Umntu onamaNanny-ukujonga okutsha

Iimbonelo ebomini bethu zihlala zibaluleke kakhulu. Enye yeepateni eziqhelekileyo - umsebenzi we- nanny unokwenziwa kuphela ngumfazi. Enyanisweni, ubunjani bebhinqa buthatha ubukho beempawu ezibalulekileyo njengokuphendula ngokomzwelo, intuition, contact contact. Kodwa emva kwayo yonke into, amadoda anenani elininzi lokubaluleka, olu luncedo olukhulu ekukhulisweni nasekufundiseni abantwana: intando yeninzi, ukuhamba, umsebenzi, ukunyamezela, amandla omzimba kunye nomqondo wokuhlalutya.

Kwiminyaka emininzi emininzi kwiintsapho eziphezulu kunye nokwenza kakuhle, abaqeqeshi babantwana baqeshe kuphela ootitshala besilisa. Imisebenzi yabaqeqeshi yayiquka imisebenzi yokongamela abantwana, ukuphunyezwa koqeqesho lwabo. Kwimiba emininzi ukuqhutyelwa kwabafundisi besilisa ngenxa yezinga eliphezulu eliphezulu lemfundo kuthelekiswa nabasetyhini.

Okwangoku, kukho inkqubo yokubuyisela amadoda kumsebenzi. Ingqalelo ngokukodwa ukutyeba ukuqesha amadoda angamaNtshonalanga kumazwe aseNtshona, apho ngaphezu kwe-4% "yamadoda" asetyenziswa kwiinkalo zemfundo ngamnye (ukudibanisa amagama aseNgesi indoda - "indoda" kunye nomntwana - "nanny").

Ziziphi iimeko apho ukhetha umfana oneminyaka emininzi?

1. Xa ukhulisa umntwana kwintsapho engaphelelanga, umama ongatshatanga uqeshe umntanama ukuba ahlawule ukungabikho kwempembelelo yendoda kumntwana. Oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa ukuba umntwana akanalo oomkhulu okanye oomalume abaza kuthatha inxaxheba ekukhulisweni. Ukumema umqeqeshi kwinkwenkwe, umama uzama ukumnika imodeli yendlela yokuziphatha, kwaye le ntombazana kubalulekile ukwakha umfanekiso omhle wendoda.
2. Ngokwimeko yintsapho epheleleyo, apho uyise enjengokuthi ngokusemthethweni: akunakwenzeka ukuba aphume ekhaya ngenxa yengqesho okanye ezinye izizathu. Ngokukholelwa ukuba umntwana akanalo ngokwaneleyo imfundo yamadoda, abazali baqeshe umfana kumntu.
3. Ngamanye amaxesha kukho iimeko xa umntwana eqeshwe kungekhona nje ngomntwana, kodwa kuthethwa ukuba lo mntu uya kuqinisekisa ukukhuselwa komntwana. Iimeko ezinjalo zivela kwiintsapho apho kukho umngcipheko wokuthumba umntu kumalungu entsapho ngenjongo yokungena okanye ukufunwa kwehlawulelo. Kakade ke, kule meko, iimfuno ezizodwa zifakwe kwi-"punched nanny" - kufuneka abe nelayisenisi eyongezelelweyo yemisebenzi yokukhusela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, iinkonzo zolu titshala zibiza kakhulu.
4. Kwezinye iimeko, indoda enomntwana inokukhetha kuphela ngenxa yamandla omntu ayadingeka. Abasebenzisi abakhubazekile abakhubazekile abakancinci ukuhamba. Umongikazi-manzi akaqhubeki kuphela ukuqhuba inkqubo yemfundo kunye nemfundo, kodwa naye wenza izenzo ezinzima zokuphatha umntwana, njl njl.
5. Ngamanye amaxesha umfundisi-titshala uyamenywa ukuba asebenze ngenxa yesisombululo ngokupheleleyo - umona wesifazane. Kwenzeka ukuba idrama zangempela zenzeka kwintsapho kuba iqabane lilingwa ngumntwana omncinci. Ibhinqa elijongene nobuhlungu, okanye ngubani oloyiko lwimeko enjalo, kunokukhetha umntu onomntwana ngokukhulisa umntwana. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukhetho lomnxeba wesilisa lunceda ukuphepha iingxabano zentsapho.

Ngethuba lophando, abazali aba-8 kwabayishumi baphendula ukuba babona ukuba kuyamkeleka ukuba nenannyana njengomntwana. Ngaphezu koko, abaninzi abaphendulayo bathi banokuthanda ukuba abantwana babo babe nootitshala besilisa. Abanye abathatha inxaxheba kwisaveyibhile bakholelwa ukuba ukukhetha i-nanny kumntwana akufanele kusekelwe kwisini, ngenxa yabo ubugcisa bomsebenzi kubaluleke kakhulu. Mhlawumbi, umongikazi wesifazane unenzuzo enenjongo kuphela ekunakekeleni abantwana abancinci - abantwana be-thoracal kunye abantwana abafundela ukuya esikolweni ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu.

Umfana-umfazi okanye indoda-indoda? Kuye kuwe! Xa ufuna i-nanny yengane yakho, sebenzisa iinkonzo zama-arhente aziwayo. Qiniseka ukuba ufunda iziphakamiso ezisuka kumsebenzi wakho wangaphambili, thatha ixesha lokuthetha nabaviwa kwisithuba ukuba ubone i-diploma yengcali, i-crusts malunga nokugqiba izifundo ezizodwa. Jonga indlela ootitshala kunye nabafundi abaza kudibana ngayo. Abantwana - into ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini, ngoko, baphatha ukubonakala komntu obalulekileyo ebomini babo kunye noxanduva olupheleleyo.