Imilinganiselo, ukuba ukholelwa ezininzi izichazi-magama, kuyindlela ekhethekileyo yokuziphatha - ukunyamekela nokungaqhelekanga. Oku akukona nje kuphela kumantombazana amaninzi, kodwa nakwabafana abahlala bephosakele ngenxa yeengqungquthela, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bazibandakanya ngokwesini. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukungabikho kokulula kunye nobuntu, ubuchule buhambisa iingxaki ezininzi kumantombazana nakwimakhwenkwe.
Indlela ibukeka ngayo ngaphandle?
Imbeko inika umfanekiso ogqithiseleyo kakhulu: umntu okhupha umnwe wakhe omncinci, ephethe ifoloki, okanye enomkhwa wokugubungela amehlo kunye nokunyanzela, ukuthetha noMKhATovsky dramatism, ubonakala ngathi uzama ukuhambelana nezinye izinto ezingenakuqondakala. Ngamanye amazwi, umntu onjalo ufana ne-rustic, oye wavunyelwa ngengozi ukuba angene kwisidlo sezenhlalakahle.
Ewe, akunakulungele ukuqonda iimpawu ezinjalo emva kwakho. Zonke ezi ndlela, ukunyaniseka, ukungabi lula nokulula, nokuhlaziya abantu. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu uzama ukuzilawula , kodwa oku kwenza izinto zibe zibi nakakhulu, kwaye izilumko kunye nezilumko ziphuma ngokuthe ngandlela-thile, zisuka kwiiswini.
Indlela yokulahla iindlela?
Okokuqala, zama ukufumanisa apho ubeka khona le ndlela yokubamba. Emva koko, njani ukulahla indlela, ukuba awuyiqondi imvelaphi yayo? Qaphela abazali, izalamane - ngokuqhelekileyo indlela yokunxibelelana esithatha kubo.
I-vector yesibini - thobela iifilimu zakho ezizithandayo kunye neethathu. Amaqhawe abo amaninzi, ngokuthe xaxa ukuba ukuziphatha kwakho kusekelwe kwimpembelelo yabo.
Zama ukuzungeze ngokuqhelekileyo, ukusuka kwimbono yakho, abantu, jonga iifilimu ezinzulu kunye nabadlali abalungileyo. Eminye imizekelo yokuziphatha okulula ozibonayo, utshintsho lwakho lwendalo luya kuba.
Kuya kuba kuhle ukuzitshiza kwikhamera kwaye uqaphele ukuba yimaphi amagama kunye nezenzo ozenzayo. Khumbula kwaye ukhumbule kwimiba apho unokuwa khona uphinde uyaphinda.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iifom zivela ekungathandabuzeki . Qala incwadana, apho uhamba khona imihla ngemihla emininzi yamandla akho, impumelelo, konke abantu bakuxabayo kuwe kwaye bayazixabisa kuwe. Ukuhlaziya iirekhodi ezinjalo, kuya kuba lula ukuba ukholelwe kuwe kwaye uzive ukhululekile - okuya kukuvumela ukuba ubambe ngokwemvelo.
Abanye abantu kule meko baze baye kwi-psychologist - kodwa isazi sengqondo se-psychologist asiyi kukwazi ukutshintsha indlela oziphathe ngayo, uya kukubonisa kuphela isikhokelo. Ngoko okokuqala zama ukuzinceda.