Ingcamango yokunganakwa ihlala ididekile kwaye ibizwa ngokugqithisileyo ngokuthi yixinzelelo. Enyanisweni, ukunganakwa kuvela njenge-harbinger okanye ngenxa yokudandatheka. Ubungenakunqwenela ukwenza nantoni na, ngokuqonda ngokupheleleyo ukuba kuyimfuneko.
Impawu zesifo
Xa umntu ehlalisa ukunganakwa ebomini, kunzima kakhulu ukuba angaboni abanye. Kukho ukupheliswa okupheleleyo kwengqondo nomzimba - isiguli asifuni ukucinga, asive uvakalelwa kukuba, asiyi kuvuka kwakhona ebhedeni. Iintsilelo ezilahlekayo, iimfuno, iinjongo. Le meko ingabonakaliswa ngcaphulo edumileyo "Akukho mntu uya khona".
Ukukhathala ngokupheleleyo kunye nokunganakwa kungenzeka emva kwezigulana (kubandakanywa ukubandisa okuqhelekileyo), beriberi, emva kokusebenza, kunye nezifo zengqondo. Ukungakhathaleli ixesha elide kukubonisa ukuba sekuyisikhathi sokuphendukela kwengcali yengqondo kwaye uhlolwe.
Ukongezelela, ukunganakwa kuyinto eqhelekileyo (kodwa engathandekiyo) into xa umntu engahlali ngesigqi. Ukungabikho kokulala, ukusebenza ngokugqithisa zonke izibonelelo zabantu, uxinzelelo lwengqondo olude (umzekelo, ukuba umsebenzi unxulumene noxanduva lobomi babantu abaninzi), kunye nokuphelelwa ngumzimba. Gcwalisa ukunganakwa - oku kungumqondiso osuka emzimbeni, ocela ngokukhawuleza ukuba uvumele ukuphefumula.
Ngendlela, ngolwimi lwaseUkraine kude kube ngo-1920 (ixesha lokupapashwa kwesichazizwi sezonyango zaseRussia-saseKraine) kwakungekho lixesha lokunganakwa. I-Ukrainian Vіkіpedіya ithi esikhundleni segama elithi "apatia" igama lesi-Ukrainian elithi "bajduzhist" lisetyenziswe, oko kuthetha ukuba "ukunganakwa".
Yintoni endiyenzayo?
Kucacile ukuba ixesha elide kummandla onjalo alinakululwa. Ngoko ke, xa ukunganakwa kwenzeka kuyo yonke into, umbuzo wento omele uyenze ukususela kunoma yimuphi umntu onamandla onqwenela ukuzithatha ngokukhawuleza ezandleni zakhe.
Impazamo enkulu kukunyanzela umsebenzi omningi, ukunyusa umthwalo kwaye ugqithise "umgca nge-wedge." Enyanisweni, oku kuziphatha kuya kuhokelela ekudakaleni ngakumbi.
- Thatha, ubuncinane, usuku lokuphuma.
- Kubalulekile ukulala.
- Yonke imini, yenza okokuthanda kwakho kuphela, kwaye akanalo "ihlabathi" inzuzo.
- Ukutya okunonophelo (ngaphandle kokucinga ngesisindo esingaphezu kwesisindo), uhlambe kunye namafutha abalulekileyo, uye kwi-salon okanye kwi-spa, uzithenge isipho, esele siphupha.
- Yenza icebo lamaphupha akho kwaye uzithembise ukuba uziqonde ngokuthe ngcembe.
- Xa uphumla, cinga ngento ephosakeleyo kwindlela yakho yemihla ngemihla, yenza utshintsho, kuba kukho rhoqo indlela yokuphuma.
- Qala ukuthatha iivithamini .
- Ukuba ukungathobeli kwavela ngenxa yokunyaniseka komsebenzi, "ukutshiswa", ukulahleka ngokupheleleyo kwenzalo kulo msebenzi - kuya kufuneka utshintshe imisebenzi.
- Ukuba unethuba, thatha ikhefu ukuze wenze amanyathelo angaphezulu kwehlabathi, kodwa kungekhona ikhefu lokugula.