Abameli bobulili obufanelekileyo basoloko bekunzima ukuphula ulwalamano. Kwimeko yokudakumba okukhulu akushiyi ingcamango yokuba uyayikhohlwa njani indoda oyithandayo. Oku kunzima kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba ubuhlobo buhlala ixesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko kunzima kunokuba kubonakale, ubomi buqhubeka, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uphume kweli lizwe elibi.
Ndingakulibala ngokukhawuleza njani umhlobo?
Qinisekisa ukuba zonke izifundo zokuphila kufuneka zifunyenwe ngokubulela. Cinga ngezinto ezilahlekileyo kulwalamano lwakho. Emva kokuhlalutya yonke into, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuqonda abantu, kwaye ukwazi nokuba yimaphi amaphutha kwinqanaba lakho akufanele vunyelwe kulwalamano oluzayo. Khumbula zonke iintsilelo zeqabane lakho langaphambili, kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ongafuni ukuzenza kwixesha elizayo.
Ukucinga malunga nendlela yokulibala indoda ethandekayo, kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela iingcebiso ngabagqirha bezengqondo bazinikezela kwiimeko ezinjalo.
- Musa ukuhlala wedwa kwaye ke ungagcwalisi usizi lwakho ngotywala. Oku akuncedi nonke, kodwa kuya kwandisa ingxaki. Zama ukutyelela uluntu ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukuya kwi-cinema okanye ukuya kwindawo yokuthenga kunye nomntu osondeleyo, tyelela umyuziyam okanye ezinye iindawo oza kuba nomdla kuzo. Musa nje ukuzivala.
- Bhalisa kwi-gym. Zikhethele naziphi na izenzo zomphefumlo wakho-impilo, i-yoga, i- gymnastics , njl. Ukunyamezeleka kwengqondo kunokunceda kakhulu ukuphazamisa kwilizwe elithembekileyo. Ukongezelela, kuya kuba neenzuzo ezinkulu zempilo kunye namanani.
- Zifumana isifundo esibalulekileyo nesiluncedo. Ngokomzekelo, zibeke umgomo wokufunda into entsha. Ekuqaleni kungabonakala kunzima kwaye kungathandeki, kuba entloko kuya kuba neengcamango malunga nolwalamano olutshabalalisiweyo kunye nendlela yokulibala umntu oyithandayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba iiveki ezimbalwa zinyanzelise ukwenza izinto, kunokuba zikhala iintsuku ekupheleni, ngokukhawuleza ukuthula nokuthula kuya kuvela emphefumlweni.