Njengoko kubonakaliswa yiminkumbulo yabasetyhini ekubelekeni, kwanaxa kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, ukuhlaziywa okunempilo ngokuqhelekileyo kuya kuhlangulwa. Akufuneki ukuthetha, kuyakunceda ukugcina ukumnika okwenziwe kakuhle kunye nokunyamezela ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ukubeletha, nangemva kokuzalwa komntwana. Mhlawumbi yimi kutheni amaqhinga oomama ahlala esithandwa kakhulu ngamaxesha onke.
Isimo sengqondo esenzayo ngehlazo siya kunceda uhlale uzinzile, ngaphandle koko ujonge imeko okanye uphendule ngobumnene impikiswano. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi xa ukuxabana kuhluma phambi kobhinqa elikhulelwe, kuba amava e-crane awonakalisa imeko yomntwana.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, malunga nokutshintsha kwe-hormone, oomama abazayo baya kuhlala bexinzelelekile. Ukuphazamiseka okufutshane kunye nokumamatheka kuzakuvumela ukufunda imbali eyahlukeneyo evela esibhedlele. Emva koko, phantse yonke intokazi ebelethayo ibali elihle elishiye kwisitokhi angayibelana ngayo.
Unomama othakazelisayo udla ngokuqhagamshelana:
- ngokuhleka nokuziphatha koogqirha;
- kunye nokuziphatha komyeni ngexesha lokubeletha;
- nge emeko.
Amanqaku amnandi avela esibhedlele
Iindaba malunga nezokwelapha
- Emva kokusasaza ndathathwa kwi-corridor. Umyeni wabuza ugqirha: "Kutheni utyhawula kangaka?" Ugqirha uyamphendula athi: "Ngoko amaqabunga aya kudala!"
- Xa ekugqibeleni ndazala intombazana, udokotela okhathele owathatha ukuzala okunzima phambi kwam, ndaya ekhaya. Ndagqiba kwelokuba ndibuze kuye: "Ndixelele, kwaye okwesibini kuza kufika nini?" Ugqirha wayejonge umlindo wakhe wathi: "Ukutshintsha kwam kuya kuba ngoLwesithathu ..."
Iindaba zabafazi xa bebeletha ngokuziphatha komyeni wakhe
- Phakathi kobusuku, intombazana yaqala ukulwa. Wavusa umyeni wakhe waza wathi kwakuyisihlandlo sokuya esibhedlele. Umyeni washaywa kwaye waqala ukuzama ukubiza itekisi, ebambe ityhubhu phantsi. Xa, ekugqibeleni, babizela imoto baza bathetha ukuba ndifanele ndiye esibhedlele, umqhubi weteksi wathi uya kuzama nzima. Umyeni wakhe waphendula wathi: "Siyabonga, kodwa asiyikukhawuleza."
- Akukho nto ebi ngaphezu kokulinda. Umyeni wam naye wanikela ekutshiseni; wayehlala egijimela ngeenxa zonke ngendwendwe, kwaye xa wayeka embhedeni, wabuza: "Uphi umntwana?".
Ziyolise esibhedlele, zidibene neemeko ezingalindelekanga
- Ekunene phakathi kokuzalwa kuzo zonke izibhedlele, umbane wavalwa. Xa ndisebumnyameni obumnyama kwi-chair chair, ndaqonda ukuba kwakungaphezu kwam amandla okumisa inkqubo. Oogqirha banquma ukuzisa iifowuni zabo kwaye baqondise ukukhanya kubo apho kufuneka bahambe khona. Abantu abaninzi babemelene neenyawo zam ngeetoni, kodwa ugqirha wathi akukho ukukhanya okwaneleyo. Emva koko ndamkela ukuba ndiwuthabathe wam, kuba uneskrini esikhulu ... Nazi zizinto zokuzalwa ezijabulisayo.
Ezi ziimeko ezimbalwa nje ezimnandi ezibhedlele. Kodwa ngaphezu kweengozi ezihlekisayo nabantu, kuba besetyhini kwimiba enomdla kakhulu iimpahla ezihlekisayo kubafazi abakhulelweyo. Kukho amaxesha apho ibhinqa limele lifihle ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili. Namhlanje, oomama abanomdla ngokuchaseneyo bagxininisa imeko yabo. Kwaye abaqulunqi kule nto banceda kuphela. Iingubo kunye namahlaya kubafazi abakhulelweyo abahlukekanga kuphela ngokusikwa okhethekileyo, kodwa nangemifanekiso ehlekisayo kunye nemibhalo. Kuhle kakhulu, umzekelo, ukhangeleka njengeTekhthi eneempawu zamancinci kunye nemilenze encinci. Ubhaliso kwi-T-shirts lungakuxwayisa ukuba phambi koomama ozayo akufanele umsi.
Kutheni kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuzonwabisa xa ubeletha umntwana? Ukuhleka yindlela elula kakhulu neyona efikelelekayo yokuphelisa uxinzelelo. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafakazela ukuba abo bafazi abahleka ngakumbi xa bekhulelwe, abancitshiswa kakhulu kwizifo ze-catarrhal, kwaye abantwana babo abanalo iingxaki kwiiphetshana eziphezulu zokuphefumula. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukufunda amahlaya abhinqileyo abakhulelweyo kunokuba banoyikisayo ibali malunga nazo zonke iintlobo zeengxaki. Khu thazeka.
Emva kwakho konke, ukuba uyaphatha into eyenzekayo ngokuhlekisa kwaye uyithande umntwana wakho, ngoko akukho ntsomi eyoyikisayo malunga nokubeletha kuya kunciphisa uvuyo loba ngumama.