Indlela yokujonga ubungakanani bengubo yomntwana?

Ukuze umntwana azive ekhululekile kwiingubo, akufanele kube yinto esemgangathweni kuphela, kodwa kulungele ukukhula kunye nezinye izikhombisi. Ngoku abaninzi abantu bathanda ukuthenga nge-intanethi, okwenza kube nzima ukulinganisa izinto. Kwakhona, kulula ngakumbi ukuba abanye oomama bathenge izinto ezintsha kwivenkile ngokwabo, ngaphandle kobukho beemvumba. Ezi zizathu zenza abazali bakhathazeke ukuba izinto ezikhethiweyo ze-wardrobe aziyi kuhambelana nomntwana wazo. Ukuthenga akuzange kudangele, kubalulekile ukwazi kakuhle indlela yokujonga ubungakanani bempahla yengane. Ukulandela iziphakamiso eziyinkimbinkimbi, unokwenza izinto ngokucacileyo kubantwana.

Indlela yokwazi ubukhulu bempahla yengane: ezibalaseleyo

Ukuqinisekisa ukuba yonke into ifikile kumntwana, kubalulekile ukuba ususe ngokusesikweni imilinganiselo evela kuye. Kulula ukwenza oku, kodwa kufuneka ukhumbule imithetho ethile:

• Ukukhula kwabantwana abangaphezu kweminyaka emi-2 kulinganiselwa kwindawo yokuma, kunye nomncinci kwindawo yokulala;
• kufuneka ukuba uthathe amanani phambi kokuthenga nganye, njengoko abantwana bekhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye iipameter zabo zitshintsha;
• Kwiimeko ezininzi, abavelisi banquma ubungakanani bempahla yomntwana yokukhula, kwaye abazali banokucacisa olu lwazi kubathengisi okanye kusengaphambili ukufumana iibhile ezifanelekileyo kwi-intanethi.

Kodwa ekubeni bonke abantwana ngabanye kwaye kunye nokukhula okufanayo iiparitha zabo zingafani, ngoko ke ngaphambi kokuthenga izinto ezithile ze-wardrobe, kufuneka wenze ezinye izilinganiso:

• phambi kokuthenga iibhulukhwe uya kulufuna ukwazi ubude bomlenze, ibhinqa lezinqwenqa kunye nesinqe;
• ukuthenga ingubo, ibhatyi ibaluleke kakhulu kubhinqa, ubude bomkhono, kwaye ukuba umama uya kuhamba nendodakazi yakhe ngesambatho esitsha, ngoko ke umgca wenyonga;
• ukuthenga i-headdress, kuya kufuneka ucacise ukujikeleza kwentloko.

Kwenzeka ukuba kucetywayo ukuthenga into yomnye umntu ngenxa yesipho, kodwa akukho ndlela yokukwazi iiparitha zayo. Kule meko, unako ukulinganisela ubuninzi beengubo zabantwana ngokwetafile ezifanelekileyo, ngokusekelwe kwiminyaka yomntwana.