I-psyche ye-female iyalungelelaniswa kangangokuthi, ngenxa yokwaneliseka kokuphila kunye nolonwabo, ifuna iimpawu zengqalelo, iingconywa, amazwi amnandi kunye nokunyameka emehlweni endoda. Yaye makhe sibone iinyani zobomi bemihla ngemihla. Emva kokuhlala kwinani elithile emtshatweni, phantse wonke umfazi uba ngumfazi, unina, unonophelo kunye nenkxaso kumyeni wakhe nabantwana. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, ngokulibala ngokupheleleyo ukuba usemncinci, ulungile, unomdla kwaye unelungelo lokumncoma. Ewe, ubudlelwane bezesondo kunye nomyeni wakhe abuyi kuzisa uvuyo, kodwa ube ngumkhwa, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unomsebenzi. Yintoni enokuyenza kule meko?
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kukho iindlela ezimbini-ukuzama ukulungisa ubudlelwane nomyeni wakhe okanye ukufumana enye indoda. Ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo esinjalo, umfazi ngamnye ufumana ixesha elibunzima lesazela kunye nokungathandabuzeki malunga nendlela onokuthanda ngayo, ukuba usatshatile, ngoxa uhlala usapho kwaye ulwalamano nomyeni wakhe.
Indlela yokufumana umthandi?
Ngoko, bazixazulula umbuzo kunye nesazela kunye nokuziphatha, ibhinqa ligqiba ukufumana enye indoda. Kodwa apho kwaye ubhekane nengxaki entsha, indlela yokufumana umthandi kunye nalapho uqala khona.
Ukufumana umthandi, njengengqondo yengqondo yanamhlanje, ayinzima kakhulu, kodwa kukho izicathulo ezimbalwa. Kamsinya kuyimfuneko ukukhulisa ukuhluka kweveliveli emsebenzini okanye kwinkonzo, ungayifuni phakathi kwabaqhelana nabo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ungacingi malunga nabahlobo bomyeni wakho. Iimvanoveli ezinjalo ziyingozi kakhulu ekuvezeni, kwaye ngoko ke ukuhlazeka kunye nokutshatyalaliswa kwentsapho. Ukuthandana kwi-intanethi kwiindawo ezichaphazelekayo kubandakanywa nentlanganiso kunye nabangenayo kwaye abanabantu abaneleyo.
Indawo elungileyo yenveli yilabhu yokudansa okanye isangqa. Kwiindawo ezinjalo iimoya ngokwawo inesimo sengqondo kunye nolwalamano olusondeleyo. Kwakhona unokuhlangana nomntu ofanelekileyo kumagumbi okufaneleka, imidlalo yezemidlalo kunye neefitness. Isilumkiso esisisiseko kukuba akufanele uhileleke kakhulu, uthandane, kwaye ke uceba ixesha elizayo, njengoko ukukhanya ngothando kunye nokuthandana akuqinisekisi ubuhlobo obuzinzile kwixesha elizayo.