Ukuthandwa kwabasetyhini

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukunika ezithile iiparitha zamantombazana ezakhayo, egxininise kuphela ekubonakalayo? Emva kwakho konke, zonke izinto zithandwa kunye nezinto ezikhethiweyo. Kwaye kutheni ke amadoda angagqitha ubuhle obuhle kwaye afikelele kwintombazana eqhelekileyo, kodwa intlekazi?

Namhlanje siza kukuxelela malunga nento ethandwa ngumfazi emehlweni omntu.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuqala kokuqala kwimizuzu emi-4 kwaye, ngokuyinhloko, kuxhomekeke ekubonakaleni: ukulungiswa, ukucoceka, umqondo wesitayela kunye nokubonakala okunempilo. Kodwa akukho zinto ezingabalulekanga phantsi kokuchaphazeleka kokuqala kunye nombono wesibini. Yiyo ngabo esiya kuthetha.

Iimfihlelo zobumnandi besithandwa

U ku kholosa

Akukho nto engaqhelekanga ngolu hlobo. Abasetyhini abazithemba ngokwabo, ukuhamba ngokuthe ngqo, intleko enhle, intloko ephakamileyo kunye nokukhululeka kwenkululeko. Ngaba uqaphele indlela amantombazana amhle atshabalalisa ngayo ubunzima bokuhamba? Ukuba neembonakalo ezintle, zidala ukucinga okuzingelwayo.

Ukongezelela, amadoda awawunyamezeli izikhalazo malunga ne-cellulite, ukungabikho kwesifuba okanye ubukho beepounds. Ibhinqa elithembekileyo lisoze likwazi ukukhanyela iziphoso zalo, nokuba likhona.

Isimo

Ukuthandwa kwabasetyhini ukusuka kwingcamango yengqondo, ngowokuqala, urhulumente wangaphakathi.

Ukubuhlungu okubuhlungu kunye nokubukeka kunamahloni ngamadoda amaninzi. Kodwa ukuhlala nomfazi ohlala ephoxilekileyo ngumgubo. Amadoda ayawaxabisa ukukhanya nokufudumala, isimo sengqondo esihle nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. Ngomfazi onjalo unako ukudala intsapho ehambelanayo.

Kwaye ke, ngubani ofuna ukuya endlwini apho kukho umoya omkhulu?

Ukungaqiniseki

Umfazi onokumangalisa, uhlala eshiya uphawu olungapheliyo kwi-subconscious yamadoda. Ngokuqhelekileyo asikhumbuli umntu ngokwakhe, kodwa iimvakalelo azibangele. Umfazi oqikelelweyo uyamkhathaza.

Intetho

I-Low, isifuba isandi kakhulu kumadoda. Ubonakala ehlaziyekile kwaye ebonakalayo, ngelixa elide lidla ngokuxhatshazwa yi-hysteria kunye nokwesaba.

Indlela yokomeleza abafazi besithandwa?

Ukwandiswa kwesibheno sowesifazane kukuba, okokuqala, usebenze ngokwakho. Akukho mgcini-nkcazo uza kwandisa ukuzithemba rhoqo, akukho nwele i-hairdresser eya kukunika ukuvisisana kwangaphakathi. Ukuze uqiniseke, kufuneka ufunde ukwamukela nokuzithanda wena nomzimba wakho. Xa ugxininisa ngakumbi kwiimpazamo zakho, xa uninzi ukondla, zibonakala zibonakala kwabanye. Funda ukuqonda nokugcizelela isidima sakho. Bhala ebhokisini, jonga kwaye uzalise.

Sebenza kwi-posture: thatha ulawulo, yonke imihla ngemizuzu eyi-15-20 uhamba nencwadi entloko. Ngexesha elide, uza kufakwa ukugcina umqolo wakho uphelele kwaye intloko yakho iphezulu.

Ngokwemvelo, akunakwenzeka ukuba uhlale uhlala entliziyweni, kodwa ukufunda indlela yokulawula imeko yakho yinto engokoqobo: ukuqinisekiswa kunye nokucamngca kuya kukunceda ukuba utshintshe kwiingcamango ezingalunganga zibe lula.

Kukho into enjalo, ebizwa ngokuba yi "Sun". Zama ukuqwalasela ibhola elimhlophe, elifudumeleyo elikhanyayo kwindawo ye-plexus. Yivakale, vumela ukuzalise ngokufudumala kunye nokukhanya. Khawucinge ukuba wena ngokwakho ubonisa ukukhanya. Ekuqaleni, ungathatha ixesha elide ukukhupha iimvakalelo eziyimfuneko. Kodwa ngeli xesha uya kuba lula ukuphumeza umphumo oyifunayo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, uya kubona ukuba abantu bakhonywe kuwe, okulula kwaye kumnandi kubo kuluntu.

Sebenza kwi ntetho. Zama ukuthetha ngokuthe ngcembe nangokuthobeka. Zama ngokungancinci ukusetyenziswa kwe-word-parasites kwaye ungasebenzisi imbonakalo engcolileyo, nokuba ngaba ihlaya.

Zama ukubheka emehlweni omnye umntu. Kuphawulwe ukuba abafazi abagwebi ukubonana nabo babonakala bengathandeki kubantu.