Ulwakhiwo lokuqonda

Ukuqaphela kuyinto eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu yengqondo yengqondo , equlethwe yimiba yolwazi kunye nokudibana kwabo. Ngaphambi kokuba kuqhutywe uviwo olunzulu lweengxenye zalo, kufuneka kuphawulwe ukuba ukuqonda kukubonakalisa ukunyaniseka kwenjongo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kubandakanya iinkqubo zemiqathango, ingqondo kunye neemvakalelo.

Ulwakhiwo kunye nemisebenzi yolwazi

Iimpawu zokuqonda ziquka: ubuntu, iipropati zayo; iinkqubo zesimo sengqondo kunye nombuso womntu. Ukongeza, ingqondo iquka:

Ngamanye amacandelo angentla apha ahlobene kakhulu. Ngoko ke, ukuba sithetha malunga nenxalenye enkulu yesazi, ngoko ke ingqondo, eyona nto imeko kunye nemiphumo yomsebenzi womntu. Ufumanisa ukubonakaliswa kwimiqondo, ukucinga, ukucinga , ukunika ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu, imisebenzi yabo eqhelekileyo.

Kananjalo nasengqondweni, isakhiwo senqondo siyacinga, sisiseko sokwazi. Zonke ezi ngasentla zidibene nomgaqo omnye "wolwazi".

Isimo sengqondo sibonisa umsebenzi ngamnye wethu, impendulo kwimiba yenyani, kuquka impendulo yomntu kunye nenyaniso ejikelezayo. Unomgca ontle kunye namava (amazwi omntu womntu, iimvakalelo zakhe). Ubudlelwane bomntu bubonakalisa ubudlelwane bomntu kunye nezinto ezizungezile, iimeko, iziganeko. Udidi lwenjongo yolwalamano luyadalwa xa kukho iqela labantu kwaye libonakalisa ngendlela yolawulo, ukuxhomekeka, ukuxhomekeke kumntu, njl.

Amava aquka iimvakalelo ezifunyenwe ngumntu njengesiphumo sokujonga into eyiyo. Yona nto inomdla wokwahlula ohlala yinto engabonakaliyo nanamhla. Umntu ebomini bakhe unempembelelo enkulu kwiziganeko ezahlukeneyo, izinto: ukwesaba, induduzo, ukuzonwabisa, ukuzonwabisa, njl. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba uluntu lusetyenziso lweengqondo zomntu. Imvakalelo nganye ibonisa ukuhambelana kwethu nemifanekiso (ingaba yinto: izinto, izinto, iziganeko, abantu, uluntu ngokubanzi).

Iimvakalelo, kwakhona, zenza isiseko sengqondo sokuqonda. Ziwubonakalisa isimo sethu sengqondo kwihlabathi. Ndiyabulela iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo, ubuntu, unikeza uvavanyo lwento ejikelezayo. Zibonakaliswa ngoqhagamshelwano lwentetho, kwaye ngoko ke, ngokuchuma ngakumbi, okugqithisileyo, kuphuculwe ukuqonda komntu.

Ukuqulunqwa kwesakhiwo somntu

Iqukethe amazinga amane olwazi:

  1. Ulwazi olunolwazi (umzekelo, wenza isigqibo sokufunda ukubhala imifanekiso, kufunda oku, ngoko uzuze izakhono zobugcisa ezifunekayo).
  2. Ukungakwazi ukungazi (awukwazi ukudweba, njengoSalvador Dali, kwaye akukukhathazi nonke).
  3. Ukungazi kakuhle (awukwazi ukuba yintoni i-easel, kodwa uyaqonda ukuba kufuneka ufunde ukudweba).
  4. Ulwazi olungenalwazi (ukuthatha ibhulashi ngezandla, sondela ubugcisa, masithi, "kumatshini").

Ulwakhiwo lokuqonda kunye nokuziqonda

Ukuzikhumbuza kwinqanaba eliphezulu lokucaca kwisakhiwo sokuqonda. Ngenxa yokuziqonda, uyakwazi ukuqonda yakho "Ndiye", ithintela uluntu, uqonde indima yakho kuyo. Inceda umntu ukuhlalutya nokuvavanya ulwazi lwakhe, izakhono, ukuziphatha, izenzo, iingcamango. Le yimeko esemgangathweni yokuphucula ukuzimela. Ukwazi ngokwakho ulwalamano nabanye, ulungele ukukhathazeka kwakho, kuba i-collectivism ifom ephezulu.