Abantu abaninzi ebomini babo babhekana neengxaki ezahlukeneyo, ukunyeliswa, ukuthotywa kunye nezinye iimeko ezingathintekiyo ezichaphazela imeko yengqondo. Ngenxa yoko, kunokukhokelela ekuphuhliseni ukudandatheka kunye nezinye iingxaki. Yingakho isihloko - "into endiyenzayo ukuba ndiziva ndibi kakhulu" ihlala ifanelekileyo iminyaka emininzi. Iingcali zengqondo zinika iingcomo ezifanelekileyo ezikunceda ukujamelana neemeko zemoya kwaye zibuyele kwimpilo evamile.
Kubi kum ukuba ndiyenze ntoni - iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo
Ukuxazulula ingxaki, kuqala kufuneka uqonde oko kubangele. Umntu ngamnye unokufumana ibali, umzekelo, othandekayo waphoswa, iingxaki zavela emsebenzini, isihlobo sashiya ubomi bakhe, njl njl.
Iingcebiso, wenzeni ukuba iingcinga ezimbi zifike entloko yakho:
- Iingcali zengqondo zithi kukho nawuphi na ungeke uhlale wodwa. Ukususela ngeli xesha ngexesha umntu eqala ukuzicoca, ukuhlalutya le meko, ngokubanzi, ngakumbi ukuba angene kwiingxaki.
- Musa ukususa abantu abasondeleyo abanqwenela ukunceda. Ukunxibelelana nabahlobo kunye nosapho kuya kunceda ukuphazamisa iingxaki kunye nokuhlaziya. Isiphakamiso esisebenzayo, esijongene nento enokuyenza, ukuba siyinto embi - qi niseka ukuba uthethe kwaye uchaze malunga neemvakalelo zakho namava. Kufuneka uyenze oku kanye kanye kunye nemvakalelo eninzi.
- Ukulibala malunga nexesha elidlulileyo kwaye uqhubele phambili, setha iinjongo ezintsha. Mhlawumbi lixesha lokuqonda iphupha elixabisekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukuhamba, ungaqala ukufunda ulwimi lwangaphandle, gcina imali kwaye ujonge uhambo olufanelekileyo. Konke oku kuya kunceda ukuphazamisa nokuqonda ukuba ebomini ininzi enhle kwaye ijabule.
- Iingcali zengqondo zinika enye icebiso eluncedo, elinceda ukuqonda into enokuyenza, xa unesimo esibi kakhulu - mamela umculo. Kuphela iziqulatho zifanele zizonwabe kwaye zomelele. Khetha iingoma kuhlu lokudlalwayo ezidibeneyo neziganeko ezivuya.