Ukudlala ngothando kuluhlu lwezandla zomlomo nezengxolo, izinto kunye nezinye izinto, kodwa, okokuqala, ukudlala ngothando kubugcisa. Amanye amantombazana anetalente ye-innate yokudlala ngothando, abanye kufuneka baqonde olu buchule, njengokucula okanye ukudweba. Kodwa eqinisweni, ekuqaleni ummeli wesini esilungileyo unakho ukudlala ngothando, into ephambili kukuba ukwazi ukucacisa ngokucacileyo le micimbi. Unokuyithandana njani nendoda ngokuchanekileyo, ukuze ungabonakali ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwaye unganyaniseki, okanye ingabe inzima kakhulu?
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuthandana nomntu?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, into ebaluleke kakhulu ekuqalekeni kukuthatha isigqibo malunga nenjongo yokudlala ngothando, kuba oku kuxhomekeke kuloo nto ifuna ukukhokelwa "kwimidlalo" ezayo. Ukuzonwabisa ngokuhlwa kwamanye amaxesha kuya kuba nelungelo elincinci, kwaye ukuba ufuna ukungaqhelani nalo mfana, kodwa uzama ukubandakanya naye ubude besikhathi eside, "udlale" kufuneka abe ngumbononophelo kwaye ngokukhawuleza amthabise, enze ukuba ufuna ukudibana kwakhona.
Funda ukuzithokozisa ngamadoda kunokufumana amava kuphela, ngoko kukufanele uthabathe ezinye iindlela kwaye uqale ukwenza.
- Khangela . Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukubukeka sisixhobo esikhulu sowesifazane. Kufuneka kuphela ukuba uqhagamshelane nelihlo kwaye udibanise iqabane elijongene nalo, njengokuba sele esele kumanethiwekhi.
- Smile . Ukuthakazelisa, ukudlala, ukukhanya, okutshwankqisayo, okuhlekisayo ... Njengabukeka, ukumomotheka kunokuthetha okuninzi malunga nomnini wayo kunye nenjongo yakhe. Kwaye kumbuko wokudlala ngothando, ukumomotheka kudlala ngokungabalulekanga kunokuba kubonakale.
- Chukumisa . Njengokuba ukukhanya okungaqhelekanga kuthintela ekuqaleni kokuthandana kunamandla kunokuba kukho ukunyakaza okuthe ngqo. Kufanelekile ukugcina engqondweni yonke intombazana. Chukumisa iminwe yesandla sakhe, wathinte ngepembe emlenzeni wakhe-kwaye uhlambuluke, kwaye ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uyonwabele: i-cocktail epheleleyo.
- Ingxoxo . Kwaye, ke, akufanele uvumeleke ukuphazamiseka okungaqhelekanga kwingxoxo okanye ku-frank sagging. Kungcono ukutshintsha isihloko sesincoko ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukuxelela into ethile, ungayilahla ngephutha
ezinye izihlandlo kwinqanaba lencoko, ayiyi kuba yinto engcolileyo.
Indlela yokudlala ngendoda kunye neenkcukacha ngokuchanekileyo?
Akukho bugcisa obungaphantsi kunye nokudlala ngothando. Kule meko, kuyimfuneko ukuyiqonda kakuhle kakuhle igama, kuba akukho nantoni na iyakwenza ezinye izenzo. Kwi-intanethi yee-intanethi ungathumela iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zemifanekiso kunye neengcamango okanye iifoto zakho, kodwa awukwazi ukuba unganyaniseki, amadoda ahlala efuna ukushiya indawo yokucinga , kwaye iya kuba nomdla.
Ukuthetha ngendlela yokudlala ngothando nomntu nge-SMS, kulungile ukukhumbula into ephambili: amadoda ahlale eqonda kakuhle amacebo. Ngako oko, nokuba neengcamango zimele zingabonakali kakhulu ukuze ziqondwe kakuhle.