona, uJustin Bieber, umzekelo. Ukusalalisa kwiirekhodi ze-intanethi kunye nokusebenza kwazo kwiindawo ezibukelwe kakhulu, mhlawumbi uya kuphawula "inkwenkwezi" kwaye unikezele ukuxhaswa kwabo.
- Ungaze uxelise nabani na, kungekho ngendlela yokusebenza, okanye ngendlela yokugqoka. Kwihlabathi lezitampu, abantu abaphikisanayo bayamxabisa kakhulu, banikezela into entsha, into enye enye isibindi okanye italente engenakho.
- Yikholelwa kuwe, ukuzithemba xa ubonisa ubuchule bakho, yonke into isenokuthi usoloko uyakwazi ukunqoba uluntu.
Xa unqume ukuba udumo, uye ekupheleni, ungalokothi ushiye. Kwaye ke ukunyamezela kwakho kuya kuvuzwa.