Mhlawumbi uye wadibana nabantu abaqinisekisileyo ukuba enye imveliso ingcono kunomnye, kwaye akukho zizathu okanye iingxabano ezingabakhokelela ngenye indlela. Oku kunokwenzeka ngenxa ye-duckling syndrome-isici sengqondo esicacileyo kwabanye abantu. Le ngcamango ayifanele idideke ne-duckling syndrome. Siza kuqwalasela ezimbini iindlela.
Umgaqo wodada
I-duckling syndrome yinto engokwengqondo apho umntu, ejongene nommandla omtsha kuye, uqala ukwahlula, into eyona nto yinto eyayiqala ukuyibamba. Umzekelo, umntu ozama iCoca-cola yokuqala, engekho i-Pepsi-Cola, uya kuqiniseka ukuba intle yakhe ibhetele kakhulu, kwaye ngokufanayo.
Isici sengqondo sasibizwa ngokuba ngumdla wokuvelisa umdaka. Xa ibhinqa liphuma kwiqanda, into yokuqala ayibona kukuba uqala ukubala njengonina, nokuba iyinto yokudlala, ikati okanye inja, umntu. Ngokufanayo, umntu, ebona into entsha, unokukwazi ukuba oku kungcono, engayithobeli ingqalelo kwinjongo. Impembelelo yodada yenza umntu abe neengcamango kunye nokungaxolisi kwezinye izimvo zabantu.
Ugly Duckling Syndrome
I-Syndrome ibhinqa elibi - nenye enye into. Imela ukuhlukaniswa kwelinye ilungu lentsapho ukusuka kwabanye. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzekayo kungaphelelanga okanye kwiintsapho ezingasebenzi, kodwa kukho ukungafani. Umntu oza kungazelelwe abe ngumfokazi, ukhula ngengqondo yedwa kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle, ubona ukuba akazange aphile ngokulindelekileyo kubazali bakhe, unobangela obu.
Kule nto kubalulekile ukufumana ubudlelwane bokomoya, ukufumana abantu abasondeleyo nabathembekileyo, abaza kuthatha umhlambi wabo. Umntu akanakuziva ukhululekile xa ephendulela ukuba angabikho emphakathini. Njengomthetho, abantu abanjalo bafuna inkxaso ye-psychotherapist, kodwa abaninzi banokujamelana nayo ngaphandle kwayo.