Indoda efanelekileyo - yintoni eyithandayo?

Ngokuqinisekileyo wonke umfazi unomfanekiso wakhe womntu osondeleyo kwimeko efanelekileyo. Enyanisweni, nabani na bethu 'banamaphuzu' ethu, esiyicinga ukuba yinto ephambili. Kodwa kwinqaku lemihla, siya kuzama ukuvelisa zonke iiparamitha size sizame ukudala umfanekiso womntu ofanelekileyo.

Yintoni okufanele ibe yindoda efanelekileyo?

Siye saqulunqa uluhlu olusondeleyo lweempawu zendoda efanelekileyo. Ewe, ezi zinto ziyakwazi ukuhluka, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi, ngamnye umfazi uya kuxabisa indoda enjalo.

1. Indoda enhle yentsapho, inokuthozama . Ukuqwashisa ukubaluleka kweziko lentsapho ngokuqinisekileyo linye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba umntu uphuthuma ekhaya emva komsebenzi, kumfazi kunye nabantwana bakhe, kwaye akahambi kwibharki ukuze abukele omnye umdlalo webhola yebhola kunye nabahlobo bakhe - oku akuthethi ukuba ungumntu okhuphayo kwaye unesihenqo -ngokuchaseneyo, uthetha ngokukhula kwakhe nokunyamekela izihlobo zakhe.
2. Ikhono lokuqonda umfazi . Ngelishwa, awona maninzi abameli besini esomeleleyo banalo lwazi. Ngoko ke, amadoda anqwenela ukuphunyuka kwabasetyhini, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, ukuqonda indlela aziphatha ngayo kunye nemeko iyakuthandwa kakhulu.
3. Ubume obuhle . Nangona bethetha ukuba "musa ukusela amanzi ebusweni bakho," nokuba kunjalo, umzimba ofanelekileyo womntu uya ku kholisa nayiphi na ibhinqa. Akunjalo malunga neekhebhu ezisibhozo zenkampani yokushicilela, kwanele nje ukuba iphoswe, ingabi ngesisu saggy kunye nesibindi. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba ibhinqa linomntu onesimo esihle ngokwenyama, ngoko ke le nkosikazi inomnye ukhuthazo olongezelelweyo lokuzama ukuphucula umzobo wakhe.
4. Ukuziphatha ngokwesini kunye nobutyebi . Ikhono lokwenza umfazi, ukumnika intando kunye nokukhuthazwa ukuba aqhubeke nokuchitha ixesha kunye naye akakwazi ukuba wonke umntu.
5. Ukuzibandakanya kunye nentlalo . Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngaphakathi kwemida efanelekileyo. Ukukwazi ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantu, ngelishwa, alukho kuwo onke amadoda. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuxhasa incoko okanye ukuhambisa ngokuthe ngqo kwezinye izenzo ...
6. Ukuzinikela nokunyaniseka . Iingcamango malunga nale mpawu ziya kuba zingenangqiqo.
7. Ukuzihlaziya kunye nokuthanda ubomi . Abantu abakhayo, abaqhakazileyo bakhangele abanye.

Ukubonakala kakuhle komntu

Xa ukwakhiwa komfanekiso wendoda efanelekileyo, umntu akanakukuphepha into ebalulekileyo njengoko ibonakala. Ngamaxesha onke, umxholo womzimba wabantu awuzange ushiye abantu abangabandakanyekanga. Kakade ke, ngamaxesha onke imigangatho yobuhle iyahluka. Namhlanje sinokuyibona into ebizwa ngokuthi "inkolo" yomzimba womzimba.

Umntu ofanelekileyo womntu, ngokwemiqathango yee-polls zamazwe ngamazwe, ubonakala ngathi: ukukhula okulungileyo kumntu kungekho ngaphantsi kwe-170 cm, iinqumlo kufuneka zibe mncinci, amacangco amele aqhutywe kunye namagxa amaninzi. Amabhinqa amaninzi aqwalasela izibonda zesilisa, isizathu esilula: ingqondo yethu engqondweni kunye nemisebenzi yendalo, ukuba umntu unesimo esihle somzimba kunye nezikhwebu zokuxhoma, ngoko uhlala esenza uthando, uphilile kwaye ululungele ukuzala. Isisindo esifanelekileyo, ngokwezona zininzi, yintetho yegolide - indoda ayifanele ibe yintlupheko kwaye idakalise, ukuze ifune ukondla, kodwa ukugqithisa kakhulu kungabangela ukuhlwithwa kwabesetyhini abaninzi.

Ngaloo ndlela, sazama ukudala umfanekiso olingana nommeli ofanelekileyo wesini. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba imbono yobuhle kunye nokufezekisa ngumntu ngamnye. Ngoko ke, okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda iimpawu zokomoya, iimpawu zomntu. Khangela umntu wakho, naphezu kweempawu zakhe zomzimba, kuba iimvakalelo kufuneka zibe kwindawo yokuqala.