Ukuxolisa kumhlobo

Ezobubomi kukho imeko ezininzi ezahlukileyo apho thina sizathu siziphatha kakubi okanye sibi, ngamanye amaxesha izenzo ezinjalo zingakhokelela kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeziphumo ezintle, kuquka ukuxabana nabantu abathandekayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uphikisana nomntu onendleko, oku akusiyo yonke isizathu sokususa ubudlelwane. Unokuxolisa kwintombi yakho kwaye ngoko uvuselele unxibelelwano.

Ukuxolisa kumhlobo

Ukuba uthe wacaphukisa intombi yakho, umzekelo, ukulibala ukuzalwa kwakhe okanye ukumemeza kuye, ungambiza kwaye uchaze loo meko ukuze akwazi ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni unobungozi kangaka. Ukuba ungamzwanga kakubi kakhulu, ngoko, mhlawumbi, emva kokubona ukuguquka kwakho, uya kuphawuleza. Ungadluli le meko engathandekiyo, kungekudala ungayifumanisa, bhetele kuya kuba kuwe.

Ukuxolisa kumhlobo omhle kakhulu kukuzisa intlanganiso yakhe, ngoko wabona ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nale meko engathandekiyo kwaye uzama okusemandleni akho ukuba ulungise ngandlela-thile.

Musa ukulibala ukuba ukuba intombi yakho iyancwina, kukulungele ukumnika iintsuku ezimbalwa ukuze uhambe kancane kwiimeko ezingathandekiyo.

Ungazami ukumbambisana nesipho - yinto ekhethekileyo yamadoda, abafazi phakathi kwabo banokusombulula ngokupheleleyo into ngamazwi.

Ileta eya kumhlobo ocela uxolo

Ukuba uye wakhubekisa intombi yakho kwaye akafuni ukuthetha, unendlela eyodwa kuphela yokubhala - ubhale incwadi efanelekileyo apho uchaza isizathu sesenzo esinjalo kwaye uvakalise ukuba ukhathazeke kakhulu. Into ephambili kukuba ubhale ngokunyanisekileyo uze umxelele ukuba awuyi kuphinda uphinde uphinde wenze loo mpazamo, kuba wamthintela njalo. Ndixelele ukuba ubuhlobo bakho buye buqhubeka ixesha elide. ukwenzela ukuba ungayichitheli kwizinto ezintle kwaye uzuze njengobunye bomoya.

Kule leta, akufanele uzikhusele okanye, nangaphezulu, uthi awuvumeli ityala lakho. Kule meko, uyanquma ukuba awuwamkeli kwaye awuhloneli iimvakalelo zakhe. Into ekhethekileyo kukuba uvume isohlwayo lakho, cacisa ukuba kutheni wenze njalo, kwaye kungenjalo, kwaye uthembisa ukuba ungaphinda uphinde uphinde wenze iphutha lakho. Indlela enjalo iya kubonisa isimo sengqondo sakho sengqondo kunye nomnqweno wokwenene wokulungisa yonke into.

Ungalibali ukuba unelungelo lokukuxolela ukuba, emva kokungaziphathi kakuhle kwakho, uye wawa kakhulu emehlweni akhe. Yithatha nje kwaye ube nesibindi sokuphila nemiphumo yezenzo zakho.