Emva kweminyaka emininzi yomtshato, ubomi obuhleliweyo, ukunxibelelana nabahlobo kunye nokubonakala kwabantwana. Kubonakala ngathi yonke into ifana nomntu wonke, kodwa akukho ukuvumelanisa emphefumlweni. Umsebenzi ongenamsebenzi we-conjugal emsebenzini ngeveki, iifowuni kunye ne-SMS, ezichaphazela kuphela ubomi, kunye nokukhuliswa kwabantwana njengomsebenzi. Iintsapho ezininzi ziyazazi le meko kwaye abaninzi baye bafumana amandla okulungisa.
Kuthekani ukuba ndihlala nomyeni wam njengabamelwane?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba indoda ayizange ibe ngumhambi phakathi nobusuku. Kwixesha elide lokuhlala ndawonye, umntu ngamnye ufumana imithwalo enzima yokukhalaza, izibango kunye nokushiya, okuthi, njengezitena, zakha udonga olusetyenziswa ngumlingane ngamnye ukukhusela ukulwa nehlabathi elingaphakathi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukuqawula kwaye uqale ukwakha ubudlelwane obutsha, kodwa oku kunokwenzeka ukuba uziva ukuba umyeni wakho naye akanakulungele ukuhlala kweli lizwe.
Qala ukufumana ubudlelwane kunye no "Petros 1" - kungeyona nto ingcono. Kungcono ukulibala yonke into, kungekhona ukukhumbula ixesha elidlulileyo kwaye uqale, njengoko besithi, ukususela ekuqaleni. Ukuba wena kunye nomyeni wakho nibe ngabasemzini komnye nomnye, kwaye nithwalwe yiyo, ke "unamakhadi ngesandla". Zama kwakhona ukumxelela ukuba unomdla kuwe, ukhangeka njengomntu, kwaye uyabiza, ekugqibeleni. Yiba nomdla kwimicimbi yakhe, ummangalise rhoqo ngento ethile, khumbula oko wayekuzonwabisa ngexesha apho yonke into yayikuhle ngayo. Bhaka ikhekhe ayithandayo, uthenge i-disc kunye nefilimu ayefuna ukuyibona, kwaye ukuba awuzange uchithe ixesha kunye kunye nexesha lokukwenza. Yaye ngokulungiselela i-dessert, lungiselela ubulili obuqaqambileyo kwimeko apho umyeni wakho wayenokuphupha kuphela.
Ukuba umyeni waba ngumfokazi, akusiyo isizathu sokuyeka ekuqaleni kwaye "uphelelwe kude." Emva kwakho konke, kucacile ukuba indoda ingadla ngokuxinzelelo kwaye ibuze malunga nezizathu ezifanelekileyo zezi mpawu. Ngomonde, kodwa ngokuqhubekayo qhubeka kwikhosi. Qala ukuphulaphula uluvo lwakhe, ukuba awuzange wenze oko ngaphambili, mxelele ukuba uyamjonga njengentloko yentsapho kwaye ukulungele ukuthobela. Xa umfazi nomyeni wakhe behlala njengabantu abangaziwayo, lixesha lokutshintsha into ethile. Indoda ayisoze yamshiya umfazi wakhe
Khumbula, kuya kufuneka utyalomle kule mibutho inzame enkulu kwaye kungekhona into yokuba kuya kuba nokubuya. Kodwa amathuba okuseka yonke into enayo, ukuba indoda isaphila kunye nawe kwaye ayiyi kuhamba. Yiba kuye ngendlela oye ngayo kwinqanaba leentlanganiso - onomusa, othakazelisayo, onothando kwaye akayi kukwazi ukuliphosa. Ekugqibeleni, kuya kutyumba kwaye ubudlelwane bakho buya kufika kumgangatho omtsha.