Iimpawu zeshwele lomfana kulula kakhulu ukuyiqonda ngokumjonga. Kodwa ukuba ezinye ze mibuzo ziphakamisa ukungathandabuzeki, eli nqaku liyakunceda ukuba uqonde indlela ochanekileyo ngayo.
Uyazi njani ukuba umntu unomona?
Njengomthetho, ukuze ufumane ukuba umfana unomona, intombazana imbalwa imizuzu. Amadoda amaninzi - abanikazi abanoyikekayo kunye nokubona kwenyameko yabesifazane babo, baqala ukukhathazeka. Ukuba uphumla kunye nomntu okhethiweyo, kunye nomnye umntu uzama ukulungiselela wena, ngoko umthandi unokubonisa imiqondiso eyahlukeneyo eya kubonisa ukuba nguwe nje, kwaye ukuzama ngabangaphandle ukunyuka "kwintsimi" yakhe kungaholela kwimiphumo emibi.
Namela ingqalelo yomntu wakho omfana xa iimeko zemihla ngemihla zenzeka. Uyasabela njani xa ebona ukuba ufunda imiyalezo emitsha efikile kuwe kwifowuni okanye kwiintanethi zentlalo? Uziphatha njani xa udibana nomntu kwisitrato lowo umthandayo engaziyo?
Qiniseka ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntu uyamthemba - akayifuni iifom yakho ngaphandle kwemvume, ayifuni kwiphepha lakho "kwi-Odnoklassniki" xa ungekho. Amanye amadoda enomona kangangokuba afuna ukulawula intombi yakhe kuyo yonke into kwaye afune ukuba awanike ukungena ngemvume kunye nephasiwedi kwiakhawunti yakhe, ukuze zonke iinkcukacha zakhe kunye noqhagamshelwano olufanelekileyo lulawulwe.
Xa umntu ekhwele, ukuphendula okuziphatha okulandelayo kuyimpawu kuye:
- Uyakwazi ukuqala ukubuza imibuzo, ukubonisa isimo sakhe sengqondo esibi, umzekelo, ukulibaziseka emsebenzini okanye ukunxibelelana kunye nesini esahlukileyo. Akunakunyulwa kwaye "ukuphanda ngemibuzo" kwifom enobudlova.
- Naluphina utshintsho oluhle ekubonakaleni kwowesifazane lungaqondwa kakubi.
- Indoda inokugqiba isigqibo sokuhamba nawe kwi-cinema, ithala, njl, ngethuba xa uhlanganisene
apho kunye nabahlobo okanye osebenza nabo. - Olunye ubonakalo lomona ngumsindo ongaqondakali kunye nomdlalo wokuthula. Kule meko, le ndoda ibonisa yonke indlela ekhubekileyo ngayo kuwe, ethule, ngokubonakalisa ukula ukutya okanye ukushiya ekhaya, kwakhona, ngokubonisa.
Kufuneka uqaphele ngokucacileyo ukuba umona akusoloko kubonakaliswa ngothando, mhlawumbi kungumntu onomlingani wakho kumlingani wakho. Yaye ukuba awufuni ukuhlupheka ngexesha elizayo ngenxa yomona wakhe ogqithise ngaphaya kwemida yonke, kubalulekile ekuqaleni kobudlelwane ukuqinisekisa ukuba indoda yakho inokuthenjwa kwaye akanakho isizathu sokukhathazeka.