Abantwana bakhula ngokukhawuleza, ngoko ke, kubonakala ngathi, ngoku kutshanje kwi-ajenda kwakuyimibuzo yokulungisa utshintsho, kwaye namhlanje umama osemncinci ucinga ngendlela yokondla umntwana osuswini. Isihloko sinomdla kakhulu, njengoko sichaphazela iinkalo ezininzi zobudlelwane phakathi koomama nomntwana, isimo sempilo, iintsapho kunye neentsapho. Kule nqaku, makhe sizame ukubona indlela yokunyamekela ngokufanelekileyo nangentlungu.
Yintoni ebalulekileyo ukwazi ngaphambi kokuxothwa?
Ukupheliswa kokunycenkceshela kuyisigqibo esisigxina. Kule meko, umntu akanakuxhomekeka kwiingcebiso zikagogo, amantombazana kunye nabanye abanomdla.
Ukungabikho kwezi ngxaki xa kukho izibonakaliso ezizodwa, ezifana nokugula kukaMama, ukuhamba ngokunyanzeliswa kunye nezinye iimeko ezingahambelani nokuncelisa. Bonke abanye, ingakumbi abo oomama abondla abantwana ixesha elide, ngaphambi kokuba bancancise umntwana, kungcono ukucinga ngenyameko ngexesha kunye nendlela yokwenza ngokuchanekileyo.
Ngoko, umbuzo wokuqala kunye neminye umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu - ungakanani ukukhupha okuvela kwisifuba?
Ngelishwa, ayikho yobudala bekhonkrithi xa umntwana uya kulungele ngokupheleleyo ukuyeka ubisi lomama. Ngokomzekelo, abanye abantwana bezinconywa bancoma ukuqhubeka nokuncelisa kunyaka ukuya kwiminyaka emi-2. Udokotela wezilwanyana owaziwayo uYevgeny Komarovsky uncoma ukondla unyaka o-1, ucinga ngokutya okungakumbi. Ukuba kukho into enjalo, emva kweenyanga ezintandathu zokuqala umntwana kufuneka abe kuphela kwisifuba, kuba ngeli xesha ukhangeleka kakhulu kwiintsholongwane kunye neentsholongwane. Ezinye iintsana kunye nokuqala kokusungulwa kokutya okuncedisayo ngokuthe ngcembe zithatha ubisi, ngelixa unina akanakho ukukhathazeka okungadingekile.
Ukuqhawula ukuxothwa kwamanye amazwe kungcono xa:
- umntwana uyagula okanye amazinyo akhe atyathwa;
- Umama akanakuziva;
- Umama akaqinisekanga ngokupheleleyo ngesigqibo sakhe;
- kwisitalato eshushu ehlobo okanye ubhubhane lwe-viral kunye nebandayo.
Iindlela eziSiseko
Ukuba ixesha lihambelana, umama nomntwana balungele ukuxothwa, ungakhetha iindlela ezimbini.
- Omnye wabo ubonisa ukupheliswa kokunciphisa kokuncincika: inkokheli ishintshe ngokunyanisekileyo ukubelesa kunye nezinye ukutya. Kukulungele ukuqala ngokutya kwemini, kwaye emva kwexesha elithile ukushiya ubusuku. Le nkqubo ithatyathwa ngokungakumbi ngokunyamekela ingqondo yengane, ngaphandle kwayo ikhuselekile kwimpilo yomama.
- Oomama abathile bakholelwa ukuba akuve buhlungu ukukhulelwa umntwana osuswini. Okokuthi, ngelinye ilanga, ngokukhawuleza uyeke ukuncelisa isifuba sakho somntwana. Ukuze ndikuxelele inyaniso, le ndlela iyancipha, kwaye idinga umfazi onomonde omkhulu kunye noxinezelo.