Ngelishwa, abantwana bethu badla ngokugula. Ukwanda kweqondo lokushisa komzimba, ubuthakathaka obuninzi, impumlo yebhola, ukukhwehlela - zonke ezi ziimpawu zinyaniso ukuba umntwana wakho ubanjwe kubanda. Kufuneka kuthathelwe ukuba isizathu sesifo sinokuba kunye neenyawo ezimanzi, iifom, isiselo esibandayo (kunye nesiphumo - kubanda), kunye nokusuleleka kumntu ogulayo (sele sele i-SARS). Kodwa oku kubaluleke kokuqala kubo bonke oogqirha, kwaye ukuphathwa ngokuthe ngqo kubanda kubantwana, imbangela yesifo ayinayo impembelelo ngqo. Kwaye umzali akukhathazeki ukuba umntwana uyagula njani, kuba yena umbuzo uba yindlela yokuphilisa umntwana kubanda.
Qaphela ukuba kukho iindlela ezizodwa zonyango ezicetyiswa unyango lwabantwana. Yonke imihla kwiTV, sibona iindidi zentengiso yezobandayo, zombini ezilungiselelwe abantwana kunye neyonke, ezifanelekileyo abantwana nabakudala. Abazali bavame ukuthenga ezi ziyobisi ngaphandle kokubonisana nodokotela, ingakumbi ukuba ufuna ukuphuluza ngokukhawuleza ukubandayo kumntwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubangelwa ukungabikho kwexesha lokuba abazali batyelele ootitshala bezingane. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ufanele uvelele ingxabano enjengokungahambi kakuhle koogqirha. Kulula kubo ukuba banikeze ii-antibiotiki ezibandayo kunokukhetha enye into elula kubantwana. Oku kuyinyaniso, kodwa kaninzi umzali ophakathi akanalo imfundo ephezulu yezokwelapha, kwaye akaphatha kakubi kubanda kwizinga eliphezulu, ngoko ke akanako ukugweba imfuneko yokulwa namachiza kubantwana ekunyangeni kwamaqanda.
Nangona kunjalo, kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwisimo sengqondo sabazali bomntwana ogulayo kwiziyobisi, kunye nobukhulu besifo ngokwalo. Ukuba isifo sinomoya omnene, kunokwenzeka ukunyanga amaqanda kubantwana abanezonyango zomntu ekhaya. Kodwa kuninzi ukubandakanyeka ekuziphatheni kakubi akuyimfuneko, umzekelo, ukukhubazeka kwezingane kwabasebushushu akuyi kuhlala kulunge kunamachiza aqhelekileyo. Yaye nangona kubonakala kuninzi kuba kubazali baxazulula ukubandela komntwana, kungcono kuqala ukufumanisa uluvo lweengcali, ingaba kungenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho athathe le nto okanye i-homeopathic remedy.
Kodwa masibuyele kumanyathelo omntu okwelapha amaqanda kubantwana. Apha, umzali ufuna ukuchonga ngokuchanekileyo ugxininiso apho isifo saqala khona ngokwenene. Izilwanyana zihluke, kunokubakho intlungu emqaleni, kunye nempumlo ephilileyo, mhlawumbi ngokuthe ngqo. Emva koko, kuyimfuneko ukuphuhlisa imilinganiselo yamanyathelo aza kuhlanganisa zonke izitho ezithintekayo, ngokugxininisa kwizona "zigulayo" kakhulu. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ngokubanda ungafumana imilenze yengane yakho. Kodwa ukuba umntwana uneqondo lokushisa, kungcono ukuba angenzi loo ndlela. Umbuso weemvuthu zingadluka ngakumbi kwiinkqubo zokufudumala ezongezelelweyo. Xa ukhwehlela, ungasusa umqala wakho ngetayi ye-herbal, okanye uphuze ukukhwehlela okhethekileyo. Umva wokugqibela usengcono ukuqala udibane nodokotela. Abantu abaninzi bancedwa kakhulu ngobisi olufudumele kunye nobusi (ukuba u-honey is a). Ngomhombo obunzima kunye nomkhuhlane owomileyo, unokuphefumla phezu kweetatata, umzekelo, okanye ngaphezulu kwamanzi ashushu. Ukongezelela, ukwenza iinkqubo eziqinisayo ngokubanzi, kunokwenzeka ukuba usebenzise ioli ekhethekileyo kubantwana abasuka kumakhaza (i-Dr.Mom's ointment, ehlutha isifuba, imva kunye nemilenze yomntwana, ithandwa kakhulu ukuba ifike kumhla), yenze indawo efanelekileyo yokubantwana abagulayo. Kwaye oku kuhamba rhoqo, kunye nokucoca ngamanzi amaninzi emini kwigumbi apho umntwana ekhona khona. Oku kusebenzayo akusebenzi nje kuphela kwiinkqubo zabantu, ezinjalo kufuneka zenziwe kwonyango lokubanda, kubantwana nakubantu abadala.
Kubaluleke kakhulu isiselo esifudumele esishushu. Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukusela i-tea eqhelekileyo okanye i-compote, ngoko unako ukumnika itiye ekhethekileyo yokubanda (kubantwana), kwaye ke uqinisekise ukuba i-ingress yamanzi aphuma emzimbeni, kwaye yenza imisebenzi yokwelapha. Ezi teyayi zinambitha ezintle, ngamanye amaxesha zibala, ziba nomdla malunga nantoni na. Siyabulela kuzo zonke iintlobo kunye nokufumaneka kwamachiza, unyango olubanda kubantwana lunokwenziwa ngempumelelo ekhaya. Kodwa kufuneka uqaphele kakhulu, kuba iphathelele impilo yengane yakho, kwaye awukwazi ukuhleka naye. Kwaye ukuba kukho ithuba lokubonisana nodokotela wezilwanyana onobuchule, ngoko kufuneka kwenziwe ubuncinane ukuqinisekisa ukuba isifo sihamba ngaphandle kweengxaki.